I’m finally dating someone who’s not an as'shole. And I’m bored

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Woman debating whether to get back on the c0ck carousel. Needs you to tell her it’s ok. She thinks she still has one good run left in her before the wall comes. Wants to be sure though. No need to let a good beta bux get away (she can make it work she says). The tingles are strong, she can’t fight then forever, hurry and tell her it’s ok to go play with abusive Chad one last time.
 

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Woman debating whether to get back on the c0ck carousel. Needs you to tell her it’s ok. She thinks she still has one good run left in her before the wall comes. Wants to be sure though. No need to let a good beta bux get away (she can make it work she says). The tingles are strong, she can’t fight then forever, hurry and tell her it’s ok to go play with abusive Chad one last time.
this is realistic asf Robert.

Wish this woman could read your words. A lot still don't get it.
 

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this is realistic asf Robert.

Wish this woman could read your words. A lot still don't get it.
That’s because I’ve heard posts like hers hundreds of times and I know how this story ends. She finally convinces herself to dump boring beta bux, she thinks if she snagged one she can snag another, once she’s booted from the CC permanently. All her friends and people on Reddit cheer her on “you go girlfriend! Go get your Chad! YOLO!”. She thinks in the moment, not for the future. Finds an abusive Chad or two, really scraping the bottom of the Chad barrel, but boy the tingles she’s feeling! Experience(s) are worse than anything she’s ever experienced or imagined. Gets dumped brutally, possibly has a fatherless kid for a reminder of her “final ride”. Starts missing beta bux because let’s face it, life is expensive and Chad is in jail again or he’s broke. She gets back on all the apps to find beta bux, except this time is a lot harder than before. She gets on Reddit “where are all the good men?”. We sit back and roll our eyes, another story we’ve heard before and knew the ending to.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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domestic violence is gonna go through the roof in 10 years, the scarcity mindset of 99% of men, blended with females thinking their disposable. is gonna go be messy.
 

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That's a great example of a Stockholm syndrom girl who is broken beyond fixing.

Women like that can never be with a normal guy because she's so used to gaslighting that it triggers dopamine in her and she thinks that's normal relationship behavior,that's why she's bored.
 

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That’s because I’ve heard posts like hers hundreds of times and I know how this story ends. She finally convinces herself to dump boring beta bux, she thinks if she snagged one she can snag another, once she’s booted from the CC permanently. All her friends and people on Reddit cheer her on “you go girlfriend! Go get your Chad! YOLO!”. She thinks in the moment, not for the future. Finds an abusive Chad or two, really scraping the bottom of the Chad barrel, but boy the tingles she’s feeling! Experience(s) are worse than anything she’s ever experienced or imagined. Gets dumped brutally, possibly has a fatherless kid for a reminder of her “final ride”. Starts missing beta bux because let’s face it, life is expensive and Chad is in jail again or he’s broke. She gets back on all the apps to find beta bux, except this time is a lot harder than before. She gets on Reddit “where are all the good men?”. We sit back and roll our eyes, another story we’ve heard before and knew the ending to.
lol, final ride reminder. Ouch for those that finally stop riding after getting impregnated by loser strangers who knew how to have sex.

But then there's single mommies still stupidly looking to keep riding so impregnating doesn't seem to work to deter these greedy girls.

At what point do they finally 'get it?'
Probably when they start taking better care of their physical, emotional and mental health.

Am I obliged to go out and try to save these women as an older woman, an elder in society(47)?
Does it have to come from other females? Or how will they smarten up and learn?
They probably just don't see the farreaching impact of bringing fatherless(soon-to-be) children into the world. There's no consequences. Just like the pregnant lady that decides to drink alcohol during pregnancy. It goes unpunished.

Their relief of boredom seems much more important than the good of society or even the future health of these individual children.

They are missing the training from elder women. They are missing the knowledge and ability to make good decisions.
 

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“You can do anything to a woman, you just can’t bore them” - The Counsellor (Movie)

This woman is just damaged and needs drama because she probably has poor self-esteem. Sucks. Because if she has kids she would probably be the tyrant mother, I imagine.

And for the guy? He just needs to take her off the pedestal, pursue his passions a bit more than her, which naturally create mystery and the hamster spinning through that. He’s probably just predictable and really? That’s a small but easy change to implement.

