Been seeing this 21 year old for about 3 months now. We fell for eachother pretty quickly. The sex is hit or miss...sometimes it’s incredible, sometimes I bust too early or am too tired and she ends up Unsatisfied.
I notice that when the sex is good, I feel much closer to her emotionally. When i underperform, I feel myself drifting away from her. I’ve been stressed with work lately and my last few performances in the sack haven’t been top notch. Even though her interest level remains constant and she always texts me and calls me, I find my confidence at a low point and not as connected with her. I want to stay loyal to her but I am wondering if I may be more sexually compatible with someone else.
With women, the more foreplay you can, the better. You can make her *** just by rubbing your fingers against her ***** with the panties inbetween if you can build the right atmosphere. My tips for you are:
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Talk with her during it, make spicy questions, if you can be dominant enough, make her ask and beg a little bit.
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Lots of foreplay, and if you want more detailed tips...
- Breath on her neck, softly. As things get hotter, give her some long kisses on her neck and closer to her shoulder.
- Kiss her slowly. The neck and the back of the neck are extremely sensitive part. If you can kiss and keep on caressing the back of her neck with the tip of your fingers, she'll just keep on opening herself more and more for you.
- Go, do a little bit, tease her, back away. Put your hand on her thighs, get inner, caress but don't go further. This builds anticipation. She'll start reaching out more and wanting more from you as you're doing that, also it shows her that you're not desperate. Making sex look like it's her idea and that she needs it is one effective way to drive a woman wild.
- Feel her body with her hands. You choose between going hard or soft. If you're building anticipation and is still just making out, go softer. If you're feeling like escalating quicker, go a bit harder. Once you feel she's open for you, grab her ass and squeeze it, bring her closer, give her some good kisses, even slap her ass. Show her with your touches that she's yours.
- Don't rush to **** her. If you do things right, you're capable of making her *** one or two times just by teasing her, rubbing your fingers against her *****, squeezing and slapping her ass, same with her tits, most girls also likes sucking your finger to tease you, that's something you can try. You just have to rub your thumb against her lips while playing with her *****, she'll do the rest.
- You can go oral, finger her or **** her after that. It's up to you. I personally feel like ****ing just after the 2nd orgasm because she's gonna be way more sensitive, extremely submissive and if you're a guy that doesn't last long, you can **** her till the 3rd orgasm and call it a day - great sex. Or, you can keep on ****ing till you both are dying of tiredness and give her a night she won't ever forget.
- When ****ing her, especially from behind, breath right next to her ear, get closer, pull her hair, pull her body to yours. Women love feeling that their men are going wild on sex like that.
- Remember that most times, less is more. Sex isn't about time, but quality. Once you're good enough, you'll be able to get her wet and wanting to be playing down there by 20 minutes to half an hour, building anticipation, teasing her. By playing with her, you can make her *** 2 times. If you do everything right and she's crazy for more, you will be able to make her *** every 15 to 20 minutes or so. If you have enough dominance to make her hold her orgasm, she'll have an even stronger orgasm.
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Be confident and dominant.
