Why dont beautiful women have boyfriends?

[Hal9000]

If a beautiful woman is single its because she's decided to be single.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you were actually in their social circles, you'd know they sleep around, are sometimes intolerable, are high maintenance, needy, entitled etc. From the outside looking in, all you see is window dressing and women acting brand new. I once knew a pretty woman who would always flirt with a guy's friend just to make him jealous and get his attention. And then she'd end up with the friend, get pump and dumped, then finally pursue the original guy - only to get pump and dumped again because she rubbed his ego the wrong way by sleeping with his friend. She would do this over and over and over again. Throughout the entire social circle. To save her life, she could never directly flirt with a guy she liked. Her default mode was always to make him jealous.

And this is like 90% of pretty women. A lot of them can't get out of their own way. If you were in their social circles, the reasons why they are single would be 100% obvious to you. As clear as day and night.

Hu Hu 6

If a beautiful woman is single its because she's decided to be single.

Stormrider told the truth... In their circles most guys wouldn't try to hang onto them for that exact reason. Now when she finds a guy outside that circle they assume he's a "sucker". They've played those games for years and years and years, usually until they can't even play them anymore...

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

 

[zekko]

And this is like 90% of pretty women. A lot of them can't get out of their own way.

Sounds like something I've suspected for a long time. That pretty women are ruined by their beauty, and all the attention it affords them. Most of them, anyway.

 

[devilkingx2]

If a beautiful woman doesn't have a boyfriend (obviously excluding women who aren't looking, don't interact with men or who are newly single) it means shes unlikeable for one reason or another once you get past her beauty.

She could be...
Crazy
a B!tch or otherwise unpleasant
Have STDs
A prostitite/porn star/stripper
An alcoholic/crackhead
A cheater

Or maybe shes so picky Jesus needs to come down from heaven for her to give a man the time of day.

 

[devilkingx2]

Yeah, I don't agree with the notion that beautiful women don't get asked out because men are intimidated by them. I heard that lie the whole time I was growing up, and I was very disappointed to find out it wasn't true. Because I had no issue with asking girls out, but the truth was beautiful women had endless options.

I think that advice is true for certain situations. When I was in middle school I certainly didn't have the balls to go and talk to any girl I wanted. And in many of my college classes I was the only guy visibly making an effort to cold approach as far as I could see.

But it probably won't apply at a bar, party or club or to girls who frequent venues like that.

 

[zekko]

And in many of my college classes I was the only guy visibly making an effort to cold approach as far as I could see.

Seems to me that in college there are so many other opportunities and ways to meet girls, most guys don't really need to cold approach.

 

[MatureDJ]

There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".

I never let a woman's high level of attractiveness scare me into not pursuing. That said, if I can detect that she doesn't show much interest, I'm not going to waste my effort & "emotional involvement". I'm especially on the lookout for heightists that consider me subhuman for being 5'5".

 

[flowtheory]

If you were actually in their social circles, you'd know they sleep around, are sometimes intolerable, are high maintenance, needy, entitled etc. From the outside looking in, all you see is window dressing and women acting brand new. I once knew a pretty woman who would always flirt with a guy's friend just to make him jealous and get his attention. And then she'd end up with the friend, get pump and dumped, then finally pursue the original guy - only to get pump and dumped again because she rubbed his ego the wrong way by sleeping with his friend. She would do this over and over and over again. Throughout the entire social circle. To save her life, she could never directly flirt with a guy she liked. Her default mode was always to make him jealous.

And this is like 90% of pretty women. A lot of them can't get out of their own way. If you were in their social circles, the reasons why they are single would be 100% obvious to you. As clear as day and night.

This.

Having dated a very attractive woman, you will come to see that they are absolute nightmares. The highs are high, but the bad is terrible and outweighs the good.
Ever seen a friends hot girlfriend be submissive and a delight? Doubtful. You will watch your friend always watching her to see what crap she will pull next.. But he’s spellbound by her. They can’t be put in their place, because they are like wild horses.
They are insanely entitled, everything is about them, they take no responsibility, and when they want to see you care? they will do something to make you jealous or get you to show your cards through a toxic way. They can’t just open their mouths and directly tell you sweet things most of the time.
Tests galore. It’s all power games. They need the power because the attention has to be on them. It’s just about power for them.
but don’t t me wrong.. the passion is next level because of all this above. There are fantastic aspects of it all. Beautiful women spellbound men.

