Tinder question

[Lordeterra]

Why did this girl unmatch me? She said hi first and i didnt respond for two days. I was always the one responding a lot later and she was the one asking questions and i can tell i had her in my frame and she was the one chasing. I then said i hated tinder and asked for her snapchat and then she immediately unmatched me lol. Im thinking i gave away a little bit of my power but its true i hate talking on tinder. How do i circumvent this problem lol.

 

[Asseater]

She has 50+ gigachads vying for her attention on Tinder right now. Don't worry about it.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Why did this girl unmatch me? She said hi first and i didnt respond for two days. I was always the one responding a lot later and she was the one asking questions and i can tell i had her in my frame and she was the one chasing. I then said i hated tinder and asked for her snapchat and then she immediately unmatched me lol. Im thinking i gave away a little bit of my power but its true i hate talking on tinder. How do i circumvent this problem lol.

Depends on your goals. Personally I think asking for other comms(communication) is kinda clingy and comes off as seeking something serious.

I keep it on the app unless they ask for some other form of comms and even then I think about it first. I fuuck em multiple times over weeks/months and keep all comms on the app.

If we have a great time together we'll naturally want to exchange snaps and all that shiit.

If you're seeking something serious then just keep it on the app until she's making it really obvious that she wants to meet up or talk more, THEN give her your snap or ask for hers.

 

[Lordeterra]

Depends on your goals. Personally I think asking for other comms(communication) is kinda clingy and comes off as seeking something serious.

I keep it on the app unless they ask for some other form of comms and even then I think about it first. I fuuck em multiple times over weeks/months and keep all comms on the app.

If we have a great time together we'll naturally want to exchange snaps and all that shiit.

If you're seeking something serious then just keep it on the app until she's making it really obvious that she wants to meet up or talk more, THEN give her your snap or ask for hers.

yeah not going to do that again. She was ****ing smoking.

 

[Cappo Yung]

I like that EyeInThePrize... I go a different route though..

Brother this is what I do...

We match- within our first few sentences I ask for her number-
I simple say - Hey send me your number - exactly like that. I never ask.
if she denies for any reason I stop talking to her and unmatch.

I’ve done this countless times with a 80:10 result.

Always call when you get the number, they wont be expecting it, but they’ll love it. Believe me. If youre a coky and funny guy with interesting topics to talk about you’ll be gold. Leave personal information for a later date.

Try to see her in person ASAP, it will save you time and money.

Just imagine talking to a girl for a whole week or two and then She just disappears. -Pooosh- no bueno.

But if you meet her the next convenient time for both a yall- If she likes you then And there its over.

You get to be a plumber and lay pipe.

 

[Georgepithyou]

She has 50+ gigachads vying for her attention on Tinder right now. Don't worry about it.

This is the only correct answer, this is why you always get them off tinder and onto whatsapp ASAP.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I get them off Tinder ASAP. Then try to set up a date quickly.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Why did this girl unmatch me? She said hi first and i didnt respond for two days. I was always the one responding a lot later and she was the one asking questions and i can tell i had her in my frame and she was the one chasing. I then said i hated tinder and asked for her snapchat and then she immediately unmatched me lol. Im thinking i gave away a little bit of my power but its true i hate talking on tinder. How do i circumvent this problem lol.

Get more girls lulz

 

[Lordeterra]

I get them off Tinder ASAP. Then try to set up a date quickly.

thats what i tried to do but got unmatched. THis happened before.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

thats what i tried to do but got unmatched. THis happened before.

Once or twice? Or is it a pattern?

 

[Lordeterra]

Once or twice? Or is it a pattern?

It's a pattern.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

probably didnt want her husband to see you blowing up her snapchat.

 

[Lordeterra]

probably didnt want her husband to see you blowing up her snapchat.

Lol probably.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It's a pattern.

Maybe you come across as ‘creepy’ when you suggest non-Tinder convo? When you suggest a first date, it should be in a public place, preferably daytime. If that’s not the issue, you may need to establish trust via Tinder convo for a while before you get her # or Snap. Unless she’s very sexual to begin with, keep the sexual aspects low key. Too sexual too quick will turn her off. Girls are usually very clear if they’re horny for you. So if she escalates, just match her. Even if a girl has lots of guys messaging her (they all do), she usually won’t unmatch a guy unless he creeps her out.

 

[bat soup]

Why did this girl unmatch me? She said hi first and i didnt respond for two days. I was always the one responding a lot later and she was the one asking questions and i can tell i had her in my frame and she was the one chasing. I then said i hated tinder and asked for her snapchat and then she immediately unmatched me lol. Im thinking i gave away a little bit of my power but its true i hate talking on tinder. How do i circumvent this problem lol.

Tinder is full of timewasters. She's probably talking to 100+ different guys at the same time just to pass the time.

 

[sangheilios]

Tinder is full of timewasters. She's probably talking to 100+ different guys at the same time just to pass the time.

Exactly, @Lordeterra it has been said a million times over that tinder is a waste of time, as these women are chatting with literally hundreds and hundreds of men at a given time.

OLD doesn't work for this very reason, even fat land whales have a harem of men to choose from. As @bat soup mentioned, many women just use this as a source of validation or just do this out of boredom, especially with covid this year this is probably even more so the case.

 

[Lookatu]

Never try to make sense of things on OLD. There can be infinite possibilities with most of them defying logic.

Given your age, young gals want instant validation. If they don't get it from you, you're dead weight to them and they'll cut you loose for the 100's of other thirsty dudes that cling to their phone to interact with them.

Always text with the intent of meeting up with them. If not, they are the dead weight and you need to unmatch them first at the first signs of them giving you the run around.

 

[bat soup]

Exactly, @Lordeterra it has been said a million times over that tinder is a waste of time, as these women are chatting with literally hundreds and hundreds of men at a given time.

OLD doesn't work for this very reason, even fat land whales have a harem of men to choose from. As @bat soup mentioned, many women just use this as a source of validation or just do this out of boredom, especially with covid this year this is probably even more so the case.

haha Harems for landwhales. They should use that in their marketing.

 

[sangheilios]

haha Harems for landwhales. They should use that in their marketing.

I know of 2 women in my area that are well overweight, one is a decent woman and the other is for real one of the most insufferable and obnoxious individuals I've met in a while. Both have dozens of men hitting them up on a regular basis from tinder, I don't know about right this second but I've seen it in the past and I'm sure not much has changed.

 

[bat soup]

I know of 2 women in my area that are well overweight, one is a decent woman and the other is for real one of the most insufferable and obnoxious individuals I've met in a while. Both have dozens of men hitting them up on a regular basis from tinder, I don't know about right this second but I've seen it in the past and I'm sure not much has changed.

That's where they get their attention vitamins. They probably have photos from when they were 18 and slim and spend their evenings wasting guys' time.