Are Girls Who Invade Your Personal Space At Night DTF?

[backseatjuan]

You look hot them and should escalate

 

[TheQ2020]

You look hot them and should escalate

this is my theory as well.

im going to go for the make out on 5 girls who invade my personal space and i will report the results here.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

you never actually answered my question.

you said them giving me proximity means nothing which goes against general community principles.

my question is what makes you think this?

do you have an answer?

Flirty girls are part of night life. Makeout then and there or get her number and move on.

 

[TheQ2020]

Flirty girls are part of night life.

do you believe girls are this "flirty" with all guys they meet on the street at night?

given the number of dunk aggressive guys it seems to me that girls would be even more careful with who they get physically close to during nightlife compared to day.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

do you believe girls are this "flirty" with all guys they meet on the street at night?

given the number of dunk aggressive guys it seems to me that girls would be even more careful with who they get physically close to during nightlife compared to day.

No, alcohol erodes all barriers.

 

[TheQ2020]

Looks, Body Language and Demeanor are all things that attribute to impacting her imagination... Attraction is a concept of association.

I just answered your question.

i still have no idea what you are talking about with attraction or how its relevant to girls who invade my personal space at night.

and the question you think you answered was not actually directed at you.

 

[TheQ2020]

No, alcohol erodes all barriers.

so your opinion is that after consuming alcohol hot girls become very flirty with all guys they meet on the street at night?

is this what you are saying?

 

[backseatjuan]

Not all of them. Some you treat like friends and your target like something more after ignoring her just a tiny bit. Read up on sets.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

so far the friends have actually never interfered negatively.

and several times i would get 2 girls invading my personal space at the same times.

regarding teasing and attention; it seems strange to me that they would be trying to tease a guy on the street who is opening them super indirect. but maybe you are right. we will see after i start physically escalating on these girls tonight.

regarding my looks, im tall and have a face with high cheekbones but its always hard for me to rate myself since i find women find some guys hot that im always surprised by. for example, i have never understood why people think ryan gosling is good looking. but to answer your question, yes i've always been pretty confident in my looks.

That's because you haven't tried to isolate them, get physical or invite them back to your place.

In effect, you haven't done anything that would "trigger" that behavior yet. Once you start doing things that would, it will start happening. And that's OK, you will learn how to disarm it as you go along.

One easy way is to start talking with the friend too and not just the girl you are interested in. Most of the time that behavior stems from "if I am not getting any I will make sure she doesn't either", but if the friend genuinely likes you and thinks you are cool she will be much less likely to engage in that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

do you believe girls are this "flirty" with all guys they meet on the street at night?

given the number of dunk aggressive guys it seems to me that girls would be even more careful with who they get physically close to during nightlife compared to day.

They are NOT careful. They are flirty as hell. If they recognize you in the scene they will do all that hanging off you flirting which doesn't mean a god damn thing. What matters is if you achieve penetration.

 

[SW15]

#1. YOU ALWAYS GET HER NUMBER... If you dont, your dumb, end of story...

#2. You get her number, because you are not available, and you are not available, to increase attraction.

#3. As said above, attraction is about her imagination, not her body, her mind, not her body. You play with her imagination when you make yourself unavailable.

Do i need to go further?

In the realm of night game, with intoxication and short attention spans, it is better to go for the same night lay. Most of the resource guides published in the last 5 years advocate for that. Prior to 2010 and swipe apps, if you were out at the bar and got a number, you had reasonable certainty of getting a date. That wasn't the case by 2019. At night, the play should be to go for the same night lay and only accept a phone number if it become apparent for whatever reason that there will not be a same night lay.

A lot of night prospects are flakier than day prospects, though I have been flaked on by women I've met at the gym/fitness classes and on walking/hiking paths when both parties were sober.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

In the realm of night game, with intoxication and short attention spans, it is better to go for the same night lay. Most of the resource guides published in the last 5 years advocate for that. Prior to 2010 and swipe apps, if you were out at the bar and got a number, you had reasonable certainty of getting a date. That wasn't the case by 2019. At night, the play should be to go for the same night lay and only accept a phone number if it become apparent for whatever reason that there will not be a same night lay.

A lot of night prospects are flakier than day prospects, though I have been flaked on by women I've met at the gym/fitness classes and on walking/hiking paths when both parties were sober.

Oh really, people close at the bar? Do they breathe air too? Maybe they use their legs to walk as well?

You know, things in a post I leave out, because they are such basic elements of game that they dont even really need to be mentioned. Good thing you are here tho.