And when they’re around a guy they actually like? They can’t just.. be. They can for a minute, maybe. But they have to stir a pot. Because they CAN. And people let them. Because they’re beautiful. And people LOVE beauty. They have to have attention from somewhere. Anywhere. Need to be pursued. It’s truly truly exhausting. Because they have an inability to get over themselves. And a lot of them have daddy issues, or are avoidant attachment styles like @LARaiders85 said. And most likely narcissistic. So it’s chasing a tail in to darkness which you will NEVER catch.

the best type of woman is probably a fit, intelligent woman who is about a 7.5 - 8, in terms of relationships.Top level females are just exhausting.
It’s easy to think about the idea of having and bedding a beautiful woman. Seeing that face and body all the time. But it’s the day-to-day stuff that we forget about. The small bids to make you jealous, the dancing on a street corner when she hears music to get a few glances, the need for other people’s attention and not just yours. The idea of having a private world doesn’t seem to exist to really attractive women, because it’s more than what drives most people, and what drives most people is true intimacy. But to have true intimacy is the desire to put ones self (ego) aside quite often.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This.

Having dated a very attractive woman, you will come to see that they are absolute nightmares. The highs are high, but the bad is terrible and outweighs the good.
Ever seen a friends hot girlfriend be submissive and a delight? Doubtful. You will watch your friend always watching her to see what crap she will pull next.. But he’s spellbound by her. They can’t be put in their place, because they are like wild horses.
They are insanely entitled, everything is about them, they take no responsibility, and when they want to see you care? they will do something to make you jealous or get you to show your cards through a toxic way. They can’t just open their mouths and directly tell you sweet things most of the time.
Tests galore. It’s all power games. They need the power because the attention has to be on them. It’s just about power for them.
but don’t t me wrong.. the passion is next level because of all this above. There are fantastic aspects of it all. Beautiful women spellbound men.

And when they’re around a guy they actually like? They can’t just.. be. They can for a minute, maybe. But they have to stir a pot. Because they CAN. And people let them. Because they’re beautiful. And people LOVE beauty. They have to have attention from somewhere. Anywhere. Need to be pursued. It’s truly truly exhausting. Because they have an inability to get over themselves. And a lot of them have daddy issues, or are avoidant attachment styles like @LARaiders85 said. So it’s chasing a tail in to darkness which you will NEVER catch.

the best type of woman is probably a fit, intelligent woman who is about a 7.5 - 8, in terms of relationships.Top level females are just exhausting.
It’s easy to think about the idea of having and bedding a beautiful woman. Seeing that face and body all the time. But it’s the day-to-day stuff that we forget about. The small bids to make you jealous, the dancing on a street corner when she hears music to get a few glances, the need for other people’s attention and not just yours. The idea of having a private world doesn’t seem to exist to really attractive women.

A private world that keeps most others out is an impossibility?

 

[flowtheory]

A private world that keeps most others out is an impossibility?

A private world between two people is intimate; sacred. A person who will purposefully make their ‘partner’ jealous is making the couples world public, and therefore dangerous for trust and further vulnerability to be enhanced. Which is true strength to open to another human fully.
She compromises the mans safety to be nurtured; which is a woman’s true desire. That’s what true trust and love is between two people. To be whole in a partnership; owning yourself completely, and the allowance of being seen. That’s integrity.

In relationships we have to let go of our own base-low-level egoic reptilian desires.
Many won’t understand it, many can’t see past their own noses. But relationship is a private endeavour between two. If a woman or man is constantly inviting new guests to join that circle in ways which endanger the other? That’s not a relationship. That’s a slow or fast sinking ship. And until that demise? a man and woman playing house. But not truly experiencing love.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A private world between two people is intimate; sacred. A person who will purposefully make their ‘partner’ jealous is making the couples world public, and therefore dangerous for trust and further vulnerability to be enhanced. Which is true strength to open to another human fully.
She compromises the mans safety to be nurtured; which is a woman’s true desire. That’s what true trust and love is between two people. To be whole in a partnership; owning yourself completely, and the allowance of being seen. That’s integrity.

