While what you say is true, I have found that it is very easy to distinguish myself from those simps, and women respond VERY well to it. Yes women do love the attention and yes they have many guys constantly bombarding them, but the validation and good feelings they get from those kinds of guys is short-lived, and not very powerful. They can get by on it for a while but it's like if you love macaroni and cheese but then ended up having to live off it in a survival situation for months. After just a few days it would lose its appeal. The second thing to understand is that if you know your value, then you know you are better than 99% of those guys who are messaging her. And she knows it too.
If you are stuck doing online game - social media, online dating, etc, then you cannot really break free of being seriously impacted from the issue you spoke of. But when you can get out in the public and talk to women, and adjust your lifestyle so you are in a place where there are many of the kinds of women you like, and get yourself into hobbies/activities/sports that draw high quantities of those women, then this is where you can REALLY shine. The last girl I dated for a year was a stunner. She had guys messaging her CONSTANTLY, via Instagram, Facebook, Text Message, etc. I even dumped her a few times for crossing my boundaries (unrelated to her simps) and despite the fact that she had extreme abundance, she still begged me back for weeks and weeks until I gave her a second chance. This just proves that if you are a high-value man, women don't want those simps - they want the high value man.
Now there are exceptions to everything and I have certainly had an ex get with a beta orbiter before, but from a statistics standpoint, everything I say above is true. It isn't guaranteed, and nothing is forever, but it is very powerful and it works. Being bold, not being needy, talking to women, being comfortable talking to them, challenging them a little, not being easily impressed.... you do that and you've got yourself covered. Any woman who prefers the attention of her beta orbiters over dating a high-value man has screened herself out as not mentally sound and not dating material - she is a broken attention *****. Believe it or not, not all women are like this. Yes the trend is getting 1000x worse as time goes on thanks to social media, but there are still PLENTY of women out there who aren't that broken in this way.