 

[bat soup]

I just started going out at night to find girls to **** and I'm noticing something very interesting.

My strategy is i walk around on the street in the nightlife area and talk to the girls outside.

I rarely actually go inside the bars and clubs since i find it easier to meet girls outside without the loud music.

When i see hot girls, I will walk up to them and say something very neutral like "hi, how are you guys?" or "which club/bar on this street is the best?"

The interesting that I've noticed is 10-30% of the girls who i approach do something that almost seems to good to be true.

As soon as i open my mouth these girls will immediately invade my personal space to the point that they are so close our bodies are touching.

When this happens i usually get a massive boner and all my instincts are telling me that they are blatantly dtf and i should just grab them and start kissing them.

But I'm having a hard time believing it could be this easy.

why are these girls coming so close to me within seconds of meeting me on the street at night?

Are they dtf?

I had 2 girls i approached recently and they both just invaded my personal space, one was directly in front me and the other was literally resting her head on my right shoulder.

I had the biggest boner and i just wanted to grab them and start kissing them but it seemed too good to be true.

What is happening?

Why are these girls behaving like this?

The girls who do this always have this look in their eyes, It's almost like they are in trance and are being mind controlled.

Are they super horny for me and just losing control; could i really be this lucky that 10-30% of girls i approach are dtf within seconds?

what do these girls want me to do when they literally invade my personal space to the point our bodies are touching?

My thinking is why are they coming so super close to me unless they want me to get physical.

I think this week as an experiment im just going to grab the first girl that comes within kissing range and go in for the kiss and see what happens.

If a girl gets that close, my response would be to put my arm around her or try to kiss her. I don't think you'll get 100% of these girls but probably a certain percentage.

As to the intentions of the girls that don't let you escalate - they're probably just the type of girls that like **** teasing, they want to make some other guy jealous or they want to get you to chase them so that they can say "how dare you?" and brag about how much they get hit on to their friends.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

In the realm of night game, with intoxication and short attention spans, it is better to go for the same night lay. Most of the resource guides published in the last 5 years advocate for that. Prior to 2010 and swipe apps, if you were out at the bar and got a number, you had reasonable certainty of getting a date. That wasn't the case by 2019. At night, the play should be to go for the same night lay and only accept a phone number if it become apparent for whatever reason that there will not be a same night lay.

A lot of night prospects are flakier than day prospects, though I have been flaked on by women I've met at the gym/fitness classes and on walking/hiking paths when both parties were sober.

Also a lot of times you can benefit from multiple approaches in the same night...

For example...early on, go talk to a woman for a few minutes and give a false constraint and tell them you have to go...then an hour or two later, come back and talk to them again...this can work well because at this point she likely has had a few drinks AND she already feels she "knows you" because you have talked previously so it will be a lot easier to get compliance and move her to somewhere else...it also is attractive because you aren't sticking around like most of the other guys will, you are showing social sense.

It's risky if you only do this with one woman because she may leave or meet someone in the meantime but if you do it with multiple women your odds of being able to pull one by the end of the nigh increase quite a bit.

 

[SW15]

Also a lot of times you can benefit from multiple approaches in the same night...

For example...early on, go talk to a woman for a few minutes and give a false constraint and tell them you have to go...then an hour or two later, come back and talk to them again...this can work well because at this point she likely has had a few drinks AND she already feels she "knows you" because you have talked previously so it will be a lot easier to get compliance and move her to somewhere else...it also is attractive because you aren't sticking around like most of the other guys will, you are showing social sense.

It's risky if you only do this with one woman because she may leave or meet someone in the meantime but if you do it with multiple women your odds of being able to pull one by the end of the nightincrease.

Full agreement.

 

[TheQ2020]

If a girl gets that close, my response would be to put my arm around her or try to kiss her. I don't think you'll get 100% of these girls but probably a certain percentage.

that is exactly what my instincts tell me to do but that feels too good to be true.

i would love to think 1 in 5 girls i approach want such fast escalation from me but seems too good to be true.

As to the intentions of the girls that don't let you escalate - they're probably just the type of girls that like **** teasing, they want to make some other guy jealous or they want to get you to chase them so that they can say "how dare you?" and brag about how much they get hit on to their friends.

dude what are you talking about with this part?

why would they be teasing me in this scenario?

other guys jealous?

wtf are you talking about dude?

what other guys?

did you even read my entire post before commenting

 

[2Rocky]

You should touch her. Take her hand . Put your arm around her. Speak quietly in her ear. Dance closely in public, but don't kiss her until you get her to where you can escalate to sex.