Do you need a friendgroup to get laid?

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I moved to a new city and know no one here. Usually back at home i would vring the girl around my friends but i have zero friends here. DO girls give a **** avout this **** or should i not worry about it.
 

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No.

You can use OLD although with COVID exploding right now it probably isn't smart to be meeting a bunch of new people or spending time indoors in group settings
 

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No but friends help.

I hadn't saw my buddy in a while, we were on a pub crawl, first strip club we stopped at he dropped $1500 on drinks for everyone like 3x over, that was a crazy night and P came easy
 

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No but friends help.

I hadn't saw my buddy in a while, we were on a pub crawl, first strip club we stopped at he dropped $1500 on drinks for everyone like 3x over, that was a crazy night and P came easy
I am not sure I have even spent $1500 on drinks in my entire life, no way in hell I would be spending that in one night.
 

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No but friends help.

I hadn't saw my buddy in a while, we were on a pub crawl, first strip club we stopped at he dropped $1500 on drinks for everyone like 3x over, that was a crazy night and P came easy
sounds like a blast srs
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I moved to a new city and know no one here. Usually back at home i would vring the girl around my friends but i have zero friends here. DO girls give a **** avout this **** or should i not worry about it.
No. Not required. Unless you are in a train. Not my first rodeo.

Pickup works on women. Use it to make friends. Just be socialize and screen. Don't bring around weirdos. If you moved to a new place, it's common but you want to bring her to your world. If you are boring and so is your world, why would she bother you? It's essentially prostitution. You pull women via looks, seduction, game, money or status. Currency is attention in girl word. You remove ALL from her for bad behaviour.
 

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No.

You can use OLD although with COVID exploding right now it probably isn't smart to be meeting a bunch of new people or spending time indoors in group settings
Lmfao or terrorism in the form of pickup in pandemic.
 

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it means a lot, law of familiarity all that jazz
 

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No but it is the best way to meet quality women, trust me you don't want to women u meet off online or cold approach
 

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You don't need a friend group to get laid. I would recommend that you have a good social circle if you want to get laid because it will make things much easier. You will have to put forth a lot more energy to get laid if you rely upon cold approaching or swipe apps.

You're also more likely have longer relationships if you meet women within a social circle than if you meet women cold approaching or on swipe apps. Women have more of an incentive to treat you better in the early stages if she's connected to you in her social circle because there are real consequences if she is rude. When you meet a woman through cold approach or on a swipe app, she has no incentive to treat you well because there are no consequences if she is rude, ghosts, flakes, etc. Her circle of friends is not informed of her bad behavior. If a woman treats a man in her social circle in a lousy manner, she'll hear about it from the circle. She doesn't want to have these conversations.

Due to social pressures, when two people meet through a circle, they are more likely to be compatible for a longer time.
 

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Yes social validation in her mind us important. Its how women see the world.
Agree!

"Hi Im new to town here" etc etc (add convo)

Great way to open girls. Use it heavily for a few months.
Yes. It's the best option. You can probably get away with it for up to 6 months.

In the United States, there are a few major metropolitan areas that have a quite heavy transplant population and fewer natives and longer term residents. The downside there is that these cities tend to have weak social circles because the transplants form social circles with other transplants with weak circles. Transplants have a more difficult time breaking into the good social circles in an area. Transplant heavy metros in the U.S. tend to be very heavy swipe app dating markets.

I fear all men are going to end up online looking for women and that cant be good for the future.
Any means of meeting a woman in person is better than using a swipe app. The worst possible outcomes tend to happen on the swipe apps.
 

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In my experience it does matter. One of the things women want to see is that you fit in socially. Inviting them to do things with your friends allows her to see this. If she only ever sees you one on one when you take her out then she may think she is all you have going on.

I also find that asking her out for a date when you can something like “me and a few friends are going to ... on Friday, why don’t you join us”, seems to work well.
 

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Women who prefer to meet men via OLD or "cold approach" have no second thoughts about fvucking men on the first date because there are no "slut shaming" consequences. Her friends and family will never know ;)

Advgs. and disadvgs. to every situation.
I agree that there are advantages and disadvantages to every situation. For every one night stand from a swipe app or cold approach, there are at least 20 instances of women acting rude, ghosting, flaking, etc.
 

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Thats what he asked. IMO they will come in a package deal.
Yes he can get "laid" but him getting social is healthier then just chasing the P. The P will come.

"Built it and they will come" like the movie lol
100%. That tool is useful for making friends, sales, marketing, and pulling. Him pulling girls is a dhv.
 

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Women who prefer to meet men via OLD or "cold approach" have no second thoughts about fvucking men on the first date because there are no "slut shaming" consequences. Her friends and family will never know ;)

Advgs. and disadvgs. to every situation.
I don't disagree but, take her if, tinder or bumble username or allias. Willing to bet, with basic tech skills, you will easily find dirt. You are not getting away from sloot gonna sloot. Again women are not exclusive material anymore. A single background search on her and she's downgraded to booty call.
 

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