cuckold fantasies .. why do other men fantasize about watchin their wife get taken in front of them?

[BackInTheGame78]

thats truly sad

Maybe but most guys are terrible at sex. Worst of al they put no effort into improving.

 

[death_wish. .]

I can't believe people really do this so often. I think the porn is fake and people just like to post fake cuck crap on sites like 4chan. Letting another man bang your wife goes against every common sense ever. If I'm horny I want the puzy, what else am I gonna do?

not only fake cuck but fake incest **** too, its sick

 

[death_wish. .]

Because they are feminized men and the only way to cope with the thought of being left by the only women they can get (in their minds), is to sexualize it and pretend they are masculine enough to deal with it (i.e. being indifferent).

they wnt her to be ''happy '' that bad smh , sickening

 

[RickTheToad]

i just don't understand it.

Betization by 1000 cuts. From the movies, from tv, from social media.. etc. It has more to do with the fatherless homes than anything else; IMO. It takes a strong willed dude raised by a single mom to be purple or red pill. Even then, they will prob. have to experience some negative experiences with the opposite sex in order to learn how to play.

As for watching another dude f uck your femal, IDNK. That;s just f ucked up on so many levels.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Had women tell me this as well. But being tiny doesn't help either lol

How do you know your tiny?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I think its the Oedipus complex. A lot of guys in single mom household hate their father, are nurtured, and actually turned on hearing Chad and Tyrone running a train on the mother. Its ****ed up but its unresolved traumas and likely low t. Its Psycho movie. Joker and the mom. There's a creepy issue with the men. Clearly not oriented right.

 

[death_wish. .]

I think its the Oedipus complex. A lot of guys in single mom household hate their father, are nurtured, and actually turned on hearing Chad and Tyrone running a train on the mother. Its ****ed up but its unresolved traumas and likely low t. Its Psycho movie. Joker and the mom. There's a creepy issue with the men. Clearly not oriented right.

whats further sickening of this , is that i have seen extreme cases where the mother treats the son with more respect than the father.

 

[Lookatu]

Here's my take after being married several years but also interacting and getting in the head of quite a few married guys that's been married for awhile. I just want to be clear though that this is just an analysis and I personally think cuckold is f'd up and something I wouldn't do.

How many of you watched Married with Children? I used to watch it when I was younger and couldn't figure out why Al didn't want to have sex with his wife. He'd rather eat a sandwich. Then after being married, I understood and realized having the same steak for years can make you sick of it. Here's the possible reasons why I think this happens and I'm only speaking in the context of long marriage situations:

• Husband is sick of having sex with his wife and just wants her out of his hair.
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• Husband had or is having affairs and this is one way he feels less guilty by letting his wife screw others but also have some sort of control on who his wife bangs and where.
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• He likes(or loves) her and everything is good in their lives except the sex part where he no longer desires her in that way. Since the sex is the only thing lacking, he is willing to let her wife have sexual relationships with others.
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• Husband's testosterone drops along with his libido in their later years and hers is still going strong.
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• Husband knows he allows his wife to screw others, it might be a equalizer and one less thing she could use against him in divorce.

I don't expect for everyone to understand this as not a whole lot of you have been married and monogamous for 10,15,20+ years.

 

[flowtheory]

I could not imagine sitting by the bed and watching my wife/girlfriend get plowed by someone else. That is what nightmares are made of. That is what lurks in the depths of hell for a man.

A guy who partakes in that has to have some sort of mentally disconnected part of his nature. Must be truly Polyamorous or Bi. And he himself would have to be garnering the most joy from it.

If a guy brushes my girlfriends hand or stands too close I want to rip his jugular out. this topic is really just upsetting.

 

[death_wish. .]

Here's my take after being married several years but also interacting and getting in the head of quite a few married guys that's been married for awhile. I just want to be clear though that this is just an analysis and I personally think cuckold is f'd up and something I wouldn't do.

How many of you watched Married with Children? I used to watch it when I was younger and couldn't figure out why Al didn't want to have sex with his wife. He'd rather eat a sandwich. Then after being married, I understood and realized having the same steak for years can make you sick of it. Here's the possible reasons why I think this happens and I'm only speaking in the context of long marriage situations:

• Husband is sick of having sex with his wife and just wants her out of his hair.
• 
  
• Husband had or is having affairs and this is one way he feels less guilty by letting his wife screw others but also have some sort of control on who his wife bangs and where.
• 
  
• He likes(or loves) her and everything is good in their lives except the sex part where he no longer desires her in that way. Since the sex is the only thing lacking, he is willing to let her wife have sexual relationships with others.
• 
  
• Husband's testosterone drops along with his libido in their later years and hers is still going strong.
• 
  
• Husband knows he allows his wife to screw others, it might be a equalizer and one less thing she could use against him in divorce.

