SW15
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 31, 2020
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I never went to a lair.I do like you. A lot of guys are younger than me. They got the vigor. Nowhere near the game but A for effort. The old rsdnation forums and inner circle was useful. Solo vaca or even a business trip or road trip. You can link up with wings globally. Lots of weird people. Not too different from tinder. Met one fella off the old mystery forums. I picked up in a club. The wing threw toilet paper at her and she freaked the **** out. Slapped the **** out of him. I pulled and dude raged. He said i blocked him and it wasn't cool.
The last experience from a lair or wing from a forum. School boy error.
We're in a similar place of mind. Most childhood friends are married. ****, the best playboy i knew on London has two kids and he still is swinging the hammer. The lad is a OG. 7day vaca and he will berate everyone after pulling a dozen on the week. This cheeky **** once showed up to the lobby bar with two airport vans full of girls. He was wearing sunglasses and a wwf wrestling belt. He had 7min in the club and he ****ed off with a stunner. The running joke was he pulled a off duty escort because of her location and residency.
Some of the best playboys i knew never learned pickup or game. This dude was short, ethnic, party boy, and could sell sand in a dessert.
If you want to survive or better yet thrive as an unemcumbered man, you've got to pace yourself with the lifestyle. Pre-COVID, going to bars/nightclubs multiple nights a week only works if you have a job that doesn't require you to function before 12 PM. The best nights for pickup in bars were nights other than Fri/Sat nights. It is difficult to be out hustling on Wednesday night into early Thursday from 11 pm until 1:30 am or so when you have to be functional at work by 8 or 9 AM. That's why I became day game centric.
I've seen solid players burn out and do things that they shouldn't do. I've seen men give up the unencumbered life for an ill fitting marriage and house in the suburbs. Not good.
I like being an unencumbered guy. I like being a renter and I like not having children. I have my freedom and the possibility to mold my life from right now forward in any way I see fit.
I did like that this Brazilian guy tried to pick up women in the mall, which has been a standard day game venue.