My secretary, I made a move. Is this a rejection?

[zinc4]

Yo Bro’s.

before you start to flame me please understand.

I moved on, I stayed super professional. She kept asking me about my evenings and who the lucky girl is I’m texting everytime. I know she’s back with her ex but I totally quit playing and flirting like I said I would do. She kept flirting with me when I quit.

but the b1tch turned it up a notch making cexual comments sometimes with a playful laugh looking at me way too long, being super submissive and looking for weird attention with body language. Then she found out I was moving to another crib and she asked to see pictures.

then today I was done, we were having smalltalk during lunch I said “hey you could visit my crib sometime if you want”

She was saying yess nice still talking about that I was moving there but didn’t react further on my question/comment directly.
Then she says she lives only 5 minutes away from me now and blabla but not directly, yess I would love to come by so..

Well hey I got to fvck her or get rid of her cuz she keeps looking for it.

Stay professional man until she begs for it. You have the position of power here. And it's pretty obvious you must find her to be very attractive not just moderately so.

 

[bat soup]

Not nessisarily though. He put it out there and now he backs off and see if she nibbles on the invite again. His success will directly result from how he is take it or leave it.

Backing off and waiting gives her the chance to play games. She can continue to give out mixed signals until he puts her in a position where she has to make a choice.

 

[Black Widow Void]

You say that she's back with her ex
You say that you turned the flirting completely off

Despite committing again to her ex, she's toying with another man
... and her toying with you is 'safe' to her because it's only talk and no action
Despite you turning it off and going professional, she's not respecting the tone you've set.

Judging by your behavior:
You are thinking with your pointer (no insult - we've all done this).

Judging by her behavior:
She doesn't respect the ex that she's re-committed to
She doesn't respect the professional tone that you've currently set
She (surely) enjoys the power of her behavior toward you (which also disrespects you).

You need to quit thinking with your pecker. Seriously.
Look at her behavior.
This is a woman that clearly by her behavior has demonstrated that she's into power and could care less about anyone else.
In other words, this is a potential future sexual harassment charge in the making.
She stands to benefit greatly and (see above) doesn't seem to care about who becomes a casualty as a result.

 

[TheGambino]

Backing off and waiting gives her the chance to play games. She can continue to give out mixed signals until he puts her in a position where she has to make a choice.

so what do I do now? Ask her out again cold ufront witj my place as the spot and go for it or wait til next week and ask her? Tell me

 

[TheGambino]

You say that she's back with her ex
You say that you turned the flirting completely off

Despite committing again to her ex, she's toying with another man
... and her toying with another man is 'safe' to her because it's only talk and no action
Despite you turning it off and going professional, she's not respecting the tone you've set.

Judging by your behavior:
You are thinking with your pointer (no insult - we've all done this).

Judging by her behavior:
She doesn't respect the ex that she's re-committed to
She doesn't respect the professional tone that you've currently set
She (surely) enjoys the power of her behavior toward you (which also disrespects you).

You need to quit thinking with your pecker. Seriously.
Look at her behavior.
This is a woman that clearly by her behavior has demonstrated that she's into power and could care less about anyone else.
In other words, this is a potential future sexual harassment charge in the making.

shes 20, young submissive comes from a good family and here in holland there’s no harassment sh*t not America here she’s a grown up woman. I can do this, I fear nothing it’s total crap all the harassment **** here.

 

[bat soup]

so what do I do now? Ask her out again cold ufront witj my place as the spot and go for it or wait til next week and ask her? Tell me

Yes, ask her out now. Don't let her play with you for another week.

 

[TheGambino]

Yes, ask her out now. Don't let her play with you for another week.

Yes she’s keeping me open as a rebound guy I’m so sure, she likes her ex but is just playing the field in between us. I’m going to make a move today

 

[Black Widow Void]

shes 20, young submissive comes from a good family and here in holland there’s no harassment sh*t not America here she’s a grown up woman. I can do this, I fear nothing it’s total crap all the harassment **** here.

a "submissive" that demonstrates the behavior of cheating on her boyfriend (the ex that she's back with).
a "submissive" that doesn't respect the professional tone that you've currently set between you two.

I think that I got through to forum member Biggoal better than this.

Hopeless!

 

[Baibars]

I just got a blow job off the one I was messing with... My job is done... All free attention now REMOVED

It's crazy how less of a fvck you give about them once you had them where you want right?

And girls have us where they want almost all the time..

 

[TheGambino]

a "submissive" that demonstrates the behavior of cheating on her boyfriend (the ex that she's back with).
a "submissive" that doesn't respect the professional tone that you've currently set between you two.

I think that I got through to forum member Biggoal better than this. Cmon man.z

Hopeless!

so what do you do when a chick that you find super attractive flirts sooooo hard with you everyday at work that you get a boner. She goes on her knees to cut sometjing and then looks at me with big eyes for a longtime like give me your D mother****er. Brooo what can I do man she’s ****ing looking for it god damit. Then I have to fire her while I want to fvck her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you put alot of interest and attention into her, you'll be back in the same exact alignment you always had been with this one.

 

[TheGambino]

S

If you put alot of interest and attention into her, you'll be back in the same exact alignment you always had been with this one.

so we making a cold blunt move

 

[TonyTenner]

This game cant go on like this. Its either fvck her brains out fuxk her boyfriend, she ****ing me at my house. If she declines my straifht up invite next week. I’m going to end her contract next month

Most likely you'd replace her with another young hot secretary and the cycle would repeat. I don't think she's the issue.

 

[TheGambino]

Most likely you'd replace her with another young hot secretary and the cycle would repeat. I don't think she's the issue.

I had 2 others never flirted once with them ever. Nor with co workers in my past first thing so sorry you know sh*t.

 

[Romanemp22]

It would be pissing off sh1t if you don't bang her considering the amount of effort you made, also time she took from you. If she continues to flirt and does not want to fvck fire her. Further more flirting will piss you off even more so out of sight out of mind.

 

[Alvafe]

so what do you do when a chick that you find super attractive flirts sooooo hard with you everyday at work that you get a boner. She goes on her knees to cut sometjing and then looks at me with big eyes for a longtime like give me your D mother****er. Brooo what can I do man she’s ****ing looking for it god damit. Then I have to fire her while I want to fvck her.

same way I did with a personal trainer in my gym who we flirted with each other, nothing serious, just for fun, and make her look like she is the one interested in going after me and not keeping her hands to herself.

also serious here guys, you really get a hard on with flirting? if she is not naked and me touching her I will not get hard, so I really can't even imagine such thing.

take note too a submissive will take your lead always, she will obey, what I see is she playing sub to keep you in control.

you know the sad part? you keep saying she is only 20, but she is the one playing you like a intrument, she have all the power

 

[bat soup]

you know the sad part? you keep saying she is only 20, but she is the one playing you like a intrument, she have all the power

Women have all the power until you find out whether they actually have something to offer or not (i.e. is there any genuine sexual interest).

 

[Lookatu]

 

[TheGambino]

I asked her out and she said yes. Next Wednesday and she reacted super happy that she wants.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was trying to define it like a brazilian ju jujitsu match. If you give her the same attention that you were before and your not hitting, she won't "need" or even "want" to fvck you, because you will have slipped back into the exact same alignment that you where in when you needed to fvck her and she was just enjoying the attention. In order to penetrate her your going to have to put it into an alignment that you haven't been in before. Perhaps you have a lady you like more than her, you keep it professional with her, thusly not giving her any of that intense energy. She's going to be starving for that type of attention from you. But you can't give it in the same form. It has to be her idea to suck or fvck you.