I don't expect for everyone to understand this as not a whole lot of you have been married and monogamous for 10,15,20+ years.

i can understand this for 2 reasons
1. i been in a longggg relationship
2.and just the other day met a woman online who explained to me that she's been with her man for 15+ and i guess they ''both agreed'' to ''spice'' things up.
idc how long i been with my woman , i could never allow such behavior much less watch this happen.

I could not imagine sitting by the bed and watching my wife/girlfriend get plowed by someone else. That is what nightmares are made of. That is what lurks in the depths of hell for a man.

A guy who partakes in that has to have some sort of mentally disconnected part of his nature. Must be truly Polyamorous or Bi. And he himself would have to be garnering the most joy from it.

If a guy brushes my girlfriends hand or stands too close I want to rip his jugular out. this topic is really just upsetting.

for realll.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Here's my take after being married several years but also interacting and getting in the head of quite a few married guys that's been married for awhile. I just want to be clear though that this is just an analysis and I personally think cuckold is f'd up and something I wouldn't do.

How many of you watched Married with Children? I used to watch it when I was younger and couldn't figure out why Al didn't want to have sex with his wife. He'd rather eat a sandwich. Then after being married, I understood and realized having the same steak for years can make you sick of it. Here's the possible reasons why I think this happens and I'm only speaking in the context of long marriage situations:

In that movie Al Bundy was painted as having a dominant hot wife. So that's why it was displayed like that. I guess the programmers wanted all the men to be beated back with former days of glory so long ago, that's all the good they can remember.

• Husband is sick of having sex with his wife and just wants her out of his hair.]

There are guys who if they have sex with their wife, she will do some crazy crap to more than make up for sex he had with her. Thus the juice ends up not being worth the squeeze. There are other men who not a single woman could ever stimulate for that long of a period, after he conquers her it's onto the next.

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• Husband had or is having affairs and this is one way he feels less guilty by letting his wife screw others but also have some sort of control on who his wife bangs and where.

This is one viewpoint and a way that things go. My question is why support someone or be there for someone who wants to have sex with other people? Those situations can get dangerous and your drawn into some bullsh1t that you never would've had to deal with if she didn't have a need to step out.

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• He likes(or loves) her and everything is good in their lives except the sex part where he no longer desires her in that way. Since the sex is the only thing lacking, he is willing to let her wife have sexual relationships with others.

That is a reason, and also a reason some women allow their men to step out.

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• Husband's testosterone drops along with his libido in their later years and hers is still going strong.

In the old days men were fvcking well into the 70's and 80's. If you use it you won't lose it. Most of todays libido drops are environmental and psychological. No one is going to keep desireing a ball breaking wife who either consistently rejects her man, or makes the hurdles and barriers to the sex so great that it's a turn off. Also womens desires aren't usually going strong AFTER meno pause. They dont' have strong desire but they STILL can choose to have sex. The ramp in a females sex drive in older years is between when she was fertile and before menopause fully sets in.

• 
  
• Husband knows he allows his wife to screw others, it might be a equalizer and one less thing she could use against him in divorce.

I don't expect for everyone to understand this as not a whole lot of you have been married and monogamous for 10,15,20+ years.

Imho it's better to not have a wife having sex on you. But some men are able to negotatiate various positions which work out for both. My question is why support someone who no longer wants to have sex with you, and isn't very helpful in other ways? What's the point?

 

[death_wish. .]

• why support someone or be there for someone who wants to have sex with other people? Those situations can get dangerous and your drawn into some bullsh1t that you never would've had to deal with if she didn't have a need to step out.

that part right there. even some relationships where this was allowed and consent was given even still got out of hand and ended badly , will and jada for example.



Imho it's better to not have a wife having sex on you. But some men are able to negotatiate various positions which work out for both. My question is why support someone who no longer wants to have sex with you, and isn't very helpful in other ways? What's the point?
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i would just leave , like rollo said ''genuine desire cannot be negotiated''

 

[mrgoodstuff]

• why support someone or be there for someone who wants to have sex with other people? Those situations can get dangerous and your drawn into some bullsh1t that you never would've had to deal with if she didn't have a need to step out.

that part right there. even some relationships where this was allowed and consent was given even still got out of hand and ended badly , will and jada for example.



Imho it's better to not have a wife having sex on you. But some men are able to negotatiate various positions which work out for both. My question is why support someone who no longer wants to have sex with you, and isn't very helpful in other ways? What's the point?

i would just leave , like rollo said ''genuine desire cannot be negotiated''
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Having her desire other men while your monogamous and forced non sexual with her will destroy your libido and sexual attraction. Of course if you use another female for your sexual validation you'll be spared.

 

[Lookatu]

Having her desire other men while your monogamous and forced non sexual with her will destroy your libido and sexual attraction. Of course if you use another female for your sexual validation you'll be spared.

