Women whining about PUAs

[bat soup]

I went to the bookshop today and saw a book called "men that hate women" talking BS about PUAs, basically. The whole book was one big long whine about men that approach women and try to get laid, as if doing so was some kind of crime.

These "evil" men are "preying on" women and trying to use them for sex, apparently. They hang out on online forums where they discuss tactics to get women into bed. Who'd have imagined that? If you know any women, make sure that you warn them. Make sure they sit down before you tell them because otherwise it might be too much for their innocent little heads.

I'm sure if I wrote a book entitled "women that hate men" and talked about some of the things that women do to scam men out of their money it would be instantly banned. I suppose "Dump That Biatch" or "50 Shades of Bullsheet" will never make the front shelves.

 

[Lookatu]

Lol.

What these b1tches don't realize is there has been years of publications like Cosmopolitan, Vogue, etc. magazines that teaches women on how to attract/get/keep(manipulate) men through various tactics too. So all's fair in love and war as they say.

PUA = Male's version of Cosmopolitan magazine for women.

I think they need to look in the mirror.

 

[derby1]

The whole book was one big long whine about men that approach women and try to get laid, as if doing so was some kind of crime.

They do not realise the effort, balls and peacocking it takes to attract them. They have never had to charm there way into D*ck in their life, and would be running round like larry out the 3 stooges if they had to.

Solipsism

 

[bat soup]

They do not realise the effort, balls and peacocking it takes to attract them. They have never had to charm there way into D*ck in their life, and would be running round like larry out the 3 stooges if they had to.

Solipsism

The funny thing is that the same women that whine about getting approached, also believe that it's "a man's job" to approach a woman and have never approached a man in their life. They just want to laze around, do absolutely nothing that resembles hard work and have a rich handsome guy walk up and propose marriage to them.

 

[Robert28]

Ummmm PUA hasn’t been popular in years. Where have these women been? Maybe every now and then you’ll get some random dude approaching you on the street but he’s the outlier. If anything men don’t talk to women near as much as they used to.

 

[bat soup]

Ummmm PUA hasn’t been popular in years. Where have these women been? Maybe every now and then you’ll get some random dude approaching you on the street but he’s the outlier. If anything men don’t talk to women near as much as they used to.

I think a woman has the right to complain if the same guy keeps annoying her and won't take no for an answer, but that's certainly not what PUA is or was ever about. Quite the opposite actually. On here the most common advice given is "stop wasting your time on this woman".

 

[Robert28]

I think a woman has the right to complain if the same guy keeps annoying her and won't take no for an answer, but that's certainly not what PUA is or was ever about. Quite the opposite actually. On here the most common advice given is "stop wasting your time on this woman".

Women speak as if PUA is still popular, but it hasn’t been for YEARS. It’s like someone saying “hey, cars come standard with air conditioning now?” There used to be PUA boot camps and crap but I haven’t heard about any since 2013. I think they attribute so annoying guy taking their ear off as a PUA but he’s just an annoying guy that can’t read signals or take a hint. He was an annoying guy before PUA became a thing.lol

 

[bat soup]

Women speak as if PUA is still popular, but it hasn’t been for YEARS. It’s like someone saying “hey, cars come standard with air conditioning now?” There used to be PUA boot camps and crap but I haven’t heard about any since 2013. I think they attribute so annoying guy taking their ear off as a PUA but he’s just an annoying guy that can’t read signals or take a hint. He was an annoying guy before PUA became a thing.lol

Yeah, I mean guys using techniques somehow offends them, but guys not knowing what they're doing offends them even more. And of course they also get pissed off if men don't approach them.

 

[r4zorsharp]

Listen, its not just women who whine about PUA's. It's dudes too. Pua's are bottom feeders in nightlife, thats all. They make it very obvious what they're there for and what they're there to do.. Lack any subtlety to their game.. and always come in with a group of them like some douchey clan of ninjas.

However, it's great to see where they fail and then come in and scoop the girl . To be fair, I've had this happen to me before too so it's not a bad thing.

What sucks is when they come in and ruin it because now all these girls got their defenses up seeing a buncha PUA's come in and try and approach diff girls clearly trying to pick them up.

A key thing here: PUA's and Guys who get ***** are 2 diff things. PUA's are the nerds of getting *****. They are technical about it, they come in swarms, act like its all a video game, act like they are ranking up by every action they do, Guys who simply get *****, are just more chill about it and subtle.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Women speak as if PUA is still popular, but it hasn’t been for YEARS. It’s like someone saying “hey, cars come standard with air conditioning now?” There used to be PUA boot camps and crap but I haven’t heard about any since 2013. I think they attribute so annoying guy taking their ear off as a PUA but he’s just an annoying guy that can’t read signals or take a hint. He was an annoying guy before PUA became a thing.lol

It hasn't been popular but a lot of techniques have been refined and incorporated in a lot of guys normal game since it can be effective when used properly. Just another tool to add to the toolbox. It has it's time and place where it comes in handy.