In relationships we have to let go of our own base-low-level egoic reptilian desires.
Many won’t understand it, many can’t see past their own noses. But relationship is a private endeavour between two. If a woman or man is constantly inviting new guests to join that circle in ways which endanger the other? That’s not a relationship. That’s a slow or fast sinking ship. And until that demise? a man and woman playing house. But not truly experiencing love.

If you guys ever had good energy you corrupt that putting the others in the middle. I agree.

 

[death_wish. .]

it's of no surprise you see all the entitlement issues as young men we are beat into into at a young age''hold the door open for her , be a gentlemen!'' ''if you dont pay for her you are cheap/lazy/broke'' '' who cares if she is staring at that chad , drooling at the mouth .. she is coming home to you everynight isnt she?'' '' where do you work son? do you go to school?''

just increase this x10 if she is hot

 

[Mazer]

A lot of these women are still chasing or waiting on the guy that dumped them, which then sabotages any future relationships with another man. Women who are high quality get scooped up quickly. Make no mistake, most of these women are single because they choose to be and it’s usually because of their past.

 

[MatureDJ]

This.

Having dated a very attractive woman, you will come to see that they are absolute nightmares. The highs are high, but the bad is terrible and outweighs the good.
Ever seen a friends hot girlfriend be submissive and a delight? Doubtful. You will watch your friend always watching her to see what crap she will pull next.. But he’s spellbound by her. They can’t be put in their place, because they are like wild horses.
They are insanely entitled, everything is about them, they take no responsibility, and when they want to see you care? they will do something to make you jealous or get you to show your cards through a toxic way. They can’t just open their mouths and directly tell you sweet things most of the time.
Tests galore. It’s all power games. They need the power because the attention has to be on them. It’s just about power for them.
but don’t t me wrong.. the passion is next level because of all this above. There are fantastic aspects of it all. Beautiful women spellbound men.

And when they’re around a guy they actually like? They can’t just.. be. They can for a minute, maybe. But they have to stir a pot. Because they CAN. And people let them. Because they’re beautiful. And people LOVE beauty. They have to have attention from somewhere. Anywhere. Need to be pursued. It’s truly truly exhausting. Because they have an inability to get over themselves. And a lot of them have daddy issues, or are avoidant attachment styles like @LARaiders85 said. And most likely narcissistic. So it’s chasing a tail in to darkness which you will NEVER catch.

the best type of woman is probably a fit, intelligent woman who is about a 7.5 - 8, in terms of relationships.Top level females are just exhausting.
It’s easy to think about the idea of having and bedding a beautiful woman. Seeing that face and body all the time. But it’s the day-to-day stuff that we forget about. The small bids to make you jealous, the dancing on a street corner when she hears music to get a few glances, the need for other people’s attention and not just yours. The idea of having a private world doesn’t seem to exist to really attractive women, because it’s more than what drives most people, and what drives most people is true intimacy. But to have true intimacy is the desire to put ones self (ego) aside quite often.

This is the reason why this song was produced:

 

[Mike32ct]

I think some attractive women are “numb” to and/or “burned out” by male attention.

It’s not so much them having high standards (although there is truth to that), but it gets more difficult for guys to “ring her bell” after a while.

So she goes soft WGTOW of sorts and maybe keeps one FWB instead of a bf. Or she stays fully single and has a string of ONS. Or fools around with other girls.

TLDR: She’s so burned out by male attention that a traditional bf/gf relationship may not excite her at all. She needs novelty to compensate.

 

[RickTheToad]

Those women balance their portfolio across men.

Eventually, for them, they will either be out of time or settling for something less than what was offered to them 9 times out of 10..

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Eventually, for them, they will either be out of time or settling for something less than what was offered to them 9 times out of 10..

The problem is everyone figures her out and no one will put up with it.

 

[RickTheToad]

The problem is everyone figures her out and no one will put up with it.

There's always some sucker out there.. Remember the dumb a-s-s who married Pam Anderson and paid off all her debts and then they divorced. Still a bit put back that a dude would want to be with a 53 y.o STD herpes/Hep C/ HPV and heavens knows what else is living inside her coutch.

 

[lost_blackbird]

...you know us guys can't turn down pvssy.

Speak for yourself dude. Can, do, have and will again.