I think you are looking at it from the point that the wife doesn't want to have sex with the man. That seems to be hardwired with you(maybe based on your own personal experience).

My post above was always about the guy getting tired of the same pvssy and from an abundance mindset, not a scarcity. He is the one not wanting to have sex with the same woman for years. He'd rather shut up his wife about the lack of sex(her nagging or begging) by offering her up to someone else while he bangs all the fresh/new girls he really wants to have sex with.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think you are looking at it from the point that the wife doesn't want to have sex with the man. That seems to be hardwired with you(maybe based on your own personal experience).

My post above was always about the guy getting tired of the same pvssy and from an abundance mindset, not a scarcity. He is the one not wanting to have sex with the same woman for years. He'd rather shut up his wife about the lack of sex(her nagging or begging) by offering her up to someone else while he bangs all the fresh/new girls he really wants to have sex with.

Yes I know the guy in your second statement alot of guys like that. In your first statement if you didn't know this. If you are bound and monogamous with a woman. And she treats you as non sexual. But on the other side treats others as sexual itll kill your libido and erection and attractiveness over time because she's giving that type of attention to you ( non sexual, non desired ). There are alot of married men whive had their sexual ego treated like trash in marriage. They come out of the situations with low libido, low test, usually ED. The cure is not drugs. The cure is an attractive lady who can't get enough of your d1ck. I had one bad relationship I learned that. In all my others I got it when I wanted.

 

[Lookatu]

Yes I know the guy in your second statement alot of guys like that. In your first statement if you didn't know this. If you are bound and monogamous with a woman. And she treats you as non sexual. But on the other side treats others as sexual itll kill your libido and erection and attractiveness over time because she's giving that type of attention to you ( non sexual, non desired ). There are alot of married men whive had their sexual ego treated like trash in marriage. They come out of the situations with low libido, low test, usually ED. The cure is not drugs. The cure is an attractive lady who can't get enough of your d1ck. I had one bad relationship I learned that. In all my others I got it when I wanted.

Gotcha. Right on.

 

[death_wish. .]

i used to think it was a lil silly for the arabs to cover their women up, but the way i see it they dont even want you MENTALLY FUKKIN their women lmao , as it says in the bible, if you even imagine it , you have committed adultery in your heart with that woman , also they dont shave their beards , i think this is for obvious masculine polarity (hairiness , manliness ,signal of healthy , optimal T-levels) funny how this keeps ending up back to male health and T-Levels.
the face is covering is a little extreme tho

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

whats further sickening of this , is that i have seen extreme cases where the mother treats the son with more respect than the father.

Its npt one way. The complex is ****ed up. I saw it on Cobra Kai Netflix and just on my through pickup. Its ****ed up. The man is a cuck and clearly not oriented right. I guarantee that if you checked the t levels, tons of exo and faux estrogenics running wild. Likely, in a single mom household. You see physically big deezd fellas like a Jon Jones but feminine. Hissy fits. Acts like a woman. Race baiting and proclivity to victimhood. Not a good time. Its Creeps me the **** out. IMHO cuckoldry is a wide spectrum from raising some man's child unknowingly or consciously dating a single mom. The spectrum i will go as far as saying to fellas who Marry epiphany phase, women off the carousel. Its all cucked.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

i used to think it was a lil silly for the arabs to cover their women up, but the way i see it they dont even want you MENTALLY FUKKIN their women lmao , as it says in the bible, if you even imagine it , you have committed adultery in your heart with that woman , also they dont shave their beards , i think this is for obvious masculine polarity (hairiness , manliness ,signal of healthy , optimal T-levels) funny how this keeps ending up back to male health and T-Levels.
the face is covering is a little extreme tho

The Muslims have a speel about it being better to better to abstain than attempt to abstain as the flesh is weakkkk. Female logic deems the above as patriarchy. Insert post wall fat as ****kkk single mom meme.

 

[death_wish. .]

Its npt one way. The complex is ****ed up. I saw it on Cobra Kai Netflix and just on my through pickup. Its ****ed up. The man is a cuck and clearly not oriented right. I guarantee that if you checked the t levels, tons of exo and faux estrogenics running wild. Likely, in a single mom household. You see physically big deezd fellas like a Jon Jones but feminine. Hissy fits. Acts like a woman. Race baiting and proclivity to victimhood. Not a good time. Its Creeps me the **** out. IMHO cuckoldry is a wide spectrum from raising some man's child unknowingly or consciously dating a single mom. The spectrum i will go as far as saying to fellas who Marry epiphany phase, women off the carousel. Its all cucked.

its hard to avoid those exo and faux estrogenics , sh1t is focked. studies showing a steady decrease in T levels , penis shrinkage in animals , nowadays it goes something like, go get your levels checked find out its purposely jacked up, then have to buy expensive t shots every week, testosterone has turned into a business now.