firstbornunicorn
Master Don Juan
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A couple months ago I hooked up with someone(on the first date) from tinder and ended up staying with her for 3 days.
I'm 27(28 in a few days), she said she was 30, but turned out to be 32. She looks much younger than her age and is in better state than many 25 year-olds. 6' tall, and was a catwalk model in her 20's but some physical injury derailed her life the last years, now she has recovered. She's still catwalk material. She's the yoga type but not vegan anymore because she saw through the bull****.
She's absolutely stunning, and equally as crazy. I've been aloof, and doing the usual things men are supposed to do to build attraction, such as the classic question "how many girls have you been with?", answered with: "You mean today?" and avoiding giving a number or saying "you're the first, promise", and just seeing how desperate she gets to get this info from me.
She's a bit of a feminist(not so much into 3rd wave stuff), and I've made it clear that I think feminism is mostly BS. One time she told me her opinion was worth more because she was older, and I said "yeah but you're a woman". 10 minutes later I was inside her.
She met me when I was living in a van(legit homeless), and I'm broke as ****, so she's not with me for money. Although I have potential for high income and she knows this(software guy that turns out has had adhd and that explains why he's been unable to focus for the last 3 years, but ritalin might just make it rain for me again).
We have discussed living together and I made it clear that I don't want to live with someone I'm not married to(or marrying soon) and that I don't want to get married any time soon. We both agreed that we might simply move close to eachother, like 1 minute on foot kind of thing. She likes her space her way, I like my space my way, and if/when we break up, there's not much work to do.
A few times, in the beginning, she's said **** like "oh maybe I can just find a(rich) guy that does X or Y", and I told her to go right ahead, I'll even pay for her train ticket.
To counter those statements I've also said **** like "oh maybe I'm too young for you and should find a 23 year-old instead". And then she says something like: "Oh but I don't notice the age difference at all, and 23 year old girls are stupid, you wouldn't like it".
I've done some tactical retreats when she brings up too much drama.
But anyway...
... What does she see in me? have I just been alpha as ****, or do you see some angle from her?
I'm an attractive dude with an athletic build(and above average pp), and could get all sorts of women. I'm not set on this one. I'd like to have kids in 3 to 5 years assuming my career picks up again, at her age this is not so feasible, although her mom had her when she was 38, so she's not too worried.
I have a feeling most guys she hangs out with get needy and clingy quite fast, or she gets the violent/abusive type. I'm somewhere in the middle. I'm the dude that one minute sends her cute hamster photos and the next minute invites her to go have dinner in the forest and to bring a rifle and do some target practice in the woods, and then bang in my van. So I can see that it could be exciting for her.
Need some clarity here. I don't know if I'm somehow being played via an angle I'm unaware of. She's not on the pill and has said that she will keep the kid if she gets pregnant, but there is no alimony here and the rules are generally very equitable(50/50 custody by default). We're careful and do a lot of oral.
Any pointers?
I'm 27(28 in a few days), she said she was 30, but turned out to be 32. She looks much younger than her age and is in better state than many 25 year-olds. 6' tall, and was a catwalk model in her 20's but some physical injury derailed her life the last years, now she has recovered. She's still catwalk material. She's the yoga type but not vegan anymore because she saw through the bull****.
She's absolutely stunning, and equally as crazy. I've been aloof, and doing the usual things men are supposed to do to build attraction, such as the classic question "how many girls have you been with?", answered with: "You mean today?" and avoiding giving a number or saying "you're the first, promise", and just seeing how desperate she gets to get this info from me.
She's a bit of a feminist(not so much into 3rd wave stuff), and I've made it clear that I think feminism is mostly BS. One time she told me her opinion was worth more because she was older, and I said "yeah but you're a woman". 10 minutes later I was inside her.
She met me when I was living in a van(legit homeless), and I'm broke as ****, so she's not with me for money. Although I have potential for high income and she knows this(software guy that turns out has had adhd and that explains why he's been unable to focus for the last 3 years, but ritalin might just make it rain for me again).
We have discussed living together and I made it clear that I don't want to live with someone I'm not married to(or marrying soon) and that I don't want to get married any time soon. We both agreed that we might simply move close to eachother, like 1 minute on foot kind of thing. She likes her space her way, I like my space my way, and if/when we break up, there's not much work to do.
A few times, in the beginning, she's said **** like "oh maybe I can just find a(rich) guy that does X or Y", and I told her to go right ahead, I'll even pay for her train ticket.
To counter those statements I've also said **** like "oh maybe I'm too young for you and should find a 23 year-old instead". And then she says something like: "Oh but I don't notice the age difference at all, and 23 year old girls are stupid, you wouldn't like it".
I've done some tactical retreats when she brings up too much drama.
But anyway...
... What does she see in me? have I just been alpha as ****, or do you see some angle from her?
I'm an attractive dude with an athletic build(and above average pp), and could get all sorts of women. I'm not set on this one. I'd like to have kids in 3 to 5 years assuming my career picks up again, at her age this is not so feasible, although her mom had her when she was 38, so she's not too worried.
I have a feeling most guys she hangs out with get needy and clingy quite fast, or she gets the violent/abusive type. I'm somewhere in the middle. I'm the dude that one minute sends her cute hamster photos and the next minute invites her to go have dinner in the forest and to bring a rifle and do some target practice in the woods, and then bang in my van. So I can see that it could be exciting for her.
Need some clarity here. I don't know if I'm somehow being played via an angle I'm unaware of. She's not on the pill and has said that she will keep the kid if she gets pregnant, but there is no alimony here and the rules are generally very equitable(50/50 custody by default). We're careful and do a lot of oral.
Any pointers?
