Is this behaviour lack of respect?

sosumba

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?


A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
 

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It depends entirely on the question and context.

If she's asking a second time if she can give me a massage I would playfully decline if I'm busy. She gets points for this(usually).

If she's asking me for money a second time I'd tell her to leave. She loses many points for this.

Give a more specific example and you'll get a much more appropriate answer.
 

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
most likely you are not congruent and thinks that you are not sincere or that you are hiding something

and because you get angry , I would say that she right
 

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
If the question is "why are you so sexy?" I wouldn't take it as disrespect.
 

Lookatu

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Is she a lawyer or work in law enforcement?

How long have you been going out with her?

You need to put a stop to that ASAP. It will only get worse.

Use whatever method you think based on her personality.

No one size fits all but you need to call her out on it right away.

There clearly seems to be some trust issues going on.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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