metalwater
Master Don Juan
of course, I am against this. but do understand it.
if you want discretion, make sure she also needs discretion.
if you want discretion, make sure she also needs discretion.
This sounds good. 100 mile rule. Other than work, what is the excuse to get that far away?I'd say if you seriously need a different flavor, Observe the 100 mile rule, Make it a one off event, be safe (protected sex).
100 mile rule: outside of your social circle and out of town
One Off: One night stand or one weekend and never see them again. Take their number out of your phone
Safe Sex. No bringing home diseases or siring a kid.
Best way is the 21 legal brothels in Nevada. I seriously think it should be nationwide.
If you need to branch out more than once a year, you should really consider whether you should be in an LTR.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I believe you.The vast amount of men do not cheat. They are hanging on to what they have. Divorce is severe punishment for men. Very severe.
Maintenance and child support can put you in a trailer park or sleeping on someone’s couch in a heartbeat.
Loyalty is more about ensuring the wife and kids survive and he gets acknowledgement for his hard work. Do not be fooled by the phrase...”Well men do it too!”
Social media is as damaging to men as it is for women. Just differently. If men left social media, women would become quite desperate. It would flip the world upside down. I haven’t been on social media in over five years. I don’t seem to be running out of a$$ to indulge in.
^^^ TruthSocial media is as damaging to men as it is for women. Just differently. If men left social media, women would become quite desperate. It would flip the world upside down.
Don't you have hobbies that you can pursue/compete at regional or national levels? Interests that have conventions in Vegas?This sounds good. 100 mile rule. Other than work, what is the excuse to get that far away?
The side b!tch game only works if you're cool enough for your "main b!tch" to know about the side b!tch and tolerate it. Since you don't fall in that category (otherwise, you wouldn't be asking this question), it's probably not going to work for you.Do not judge.
You have gone through the motions, been at this game for years and finally found a good, healthy LTR.
But once in a while you crave another woman, yet at the same time have no interest in leaving your LTR.
How would you go about it, how are the rules different? How would you maneuver around bedding an occasional stray if you and your girl live together, or are so close that “pop ups” are now acceptable?
and I don’t wanna hear “don’t do it”, “a man keeps his word” or none of that white knight, Disney movie Prince Charming bs.
I see a regular "Side *****" is seldom going to be happy with that role for very long. Unless the guy is her "side guy".The side b!tch game only works if you're cool enough for your "main b!tch" to know about the side b!tch and tolerate it. Since you don't fall in that category (otherwise, you wouldn't be asking this question), it's probably not going to work for you.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Usually aren't. Most people are average or below.I see a regular "Side *****" is seldom going to be happy with that role for very long. Unless the guy is her "side guy".
A female friend of a friend is her guy's side ***** but he treats her like his main. The main acts like she doesn't give a damn as long as her guy keeps footing the bill for her trips out of town with "girlfriends"
None of the 3 are physically very high on the chart in attractiveness either.
She doesnt even need to be better looking. It could be that she has different sized t!ts or different shaped nice ass or her sexy charisma. The key word is different. Having the same thing over and over again does get stale.I always stumble upon same thing whenever I'm in ltr. It's in our nature, craving for more women. You're current gf may be really hot but it's just a matter of time when the better looking girl will walk by.
If you're not living together it's very possible to get a side girl and bang her occasionally.
The same way we want to bang another women, women wants and do the same.Do not judge.
You have gone through the motions, been at this game for years and finally found a good, healthy LTR.
But once in a while you crave another woman, yet at the same time have no interest in leaving your LTR.
How would you go about it, how are the rules different? How would you maneuver around bedding an occasional stray if you and your girl live together, or are so close that “pop ups” are now acceptable?
and I don’t wanna hear “don’t do it”, “a man keeps his word” or none of that white knight, Disney movie Prince Charming bs.
If you are this type, there are a couple angles you can try at the risk of losing your current girl. I know lot of guys have this issue.Here's the thing I'm finding out myself... I cannot be satisfied sexually with one Woman however I don't want to hide that fact by having a secret side chick. I feel like it would just be too much of an unnecessary pain in the ass to hide and lie.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Good post. Appreciate the info man. Last week I was laying on the bed at her place and she kept trying to get sexual with me but I just wasn't interested. I was interested in looking at my Investments. I don't know but maybe I was just not in the mood but ultimately she got a a little frustrated and I told her that I was just not sexually aroused at the moment. Forget it, she went on about how Im not attracted to her and she feels bad now etc. then started crying. I did feel bad because I dont want my girlfriend to feel like this but ...... I just wasnt aroused.If you are this type, there are a couple angles you can try at the risk of losing your current girl. I know lot of guys have this issue.
1. If you act or show that you're depressed and you've been going out with your gal for awhile, she'll pick up on this. This will create a situation where you can start a dialogue about your depression. This is where you can talk about your feelings of being with other women. Some will be receptive to it and some will not. However they will know it is affecting you and it will give both of you a chance to either try something new or go your separate ways.
2. If you haven't been going out with your main girl for awhile and you feel like you need to move on with someone else yet are torn between breaking up or not. Break up with her first but give her your reasons for doing so. Sometimes if a girl really likes you, she will entertain continuing to see you(at whatever capacity you two agree to).
I've done both with previous plates and gf's and it's worked some times. Just note that there is a finite timeframe for this to last and it won't be forever.
I had my first RP moment when a gal I was seeing told me I could see others as long as I wore condoms with them. After a few of these moments, I really believed in the fact that women would rather share an Alpha rather than be monogamous with one Beta.
Can't you just tell your girlfriend this stuff? I mean, why do random guys on the internet get to know this stuff, but you guys' girlfriends don't haha. I've never been in a relationship, but intuitively I feel that even having to hide this to "make it work" or whatever doesn't make sense. If you tell her then either you'll work forth a solution or it'll end somehow... both of those seem better to me than hiding things from each other just to maintain a purgatory of a relationship.I'm still scrolling through this thread because I know how OP feels and I myself feel this way even though my GF has treated me very well aside from that one crazy episode where she thought I was trying to fvck her friend. (From my last thread about a Man being satisfied with one Woman).
Here's the thing I'm finding out myself... I cannot be satisfied sexually with one Woman however I don't want to hide that fact by having a secret side chick. I feel like it would just be too much of an unnecessary pain in the ass to hide and lie. Some Men are fine with just having their one Woman but I know there are many many Men who desire multiple Women for sexual variety.
Men want their main Woman who they actually care for and love but drilling the same hole for the rest of your life is a pretty terrifying thought.
You don't have to mention specifics about what you do with other girls - your plates won't appreciate that and you'll just end up shooting yourself in the foot. BUT - if you do want to play the field then you DO need to make that clear at the start with each plate to avoid unnecessary drama later on down the line.So, with a plate, if she asks what I did the other night, it’s advised for me to be honest and say that I was in a date with another girl?
I have told this to my GF. I didn't want to act like I didnt desire other Women sexually. We had a talk about it.Can't you just tell your girlfriend this stuff? I mean, why do random guys on the internet get to know this stuff, but you guys' girlfriends don't haha. I've never been in a relationship, but intuitively I feel that even having to hide this to "make it work" or whatever doesn't make sense. If you tell her then either you'll work forth a solution or it'll end somehow... both of those seem better to me than hiding things from each other just to maintain a purgatory of a relationship.