Jada Pinkett-Smith borne of maritual sex which was "non consentual"

[Kotaix]

We never said anything like this in here, so you don't need to go defending anyone. You shouldn't have to force your wife to have sex. If you find that she goes a prolonged period while continuing to find excuses for not having sex with you ( say months at a time ), it means she does not LIKE you. If she does not LIKE you it would be wise to part ways.

Yes it has been questioned if it's possible to have non-consensual sex in marriage at least twice already. I'm not defending anyone, I'm just defending common sense. If a woman shoves a dildo up your ass without asking permission or even if you say no, I'd consider that to be pretty fvcking non-consensual. There is no moral difference.

 

[Lookatu]

No. Getting wet or erected isn't always a voluntary action and can occur automatically from physical stimulation without psychological desire to have sex. It is generally a good indication, but consent it is not.

True.

I would've had a hard time believing you a few years ago but having had 3 sons, they all got erections even as toddlers. It has nothing to do sexually but just physically. They can just touch their d1ck to go pee and have a instant hard on. Even when they were 2yo, they were getting erections. LOL

 

[mrgoodstuff]

wow, yes I guess. That thread last week reminded me of this.

Is it true that all wives and husbands end up hating or mistreating each other?

I don't think ALL. But many came together for a motive that was not good, and it won't take long for the real feelings to come out. "But she treats me so cold and non-affectionate" ( she came for resources and help I wonder why ).

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes it has been questioned if it's possible to have non-consensual sex in marriage at least twice already. I'm not defending anyone, I'm just defending common sense. If a woman shoves a dildo up your ass without asking permission or even if you say no, I'd consider that to be pretty fvcking non-consensual. There is no moral difference.

True. So wife drugs you, and while you are unconscious she uses a large dildo on you to entertain herself... That would be a big issue.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

he laid it out pretty good

 

[Lynx nkaf]

I don't think ALL. But many came together for a motive that was not good, and it won't take long for the real feelings to come out. "But she treats me so cold and non-affectionate" ( she came for resources and help I wonder why ).

Dr Shawn T. Smith in his Tactical Guide to Women says never marry under 2 years of knowing each other first. I think in the hopes you'll see their real nature come out in that time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

he laid it out pretty good

He ( we ) knows what's coming next... There already a ton of men either cucked or starved in marriage. Almost like an agenda. Get a husband to take care of you and keep doing whatever you do. That with this declaration by Jada mom that it will become vocalize that you don't have to have sex sith your husband.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dr Shawn T. Smith in his Tactical Guide to Women says never marry under 2 years of knowing each other first. I think in the hopes you'll see their real nature come out in that time.

Yes. 2 years before engagement even. There is zero reason to race into it.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

He ( we ) knows what's coming next... There already a ton of men either cucked or starved in marriage. Almost like an agenda. Get a husband to take care of you and keep doing whatever you do. That with this declaration by Jada mom that it will become vocalize that you don't have to have sex sith your husband.

I'm thinking an extreme household is mandatory.

Zero tv. Husband has the only computer.
Zero papers, magazines or other propaganda delivered to house, zero coed groups for church or volunteering.....the list can get quite huge if I kept going.

Sign off on all of this on marriage day.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Yes. 2 years before engagement even. There is zero reason to race into it.

hmm, not bad.

I could write about this all day.

I spent an entire weekend writing up a no holds barred roommate ad one time.
Read it out to a coworker for laughs and they said 'don't you ever publish that, put that ad out'

It was funny because who gets that detailed unless you're fictional character Sheldon from tv show the Big Ban g Theory?

But I meant every word.

Looking for that 'The Rules' book at the store last month, I ended up getting '1001 questions to ask before marriage' book.
There wasn't enough sex questions. I returned it.

But its a good concept.
To go through a detailed list of questions and answers before marriage.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The guy here being denied is a NFL wide receiver.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Sadly, I don't think this woman is attracted to him anymore.

She would have reached out to touch him at some point in this talk if she did. Even just to reassure him.

Its hard to watch couples talking and about important topics and they don't touch or reassure each other at all, even once.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sadly, I don't think this woman is attracted to him anymore.

She would have reached out to touch him at some point in this talk if she did. Even just to reassure him.

Its hard to watch couples talking and about important topics and they don't touch or reassure each other at all, even once.

I personally thing she pressured into marriage, because she wanted to be married and have kids. She thought he was going to be good for that. Once she gets out of it what she wanted, then she stops doing what she was doing before. This is very normal behavior when the motives were so selfish.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

I personally thing she pressured into marriage, because she wanted to be married and have kids. She thought he was going to be good for that. Once she gets out of it what she wanted, then she stops doing what she was doing before. This is very normal behavior when the motives were so selfish.

somebody wanting kids more than sexual companionship?