 

[bat soup]

Apparently the author, Laura Bates, is an English feminist who has dedicated her life to complaining about men. What I find funny is that whilst they talk about equality, really it's all about anything but that. As for hatred, I think her whole book is example of her own hatred of men.

In her book she mentions that some PUA approached her six times. How she must have suffered by someone saying hello six times as she walked past. I bet she spent the rest of the day complaining/bragging about it to anyone that would listen. A normal person would have just shrugged and laughed and even felt sorry for what the poor guy had to go through.

If women want to take on the role of approaching men, then they're welcome to do just that. The reality is that they won't and therefore men will always have to approach women if they want to get laid. And there is certainly nothing wrong with learning how to do it.

 

[f(x)]

 

[SW15]

Ummmm PUA hasn’t been popular in years. Where have these women been? Maybe every now and then you’ll get some random dude approaching you on the street but he’s the outlier. If anything men don’t talk to women near as much as they used to.

Yes, PUA has been falling off in popularity. Even before the pandemic, in-person approaching was declining due to the rise of swipe apps. However, there was enough in-person approaching going on. Never underestimate what a thirsty man will do.

 

[bat soup]

Yes, PUA has been falling off in popularity. Even before the pandemic, in-person approaching was declining due to the rise of swipe apps. However, there was enough in-person approaching going on. Never underestimate what a thirsty man will do.

Most women don't just like being approached, they need to approached because they don't have what it takes to approach someone that they're interested in themselves.

 

[SW15]

Most women don't just like being approached, they need to approached because they don't have what it takes to approach someone that they're interested in themselves.

Women are notorious for whining about their approaches. Street harrassment was severely overblown by women. A lot of 30+ women, mainly "cute" and "hot" women, are complaining about receiving flirty messages on LinkedIn. These "complaints" are mostly disguised as brags, as women in their 20s never complain about that. Women often complain about their swipe app messages as well.

Women like being approached by men that they perceive positively. Women complain about approaches from men that they don't find attractive.

Women can't handle approaching men. They aren't well accustomed to initial rejection.

 

[bat soup]

Women are notorious for whining about their approaches. Street harrassment was severely overblown by women. A lot of 30+ women, mainly "cute" and "hot" women, are complaining about receiving flirty messages on LinkedIn. These "complaints" are mostly disguised as brags, as women in their 20s never complain about that. Women often complain about their swipe app messages as well.

Women like being approached by men that they perceive positively. Women complain about approaches from men that they don't find attractive.

Women can't handle approaching men. They aren't well accustomed to initial rejection.

You hit the nail on the head there. Most of their complaints are actually low-key bragging. "Look at me, look how much attention I get from men" etc.

Women know that if they post photos of themselves online then men are going to write to them.

 

[Mike32ct]

Some women do approach men. But they are either the highly extroverted types and/or they are drunk.

But yeah, in general, women prefer not to approach and would rather leave that challenge to men. The ironic part is that women have less to fear in the approach then men*. She isn't likely to get some nasty rejection (e.g. eyeroll, "F-off", "ewww creeper") that men would receive. And she's not going to be threatened by some AMOG because she approached the wrong person lol.

*I mean indoors in a social setting. I don't think a female should approach strange men on the street; that could be risky.

 

[SW15]

Some women do approach men. But they are either the highly extroverted types and/or they are drunk.

But yeah, in general, women prefer not to approach and would rather leave that challenge to men. The ironic part is that women have less to fear in the approach then men*. She isn't likely to get some nasty rejection (e.g. eyeroll, "F-off", "ewww creeper") that men would receive. And she's not going to be threatened by some AMOG because she approached the wrong person lol.

*I mean indoors in a social setting. I don't think a female should approach strange men on the street; that could be risky.

Right now, outdoor approaching is the most viable form of approaching.

More men are pansies when it comes to approach, sitting behind an electronic screen swiping and texting and making things worse for everyone.

 

[jimwho]

All women are pua's If they are attracted to a guy they have an arsenal of sneaky subtle methods of getting
What they want. And not always subtle, But for them it's never creepy, and they still don't pay.

 

[Asseater]

No one is making them **** guys using PUA tactics lmao. Professional victimhood status on full display.