I’m sick of these females lying

Dam44

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Below are 3 screenshots of my Hinge (dating app) and this girl sent me a 'like' and tried to open a conversation. She comments on my preference for fit chicks, claiming that tho she is not fit, she eats healthy…

What planet are these females living on. I’ve noticed women will make claims like, “I’m smart”, “I’m down to earth”, “I’m healthy”. Seems they talk a lot but what matters is action. You don’t need to say these things when I can see it in your actions.

In this case she directly contradicts her claim in her profile where she professes her pleasure in dipping french fries in ketchup and mayonnaise… I call her out on her bull**** and shut her down. Don’t be fooled gents. View attachment 5131 View attachment 5132 View attachment 5133 View attachment 5131 View attachment 5132 View attachment 5133
It's deceptive 100% but she tried to impress you

BTW are you Nigerian
 

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if she agreed to go on a date with me, and we've talked via text before hand... why play hard to get
because theyre nuts, attention is more important than having a good time with you.

your a simple man, you want to drive to the beach and enjoy life with some 80s smooths jams on.

She wants to sit on the sofa drinking vodka checking she is desired
 

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My reply was funny and I get-off on calling people out on their bull****.
I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.


Lighten up bro. Life isn't that serious. Have some fun.
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Usually I prefer she's direct and obvious which I know is not female nature. But at the very least she needs to act natural and not show resistance. Like... if she agreed to go on a date with me, and we've talked via text before hand... why play hard to get?
Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
 

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



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Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
It sounds like he has success and his style will prevent him from getting hung up on females.
 

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



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Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
OP is in for a rough way to go with relationships.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You do realize you can focus on ladies who are so into you that everything is straightforward?
Or you can not sound like you are so tight you have a stick up your ass when going on dates. Pretty sure they are gonna be way more into you when you have fun and laugh than try and monitor their every move for some type of behavior to freak out about.
 

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Or you can not sound like you are so tight you have a stick up your ass when going on dates. Pretty sure they are gonna be way more into you when you have fun and laugh than try and monitor their every move for some type of behavior to freak out about.
Right. That sounds like a b1tchy woman. But some guys get away with it as it fits their natural self.
 

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because theyre nuts, attention is more important than having a good time with you.

your a simple man, you want to drive to the beach and enjoy life with some 80s smooths jams on.

She wants to sit on the sofa drinking vodka checking she is desired
It's a sad unfortunate truth that woman constantly seek attention. I did not realize how bad jt was until recently especially with social media, it's tough to date if you want someone who's not a conceded entitled feminist ***** ‍♂.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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I think you need to look at yourself in this thread. She’s not the problem with anything. It’s you. You’re deeply cringy.
if you want to call that a “lie” then good lord man, you’re in for a tough road with relationships and anything else.. she’s not lying about anything. If she knew her body wasn’t functioning and was in treatment for her health due to it being compromised, but then said she was “healthy”, that would be lying, as she is distorting her objective reality.

A person can be healthy as heck and still indulge in fries with mayo.



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Why act entitled like she owes you absolutely anything at all?
I don't care what she eats. The point is this point is to shed light on the contradiction. She said she eats healthy, yet her profile literally says "Eating fries with... mayonnaise.. is bomb af", in addition her body weight also says the complete opposite. She's trying to talk her way out of the "beauty standard". 'I eat healthy, therefore you should like me even though I don't look fit'.

No idea what you're getting at with the entitlement comment?
 

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So In a date the female qualifies to YOU not the other way around like most men. You are the job interviewer she's the interviewee.
To be honest I don't ever try to qualify to a woman, however I also do not feel she need to qualify to me per se. There are red flags and peeves I stay away from. I suppose you can say she needs to qualify, but I don't think of it that way.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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