Nervous breakdown

[Lookatu]

In the mid-90s when I lived in Europe, Prague was the place to go. Not sure what it is like now but back then I've never in my life had so many drop dead gorgeous women throwing themselves at me. It was almost unbelievable.

Prague used to be so many times better before they started filming all these movies there. IMO, Mission Impossible started the whole movie set craze there and really put it on the map. This infected their country with more westernized behaviors and inflation.

I remember you could live like a king there for $300/week back in the mid 90's before everything got expensive there.

 

[Chubb46]

I can't take the simping and beta behavior anymore. I CANT MESSAGE ANY GIRL!!!!!!!!! they all have 1000000000 ****ing guys calling them queen or congratulating them on their birthday or saying how beautiful, sexy, sweet, cute, amazing, incredible, special they are. Begging them to message them. How the **** is this world gonna continue like this? What can I do? Become one of the 1000 guys in her inbox trying to get with her? And they are not even conventionally "hot" girls - far from it. It's literally driving me insane, that's why I wrote this to vent.

The simping is out of control. You guys have no fvcking idea how bad it is...

I think it all comes down to being yourself. You'll stand out of 10000 dudes if she's into you and a worthwhile human. No need to travel to a distant land.

 

[AttackFormation]

Are the demographics of where you are relocating to significantly different than where you are now?

Once you are actually in an area with more women to interact with, that actually match your preference, I suspect you will rise to meet the occasion just fine.

August may seem far off now. It’s coming. Hang in there.

I don't really know where to go yet thanks.

My criteria for an ideal location (I would never expect to find all 4 of these in one place) would be:

1 - Warm winters, that's the main reason I'm moving.
2 - Plenty of big girls, since that's my preference.
3 - Not too vehicle-based, or you'll never even see any women outside of their homes and cars, let alone be able to talk with them. If it's vehicle-based then something else has to make up for it, like OLD being very good there or something else.
4 - Relaxed and open social atmosphere, women think making eye contact, smiling and being approached in daily life is normal, not (as here) strange or unthinkable outside of situations with alcohol (and last I looked, even in clubs there is zero interaction between the genders going on unless they already came with each other).

The problem has to be your demographics.

Here in the states, we have rural county type women and city type women. The mentality, attitude and behavior of these women are opposite of each other.

I'm certain that once you are in your element, the frustrations will vanish.

And by the way, I consider you to be one of the more intelligent members on the forum. Glad to see your return.

I once traveled to USA to see a girl there (which I knew was a bad idea but did anyway), she was from a multimillion city. As soon as I texted that I'd landed, it started going - and ended - very badly. But that's all I have in the US context, not exactly enough to make any conclusions on that topic haha. I don't have enough experience with different women from rural and urban areas or from different countries.

Where in the US are you? out on a plain in Montana? down in rural Georgia? in some mega metro? mid-sized city? I ask because I would be interested in hearing your experience in more depth.

Happy to be appreciated! I'm glad to see some of you guys here too. I took a long break from thinking about women, but now I indeed can't help being back.

 

[Lookatu]

I prefer big girls.

But I really don't have enough experience with different women from rural and urban areas, and from different countries, to say anything on this topic.

Go to Kentucky or Tennessee where you have some southern comfort type girls. There you can build a big girl harem easily. Lol

 

[LiveYourDream]

I don't really know where to go yet thanks.

Maybe in the name of research you could set up a dating AP, listing your location as a city you might consider visiting. You can then see how responsive the women are there, to your profile, etc, especially the ones you find most attractive. I think it’s more than reasonable to scope a dating pool out that way, before visiting on a trip and especially before moving.

Beyond that, I think you could be well served to have more women responding to your profile so you can differentiate, if your pics/profile need to be tweaked more or if it’s more a matter of demographics.

I think your confidence will skyrocket once more of that positive female feedback starts rolling in for you, even if it’s temporarily from women not in your immediate area.

Just an idea.

