Marriage vs sex

[Suave88]

@BeExcellent would love your input on this.
We know women marry across or up in terms of money. This is how the hottie marries the ch0de who has a good paying job. But in terms of sexuality does money matter for a 20 something year old stud? Im good looking and very in shape but broke as a joke. (im fixing it I was just in a bad position i am not whining). I am ****ing a 19 year old and an 18 year old however i have grown a milf fetish. Do milfs go for 20 year old something studs even if hes a loser in the finance department?

I had cougar when I was 23, and another when I was 32. No, neither one care. The first one was 40 or so and I was 23. The second who just 6 years older, married, no kids. No, they just want to have fun and fvck. However, it does not always last.

 

[Lordeterra]

I had cougar when I was 23, and another when I was 32. No, neither one care. The first one was 40 or so and I was 23. The second who just 6 years older, married, no kids. No, they just want to have fun and fvck. However, it does not always last.

That’s what I want.

 

[SW15]

I had cougar when I was 23, and another when I was 32. No, neither one care. The first one was 40 or so and I was 23. The second who just 6 years older, married, no kids. No, they just want to have fun and fvck. However, it does not always last.

I had sex with many older women in between 18-29. It is really exciting between 18-24 or so. By the 2nd half of your 20s, you usually often develop a preference for women your own age. While I get the appeal of having sex with an older woman as a younger man (18-24), the time is better spent seducing women around your own age.

Damn it! Guess I have to settle for 18-24 year olds been having a massive turn on for milfs though lately idk. I think it’s the fact that they are getting older and still want to feel beautiful and I want to be the stud to make them feel that way

It's not really settling. Having sex with 18-24 year olds is on the whole better than the attractive 30/40 something woman. You also have your entire 30s-40s to have sex with 30s-40s attractive women. When you are 40, it will be easier to bang a 38 year old than a 21 year old. Enjoy the access to the youngest women while it's easier to get.

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@Lordeterra
I think being broke and not having any ambitions doesn't really become an issue until you start getting past 25 and approaching 30. Most women that are your age or in your dating age range (18-25ish) are mostly going to go for a man that they are attracted to and one that they find is "fun", whether that be clubbing all the time, smoking, etc.

I feel that this changes once you start getting towards 30, because the women looking for men in this age range are going to go for a man that they are attracted to but also one that seems to have goals, ambitions, can provide security, etc. The reason for this is that many women approaching 30 start feeling pressure to lock down a man to whom she can have babies with.

As for milfs going for very young men, I think this happens but I also feel you have been watching too much porn. I feel many women don't go for much younger men not because they aren't attracted to them but more so to do with some sort of internal struggle they have going on. Something like "he's young enough to be my son" and then they start rationalizing why they shouldn't follow through with it.
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Women in their 30s don't often go younger. When they do, it's because they've experienced some trauma like a failed marriage or a failed longer term relationship. Sexual relationships where the woman is 7-15 years older than the man usually have a shelf life of 6-12 months at best. It's mostly a rebound thing for the woman and feeling sexy again. For the man, he might get to sex an attractive older woman but he's often in a position for that due to not competing well for women his own age.

You can easily be an unambitious man if you're good looking from 18-27. Late 20s into early 30s in most cases, you should have something going for you work wise. It can be either a blue collar or a white collar job. Be aware that the women attracted to and in relationships with blue collar men are slightly different than the women attracted to and in relationships with white collar guys.

Speaking about myself personally? No. Men young enough to be my offspring hold no allure for me, irrespective of looks or body or anything else...

But there are women who love a young hot stud just as the whole Mrs. Robinson older experienced woman appeals to young men & has for years

This I don't understand. I'm in my late 30s and I'd be excited about having sex with an 18-22 year old. That's someone who could conceivably be my daughter, though I would have been a young teen parent.

 

[B80]

I had sex with many older women in between 18-29. It is really exciting between 18-24 or so. By the 2nd half of your 20s, you usually often develop a preference for women your own age. While I get the appeal of having sex with an older woman as a younger man (18-24), the time is better spent seducing women around your own age.



It's not really settling. Having sex with 18-24 year olds is on the whole better than the attractive 30/40 something woman. You also have your entire 30s-40s to have sex with 30s-40s attractive women. When you are 40, it will be easier to bang a 38 year old than a 21 year old. Enjoy the access to the youngest women while it's easier to get.

