Perhaps your disagreement is minor semantics. Let's unpack what you said and find out. Before we do, I would like to emphasis I never used the word "compliance", which is much different than receptivity.
When a woman chased me, she was in love and the power was in my hands.
If by "in love" you mean obsessed and infatuated, then sure.
Otherwise, how is anyone truly "in love" with someone they just met or only known for a couple weeks?
So if you consider initiation by an obsessed and infatuated chick who barely knows you interest, then you're not necessarily wrong.
Now if she is receptive, that could mean anything. She is bored, she wants entertainment, she wants a free lunch, she feels sorry for the guy, the alpha male she wants is busy, etc. I’ve had so so many women comply, and it means nothing to them. They are just killing time, waiting for the guy they are in love with to break up with their girlfriend.
Context matters here.
Are you texting for the sake of chit chat, or are you setting up dates
and escalating on those dates? If it's the latter than you'll figure out her true interest level very quickly.
Let's define what I mean by receptivity for the sake of argument:
Receptivity is the willingness to be led. This means responding favourably when to a man when he initiates and attempts to escalate, and making herself available for him do so.
What you are talking about sounds like
responsiveness, in the sense that she replies when you reach out lol.. I am not referring to that. If you aren't, and you're still referring to receptivity, we'll just have to agree that we define the word differently.
Responsiveness definitely isn't a good indicator of interest. Receptivity
, as I define it,
is.
I don’t know what a quality woman is, but my experience has been the opposite. When a woman chased me, she was in love and the power was in my hands. Got me some hot women. I’ve never been successful pursing or initiating.
Paraphrasing
your words: you don't know what a quality woman is, but your experience has shown you that when woman chase you they do it because they're in love (infatuated). This has got you some hot women, although you've never been successful pursuing or initiating. Correct?
Well that sounds about right lol.
From another angle, you could say that you don't know what a quality woman is because you pull low quality insecure chicks who do the chasing, because your attempts at pursuing and initiating with higher quality woman have failed because they weren't interested enough in you. In other words, they weren't
receptive to your attempts at leading and escalation.
Two months ago I banged the hottest looking chick I've probably ever banged,
but she was low quality. As a result, unsurprisingly, she did much of the initiation until I directly told her I was no longer interested after about 2 weeks of banging her -- I lost attraction because of how insecure she was and how quickly infatuated she got.
Hot does not necessarily equal quality. But if all you're looking for is a pretty face and hot body to bed, and nothing more than that, then all the power to you.
Men, the woman have to come to you. Following your lead means nothing in 2020.
I surmise you're projecting your own experience. I don't mean this in a negative way.
Your last line here sounds like the battle cry of someone whose attempts to lead have failed, and even a coping mechanism for the rejection you faced every time you tried.
You claimed yourself that you are unable to pull women by pursuing and initiating. Women are not receptive to your lead...
... however, that doesn't mean anything about women's interest nor leadership in 2020... well, except that women are not interested in following
your lead...
That either says something about your perceived quality, or the quality of woman that are interested in you, or
both.
