Meet women through acitvities lile Yoga or Salsa classes or Social Circle.
The best option is social circle. There are some problems with this. Some men are just not capable of building a social circle that can produce meaningful dates and that's even if their social skills are adequate or better.
1. Frequent relocations are the number 1 cause of a weak social circle. The most damaging relocations are childhood relocations, though adult relocations will also be damaging. Before puberty, without a sexual motivation, it is possible to form female friendships/strong acquaintanceships that can later in life blossom into an introduction. Good luck doing that starting in high school or later. If you're a guy who is in the same school track/same geography K-12, that helps a lot. Additionally, if you remain in your same area as where you spent your entire childhood into adulthood, you're likely to be well connected in that area, especially if the area has a population of ~150,000 - ~600,000. That population range makes a metro area a solid mid-sized metro that is large enough not to suffer from too little choice and small enough that women have essentially limitless choices, go wild with hypergamy, and end up carousel riding. Sure, there are carousel riders in mid-sized metros, but the carousel riders tend to be in metro areas of 1 million+. Also worth noting is that areas of 1 million+ are often transplant heavy, weakening social circles.
2. Social circle also works best in areas that are strong historically. This means that it is a common story that people in those areas have lived in that area for multiple generations. In the United States, we have something called the Sun Belt in the Southern United States. Until the end of World War II in 1945, the Sun Belt region was limited in population. The U.S. population was rather limited in Sun Belt regions in 1945, with the exception of Los Angeles. There are U.S. metros that weren't much 50 to 75 years ago, but have boomed in recent decades:
Examples of this would be:
-Miami/Fort Lauderdale
-Orlando
-Tampa
-Dallas/Fort Worth
-Houston
-San Antonio
-Austin
-Phoenix
-Tucson
-Las Vegas
These metro areas tend to have large populations of more recent transplants with less ingrained social connections. Some of them (Miami, Phoenix, Las Vegas) tend to be even more transient as well, with resident durations being shorter. A lot of people don't last 5 years in those cities. San Diego is another good example of a transient city. When there are populations of a lot of transplants without deep historical ties and transience in duration in an area, social circles are going to be weaker. It is possible to have a good social circle living in areas like this, but it's more difficult.
Dance classes are not as common in the pandemic era as they once were. Pre-pandemic, in dance classes themselves, a lot of the women are 45+. Additionally, the classes themselves are not the best way to meet women. The classes are more of an opportunity to get good and then slay at the dance clubs. Women are more attracted to guys skillful in dancing. It takes a lot of time to develop that. At a class, if you're a beginner to low intermediate, you're not going to be slaying on approaches from the class. The better course of action would be to take dance classes from when you're in 6th grade to 10th grade, build that foundation while you're not super horny, and pick up women via dance. Starting dance from scratch at some point in adulthood is more challenging.
Certain sports are ok for picking up women. Like anything else, the pandemic has hurt this. The absolute best sport for picking up women is volleyball, especially beach/sand volleyball. To be a guy who will excel at volleyball pickup, you're going to want to be 6'0"+, have low body fat, and have been raised in Southern California, South Florida, or in the Southern U.S. near the Gulf of Mexico where there's a good beach volleyball culture. Get good at beach volleyball and you'll be able to bang some beach volleyball chicks. Beach volleyball chicks tend to be 5'7"-6'2", which is why you're going to want to be 6'0"+ but no shorter than 5'10" for the 5'7"-5'10' ones. Some beach volleyball women as adults tend to be ex-indoor volleyball players who were NCAA scholarship indoor volleyball athletes. Female volleyball players tend to be quite sexy. If you're not gifted with height, soccer is probably the best option for picking up women. There are some soccer hotties that are 5'2"-5'7". Tennis, despite the reputation of being female friendly, is somewhat of a dud for pickup in a lot of cases.
Random hiking/walking path approaches or beach approaches are usually a more efficient use of time than using your sports skills to approach, especially if you're not skilled at a given sport that is good for meeting women.
Fitness classes, including yoga, are a good option but more difficult than it might initally seem. There are some upsides here. Unlike dance or athletics, it doesn't require as much to be good at it. Just generally be in-shape and able to keep up with the pace of the class. Most fitness classes are majority female. Fitness classes have a narrow window for approaching, as you're really limited to approaching during the 5 minutes before class and the 5 minutes after class, with a 45-60 minute class in between the windows for approaching. Per class attended, you might get in 3 approaches. It's best to try to get one really good approach per class attended. Women, despite the numerical advantage, often are not as social as one might think before and after classes, but there are enough options that if you keep at it over time, you'll probably get dates. It might take longer than you could think to do it. It is time inefficient to do fitness class approaching, but so is grocery store approaching, mall approaching, and app swiping. The other benefit of fitness class approaching is that you'll get in a decent workout which you need in between approaches, which isn't happening when you're lingering at the grocery store.