 

[17 shots]

Hmm...you went off on a tangent in colas thread, and now I'm seeing this...


You're acting like a little b1tch right now lol

 

[BMX]

Prague used to be so many times better before they started filming all these movies there. IMO, Mission Impossible started the whole movie set craze there and really put it on the map. This infected their country with more westernized behaviors and inflation.

I remember you could live like a king there for $300/week back in the mid 90's before everything got expensive there.

I went to Prague a year ago. It was overpriced and full of westernized bullshet. I left them with the gift of the Rona unbeknownst to me.

 

[Lookatu]

I went to Prague a year ago. It was overpriced and full of westernized bullshet. I left them with the gift of the Rona unbeknownst to me.

Yeah best time was 1985-1995 at the latest.

 

[Black Widow Void]

As to your questions, I prefer not to reveal too many specifics openly on this forum. If you want to PM me, I'll divulge more.

I'll say this much. I live in a more (so-called) 'metropolitan' type area. Here's the kicker though. While I can't complain, I mesh much better with New England gals. I had wondered if it was just that the cool ones were moving around my area or if it's a cultural thing... and so, one day I logged into match and did a search in more New England type cities. There is definitely a difference in culture. New England women seem more comfortable with themselves, less hung up, less baggage, more expressive on their profiles and also more articulate.

Naturally, it's the personals and a limited scope of females, but if you do a search in different US states and cities, this will give you a general idea of their, culture, attitudes, etc... You probably have a 'type' and searching different areas will probably give you an idea where your type might be more abundant.

 

[bat soup]

Just so we are clear, this will work for non-white black or mixed-with black guys too? Nobody want any disappointments, but I hear Filipinas are more racist than some white women are. I kid you not. 99.99% of Filipina escort ads all say "no blacks". These women basically worship white guys. I've never once heard any black poster speak highly or express any conquest with Asian women of any sort.

I think the problem with escorts might be that Filipinas tend to be very small and black guys have the reputation for being extra big. Otherwise I'm sure they'd be happy to take anyone's money. As for experience with normal women, you'd have to ask a black guy that's spent time there to get an idea of what to expect.

 

[SirBigBell]

Just so we are clear, this will work for non-white black or mixed-with black guys too? Nobody want any disappointments, but I hear Filipinas are more racist than some white women are. I kid you not. 99.99% of Filipina escort ads all say "no blacks". These women basically worship white guys. I've never once heard any black poster speak highly or express any conquest with Asian women of any sort.

You raise a very interesting point that is worth investigating i think. Here is my untested theory:

There are in general certain tastes that are common and prevalent in certain ethnicities. Caucasians have traditionally preferred slim chicks, while heavier-set big booty women are the beauty benchmark in the Black community.

Asian women in general are slim and tiny in stature, attributes that naturally are more likely to appeal to white males than black. Throw in the rampant myth that black guys have big truncheons and you have Asian women possibly thinking if its worth dating a black dude and risk getting their tight keyholes split open. Black dudes on the other hand love their women big and are less likely to find tiny Asian women with flat chests, no hips and no bums attractive.

Thats just my untested theory.

 

[corrector]

I think the problem with escorts might be that Filipinas tend to be very small and black guys have the reputation for being extra big. Otherwise I'm sure they'd be happy to take anyone's money. As for experience with normal women, you'd have to ask a black guy that's spent time there to get an idea of what to expect.

The escorts in the specific ads come in all shapes and sizes, including thick. I have also experienced some micro aggressions from Filipina women who were overly nice to white customers but either have an attitude or were rude when I dealt with them. So I would not give them a pass on such an excuse like body type. I never have any issue with white women that registered like a bad taste. A white woman does not have to prove something so they are usually better to deal with. They dont have a white trophy boyfriend mindset.

Also for the record, my black cousin married a Filipina woman and she has been wicked with him. She would not even call 911 when he had an asthma attack and he had to crawl on the floor to reach for the phone. She also beats him up, breaks plates, and has temper tantrums. I hear no good thing about that woman except that she knows how to behave when other people are around. We believe his wife is racist and if my cousin were white then she would have respected him better like her sister who married a white man does.