QUOTE="sangheilios, post: 2803161, member: 143269"]
@Lordeterra
I think being broke and not having any ambitions doesn't really become an issue until you start getting past 25 and approaching 30. Most women that are your age or in your dating age range (18-25ish) are mostly going to go for a man that they are attracted to and one that they find is "fun", whether that be clubbing all the time, smoking, etc.

I feel that this changes once you start getting towards 30, because the women looking for men in this age range are going to go for a man that they are attracted to but also one that seems to have goals, ambitions, can provide security, etc. The reason for this is that many women approaching 30 start feeling pressure to lock down a man to whom she can have babies with.

As for milfs going for very young men, I think this happens but I also feel you have been watching too much porn. I feel many women don't go for much younger men not because they aren't attracted to them but more so to do with some sort of internal struggle they have going on. Something like "he's young enough to be my son" and then they start rationalizing why they shouldn't follow through with it.

Women in their 30s don't often go younger. When they do, it's because they've experienced some trauma like a failed marriage or a failed longer term relationship. Sexual relationships where the woman is 7-15 years older than the man usually have a shelf life of 6-12 months at best. It's mostly a rebound thing for the woman and feeling sexy again. For the man, he might get to sex an attractive older woman but he's often in a position for that due to not competing well for women his own age.

You can easily be an unambitious man if you're good looking from 18-27. Late 20s into early 30s in most cases, you should have something going for you work wise. It can be either a blue collar or a white collar job. Be aware that the women attracted to and in relationships with blue collar men are slightly different than the women attracted to and in relationships with white collar guys.



This I don't understand. I'm in my late 30s and I'd be excited about having sex with an 18-22 year old. That's someone who could conceivably be my daughter, though I would have been a young teen parent.
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I guess that's a big difference between the sexes and what we, in general, find attractive.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Enjoy it now because when you are older it will flip on you. Older women to me at my age now are a turn off.
At your age i was just like you. At 18 i slept with a 34 yr old women.

And i think she had been eyeing me and waiting for me to become legal.

Answer is yes they do.

Agreed. I am turned off by women pushing 30. Epiphany phase Rollo calls it. Sudden badly behaved women found Jesus. Wants to be married. I never had a phase for women older than me let alone my age.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I see some mid thirties occasionally that are secsy. But its rare. Things change at 24.

I see some m8d to late 20s. Still not my preference. Not saying I won't as the Day won't suck itself. I see better ROI I allocating time elsewhere (ie training, biz, meditation, reading, and pickup hotter younger ).

 

[BeExcellent]

Like I said. Younger men for sex just isn’t my thing. Never has been. I’m a woman who prefers an LTR and I just don’t find myself wanting a LTR with someone so much younger. This is an individual preference. Lots of women will sport fvck a younger guy...it’s just never held any interest for me...and I get approached frequently, trust me...

 

[Suave88]

That’s what I want.

Typically. as I was growing up, I was inclined to like more the mature female. It was kind of a fetish. These two females approached me and we got to know each other. Things like this are always kind of fate happing sort of thing, at least in my experience. This is how I see things and how I believed my two relationships with older women materialized. I forgot to mention, but I had a third one. She was a cashier at a luxury store like Dillards. After I paid her for some merchandize, there was some change due and she grabbed my hand and touched it, and deposit the change in my palm. I saw her eyes were all over me....like If I was a chocolate candy. Then, I went back and we talked some more. I asked her when she gets off and she said 5PM. Then, I ask her, Can I buy you a drink and she said yeah, sure. Well, the rest of the story you can probably guess. In the end, I fvcked her.

 

[2Rocky]

Listen, you have a chance for a one night deal with an older woman. If you find yourself in a place where her desire is high and you are within the standard she has at that point. What it really is is you are looking for validation just as much as a 50 year old guy wanting to snag a barely 18 yo girl. And if that is on your Bucket list, then go for it. What you quickly discover is that there are Age Brackets that just WORK because of similar life experiences. Just having the same PopCulture references drives a lot of long term compatibility.

But being a long term boy toy for your neighbor, is pretty rare no matter how many Richard Gere movies you watch. Remember, there are asmany in shape 30-40 year old single guys who have the Maturity, Money, Material things and Muscles

 

[mrgoodstuff]

YES.

I know @BeExcellent will chime in but here's my take.

MILF's date younger guys for a whole host of other reasons and seeking a provider isn't one of them. I've spoken candidly to some of my older plates I've had over time about this. If you play your cards right, they will buy YOU gifts and take YOU out. LOL

With their men's money at that