We can hate on her all we want, but it does show that women need to be in anxious (uncertain) states often about their guy to experience deep attraction. And it’s better for both involved.
 

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They probably just don't see the farreaching impact of bringing fatherless
they get paid for it, in the UK you get yearly resources of that of a mildly accomplished male!

then without telling the government you move a beta male boyfriend in the house, who works and earn 300 Uk pounds a week.

suddenly just from having a baby, youve now got a business turning over 700 uk pounds a week. thats handsome pay that is
 

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they get paid for it, in the UK you get yearly resources of that of a mildly accomplished male!

then without telling the government you move a beta male boyfriend in the house, who works and earn 300 Uk pounds a week.

suddenly just from having a baby, youve now got a business turning over 700 uk pounds a week. thats handsome pay that is
omg, that's criminal. You know what derby1? I think the government is in on the polygamy changeover in society. Did you see that other thread on polygamy?
 

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“You can do anything to a woman, you just can’t bore them” - The Counsellor (Movie)

This woman is just damaged and needs drama because she probably has poor self-esteem. Sucks. Because if she has kids she would probably be the tyrant mother, I imagine.

And for the guy? He just needs to take her off the pedestal, pursue his passions a bit more than her, which naturally create mystery and the hamster spinning through that. He’s probably just predictable and really? That’s a small but easy change to implement.

We can hate on her all we want, but it does show that women need to be in anxious (uncertain) states often about their guy to experience deep attraction. And it’s better for both involved.
That definitely wouldn't be a healthy relationship imo. If a broken woman's hamster is spinning about her man she may do something to sabotage rather than strengthen the bond. Attention at all costs. Drama at all costs.

And many times being destructive is much easier for her. She gets your attention and gets to let loose and do something fun for her that she shouldn't do.

We shouldn't seek to make relationships work with broken women, despite how many there are in the world. Doing so undermines the principles of being a good partner and a strong man. Weakness attracts weakness.

A woman should want to do something for you out of her own abundance and joy, not out of anxiety. All we can do is inspire that and check/leave when she missteps.
 

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That definitely wouldn't be a healthy relationship imo. If a broken woman's hamster is spinning about her man she may do something to sabotage rather than strengthen the bond. Attention at all costs. Drama at all costs.

And many times being destructive is much easier for her. She gets your attention and gets to let loose and do something fun for her that she shouldn't do.

We shouldn't seek to make relationships work with broken women, despite how many there are in the world. Doing so undermines the principles of being a good partner and a strong man. Weakness attracts weakness.

A woman should want to do something for you out of her own abundance and joy, not out of anxiety. All we can do is inspire that and check/leave when she missteps.
I can agree with the brunt of what you said. Yes, don’t


I will say that women become attracted way more when things are uncertain (in a healthy way, sure. But just uncertainty/spontaneity in general)

Love and attraction in relationships are two different things. What creates attraction is not the ingredients for what creates deep attraction.

Otherwise, love would be all that’s needed and people wouldn’t cheat with that sexy male/female who poses a challenge and intrigue/mystery
 

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That gal is a waste of time - But so is he - to her!

No standards, no values, and no purpose being laid out for her, so she feels since he doesn't care to make her work for his time, resources, affection etc., or conscious enough to present any challenge, or share his thoughts on such matters; he must only be in it for the pvssy!

And even she knows pvssy ain't sh*t and she can give it to anyone, but she'd prefer to give it to a guy who doesn't need it!

Some men are just too easy and must aim to give women a purpose in life. Drop some nuggets of what is expected and acceptable to them regarding females they let into their life, and let it be known - in no uncertain terms - that they will dump a tired, worthless, b*tchy gal with the quickness, if they don't fit the bill on what they feel is worthy regarding various behavioral traits and relationship dynamics.

She or some females may say guys such as this are "azzholes" because no one (only 'azzholes') ever dared speak to them like that before...lol...But they know deep down inside that every woman desires, respects, and wants to be with a man that stands for something and won't fall for everything!

Anything less and females become - "bored" - in her case - or... (fill in here)...The type of stuff this forum deals with every day.

 
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She isn't bored because he isn't an @sshole, she is bored because he is boring.

You don't need to be an @sshole to be fun and exciting to be around.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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