I am such an outlier to not want kids hey?


I don't know how a couple judges whether they are sexually compatible and a good match longterm.

I imagine they have to experience quite a few scenarios together to know for sure.

Can they have sex at the same frequency and intensity during the following wide range of life events/changes?

i.e. illness, death, loss

i.e. increased health, new hobbies, gains in wealth or fame

 

[mrgoodstuff]

somebody wanting kids more than sexual companionship?

YES. Many know they want the support of being married and they know they want a kid. They hunt for the guy to do that.... It was about being married and having a kid, that's not a good reason.

I am such an outlier to not want kids hey?

Your not alone but many do want children.

I don't know how a couple judges whether they are sexually compatible and a good match longterm.

If she came into that situation with the MOTIVE of finding a man that she could marry and give her kids, it has nothing to do with her taking care of his sexual need. So once her need is met, his need will go unmet. You see her MOTIVE was to get "married" and to have at least one "child". Sexual compatability, love, all that was not more important than her motive. This is how it's so easy for those relationship situations to devolve into that position. And you see theres nothing wrong with the guy!!! HE's a former NFL wide reciever for crying out loud.

I imagine they have to experience quite a few scenarios together to know for sure.

Can they have sex at the same frequency and intensity during the following wide range of life events/changes?

She doesn't CARE. Her AGENDA was already met.

i.e. illness, death, loss

i.e. increased health, new hobbies, gains in wealth or fame

They don't care.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

YES. Many know they want the support of being married and they know they want a kid. They hunt for the guy to do that.... It was about being married and having a kid, that's not a good reason.


Your not alone but many do want children.



If she came into that situation with the MOTIVE of finding a man that she could marry and give her kids, it has nothing to do with her taking care of his sexual need. So once her need is met, his need will go unmet. You see her MOTIVE was to get "married" and to have at least one "child". Sexual compatability, love, all that was not more important than her motive. This is how it's so easy for those relationship situations to devolve into that position. And you see theres nothing wrong with the guy!!! HE's a former NFL wide reciever for crying out loud.



She doesn't CARE. Her AGENDA was already met.



They don't care.

awww, that's a shame.

I feel vindicated I didn't do that to a man.*virtue signalling but whatever, I feel devout*

 

[mrgoodstuff]

awww, that's a shame.

I feel vindicated I didn't do that to a man.*virtue signalling but whatever, I feel devout*

So I was *BLESSED* to have had some GREAT women in my life that loved me, at times even more than my own mother and yes it is possible. I messed some of those up.

Later in life, I had an experience that allows me to speak first hand on someone marrying you specifically to get a child or two out of you. Once their motive is met, what they did to bait you in stops.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

So I was *BLESSED* to have had some GREAT women in my life that loved me, at times even more than my own mother and yes it is possible. I messed some of those up.

Later in life, I had an experience that allows me to speak first hand on someone marrying you specifically to get a child or two out of you. Once their motive is met, what they did to bait you in stops.

aww, well, try to remember the good ones and realise maybe you needed more than they provided.

That Dr. BoA said something to the effect that women don't know that 'everything I did for him and everything I gave him' simply wasn't enough for what he needed.
This MUST be communicated to a good woman even though it will sting at first.
Then detail, detail, detail what one does need in total; right at the beginning of sex for the first time.
Why not lay it all on the line?

Some women, like me, can see where they're lacking but haven't broke through the plexiglass barrier of results from her efforts.

Like I've wrote before on here, my 110% effort is still only viewed as 55% effort from guys.
I can see what they see but I'm trapped at that output level results, like a retard or something-sorry that's not PC

 

[mrgoodstuff]

aww, well, try to remember the good ones and realise maybe you needed more than they provided.

That Dr. BoA said something to the effect that women don't know that 'everything I did for him and everything I gave him' simply wasn't enough for what he needed.
This MUST be communicated to a good woman even though it will sting at first.
Then detail, detail, detail what one does need in total; right at the beginning of sex for the first time.
Why not lay it all on the line?

Some women, like me, can see where they're lacking but haven't broke through the plexiglass barrier of results from her efforts.

Like I've wrote before on here, my 110% effort is still only viewed as 55% effort from guys.
I can see what they see but I'm trapped at that output level results, like a retard or something-sorry that's not PC

You gotta look @ their output level. Some of them expect you to be working around them all the time like you work for them. That's not right.

on the "good women"... There are "good women" who are concerned about their partner, and thoughtful. Then there are selfish ones, whose agenda was met. That's why it was so easy for that one to turn sex off after she got her kids and she's so cold and ungrateful. It's all LOGICAL! Original Man logic didn't understand the female side for why she does what she does, but we have that intel.