While it may be unfair to condemn all Filipinas or Asians as racist becauae I am not God and I cant see people's hearts and while you are correct that there is a primal interest in thick girls like I feel I am in paradise to deal with a thick girl, you cant help but have sine doubts as those types of girls or escorts being the first choice of women I would pursue even if I am able to whitemax.

 

[bat soup]

The escorts in the specific ads come in all shapes and sizes, including thick. I have also experienced some micro aggressions from Filipina women who were overly nice to white customers but either have an attitude or were rude when I dealt with them. So I would not give them a pass on such an excuse like body type. I never have any issue with white women that registered like a bad taste. A white woman does not have to prove something so they are usually better to deal with. They dont have a white trophy boyfriend mindset.

Also for the record, my black cousin married a Filipina woman and she has been wicked with him. She would not even call 911 when he had an asthma attack and he had to crawl on the floor to reach for the phone. She also beats him up, breaks plates, and has temper tantrums. I hear no good thing about that woman except that she knows how to behave when other people are around. We believe his wife is racist and if my cousin were white then she would have respected him better like her sister who married a white man does.

While it may be unfair to condemn all Filipinas or Asians as racist becauae I am not God and I cant see people's hearts and while you are correct that there is a primal interest in thick girls like I feel I am in paradise to deal with a thick girl, you cant help but have sine doubts as those types of girls or escorts being the first choice of women I would pursue even if I am able to whitemax.

I think if your cousin married a Filipina then she couldn't be all that racist. But he should never have allowed a woman to treat him with that kind of disrespect and he should have kicked her out the moment the bs started.

As far as escorts go, some do have preferences and maybe some are indeed racist. What can I say? It's hardly the most honourable profession and they don't have a pimp's ethics board to complain to. But there are so many of them that you can just choose another.

 

[corrector]

I think if your cousin married a Filipina then she couldn't be all that racist. But he should never have allowed a woman to treat him with that kind of disrespect and he should have kicked her out the moment the bs started.

As far as escorts go, some do have preferences and maybe some are indeed racist. What can I say? It's hardly the most honourable profession and they don't have a pimp's ethics board to complain to. But there are so many of them that you can just choose another.

Except if it is a Filiipina escort. They are in the minority so there may only be 5 and 4 or all 5 are like that out of 300+ escorts. But its not difficult for me to whitemax since 80% of what makes me look like I am mixed with black is my hair. Would just need a haircut and dress well before trying that out, but it wont ever be my first choice. I am also averse to dealing with escorts. Even communicating with one can lead to a lustful trance and derail a day with impusive and aggressive spontaneous fapping.

But I get its also unfair to make a false equivalancy and compare chasing real girls and booking escorts as some people might find that offensive.

 

[Gstring]

Geez kids, what are you talking about? I just put a up a girl profile, I had it for several years, just logged in to it, and guess what? I don't see those women meeting any of those guys. It would take a don juan to get any of those girls interested in a date, unless I'm missing something and ***K pic should send a girl racing to my house.

 

[bat soup]

Except if it is a Filiipina escort. They are in the minority so there may only be 5 and 4 or all 5 are like that out of 300+ escorts. But its not difficult for me to whitemax since 80% of what makes me look like I am mixed with black is my hair. Would just need a haircut and dress well before trying that out, but it wont ever be my first choice. I am also averse to dealing with escorts. Even communicating with one can lead to a lustful trance and derail a day with impusive and aggressive spontaneous fapping.

But I get its also unfair to make a false equivalancy and compare chasing real girls and booking escorts as some people might find that offensive.

In the end, whatever prejudices someone has, what matters is if they find YOU attractive.

There are always the two options wherever you go in the world - you can pay or you can find someone that likes you. There are advantages and disadvantages to either one.