Emotional discussion and girl calls you by your name

[Bigpapa]

from your point of view , what does it mean when a girl has an emotional talk discussion with you and also calls your by your name while expressing her thoughts ?

I never really thought about this till now , and to be frank I do not know what it means . My gut Instinct tells me that is a good thing and that she is present , but maybe it is not so

What is your experience about this ?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Manipulation

 

[Bigpapa]

Manipulation

Why do you say that ?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Why do you say that ?

Because women are manipulative, they give you pet names like Babe or whatever else so they can manipulate you one way, then use your full name to manipulate you the other way.

It's literally never ending

 

[Bigpapa]

Because women are manipulative, they give you pet names like Babe or whatever else so they can manipulate you one way, then use your full name to manipulate you the other way.

It's literally never ending

I do not think that things are as grim as you make them look , but maybe you are right . Would be interesting to get also thoughts

 

[In2theGame]

What do you mean by "emotional talk discussion"? What was she talking about?

 

[Bigpapa]

What do you mean by "emotional talk discussion"? What was she talking about?

I am talking in general her discussing about what she feels towards someone or something that happened to her , not a particular case

 

[The Next Big Thing]

It depends what emotions was she expressing when she was saying it.

 

[Bigpapa]

It depends what emotions was she expressing when she was saying it.

yes , indeed . But can we say that she is sincere ( on what she is feeling on the moment ) , or she is not sure and just expressing her emotions out loud to see if she understands them better , or she does not want to continue the subject ...

I mean there are a lot of possibilities and I never really thought about this till now . Or can be anything ?

 

[In2theGame]

This doesn't mean anything in my opinion. If anything, it means that you are a good listening ear aka the guy she can open up to however nothing beyond that. This is a slippery slope to be on if your true intentions are to hook up with her romantically. You don't want to land your plane at friendzone airport. Many planes never leave after landing.

 

[The Next Big Thing]

I really dont think her saying your name means anything. Some girls I know say my name often almost to the point that its a bit annoying. Other girls basically never say my name and this is also an extreme, which also annoys me. Balance is key, so maybe just ask her why she always says your name if you feel like its a bit too much.

 

[The Next Big Thing]

This doesn't mean anything in my opinion. If anything, it means that you are a good listening ear aka the guy she can open up to however nothing beyond that. This is a slippery slope to be on if your true intentions are to hook up with her romantically. You don't want to land your plane at friendzone airport. Many planes never leave after landing.

This was the best comparison I have ever seen!

 

[Bigpapa]

This doesn't mean anything in my opinion. If anything, it means that you are a good listening ear aka the guy she can open up to however nothing beyond that. This is a slippery slope to be on if your true intentions are to hook up with her romantically. You don't want to land your plane at friendzone airport. Many planes never leave after landing.

well most of the girls do not say something and then adding my name after that thing , so now it happened again and I was just curious if this means anything or not , because my gut is telling me that since this is not usually the case that maybe she is also sub communicates something .

so you think That I should be careful , as this might mean that I can end up in the friend zone , since she Opens up ?

 

[In2theGame]

well most of the girls do not say something and then adding my name after that thing , so now it happened again and I was just curious if this means anything or not , because my gut is telling me that since this is not usually the case that maybe she is also sub communicates something .

so you think That I should be careful , as this might mean that I can end up in the friend zone , since she Opens up ?

Forget what she is saying and/or doing for right now. The bigger question is, What do you want from her?

 

[Bigpapa]

Forget what she is saying and/or doing for right now. The bigger question is, What do you want from her?

the girl that made me ask the initial question was very closed off and now I am a little bit cut of guard by her talking emotionally and also adding my name from time to time

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I do not think that things are as grim as you make them look , but maybe you are right . Would be interesting to get also thoughts

It's only a grim outlook if you are unprepared, educate yourself and there is no need to be defensive, the unknown puts us on the defensive

 

[Black Widow Void]

In my experience, if a woman emotionally opens up quickly, it isn't a sign that we are 'special' to them. It might seem this way (and I once thought so too) but more often than not, it's either a sign that they are too needy or a tool to deceptively lure you in.

If a woman says your name a lot, this can go two different ways. Either, she's really into you or it's a deceptive tool. This one is easy to figure out. Notice the tone inflection of when she says your name. If there's little change on her inflection, look out.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

My ex-girlfriend always used to say my name when she tried to convey she was SERIOUS. I felt like it came from a place of impotence, because she used to say it when she wanted me to listen but I hardly ever did.

 

[Bigpapa]

My ex-girlfriend always used to say my name when she tried to convey she was SERIOUS. I felt like it came from a place of impotence, because she used to say it when she wanted me to listen but I hardly ever did.

well, we know that women are quite moody and change their opinions , but in the same time in your even though she was serious in that particular time for that particular subject , it also means that she was quite emotional towards you because she wanted you to listen to her .

my thoughts were exactly the same before opening up this thread

 

[CoandaEffect]

In my experience it means she sees you as one of her girlfriends. Women love talking about emotional stuff, they talk to each other about it all the time. They really like it when they find a guy they can talk to like that. I get this quite a lot because I am a good listener and women seem to figure that out some how. The fact that she calls you by your name means nothing.

If you have desires on this women you should let her know that quickly, see how she reacts. Otherwise, my friend, you are lined up for touch down at that friend zone airport. Take it from me, I’ve landed their often!