Why had this 600# woman have such an easy time getting men?

[Xenom0rph]

Be wary of any woman who claims to be a femcel or a men's rights advocate.....

There's a new phenomena in incel communities where women are trying to infiltrate and exploit men's thirst by claiming femcel status....

These women are preying on the weakest men just like lions prey on the weakest gazelle....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But men are attracted to sexless women like in your example because they are hot? Isn't that a catch-22 that men have that a woman doesn't have. I mean, even taking that argument at face value, no women can be an incel, but only men can be incel because only men can have a catch-22 like that.



Right, because he's incel. So you are agreeing with me, only men can be incel.



Which could be nothing.



Yet, nobody likes your posts because they are off base. You don't get scores of people liking your post, and I get more likes on my posts in these discussions generally than you do which doesn't speak much about what other people on here feel about what you are saying.



Singular, "relationship", you are referring to 2012 ex-gf. How is 2014 with ex-wife "strange"?



All you are pointing out is to glaring disadvantages men have that women do not have and why only a guy can be an incel.

Yes women have advantages, but social men who have confidence also have advantages. One must "get into the game" and like you said, that often gaining social validation outside of females is a huge part in getting back into the game.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Be wary of any woman who claims to be a femcel or a men's rights advocate.....

There's a new phenomena in incel communities where women are trying to infiltrate and exploit men's thirst by claiming femcel status....

These women are preying on the weakest men just like lions prey on the weakest gazelle....

I can't help wondering why I was so strangely turned on by the fact that my ex said he hadn't been with a woman in over 3 years?
a. because he was just like me?
b. because it indicated some kind of Disney loyalty/unrequited love for his ex I found charming
c. because I knew he was genuinely horny and not on erection pills assistance?
d. because I'm a predator who preyed on this weak man?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I can't help wondering why I was so strangely turned on by the fact that my ex said he hadn't been with a woman in over 3 years?
a. because he was just like me?
b. because it indicated some kind of Disney loyalty/unrequited love for his ex I found charming
c. because I knew he was genuinely horny and not on erection pills assistance?
d. because I'm a predator who preyed on this weak man?

Maybe you were not a predatory woman. He got used to your comfort. Out in the world after dealing with a stable "go to" is the exact opposite. There are many predatory men and women in the dating game, actually in my country it seems like it's a large part of the market.

So it's very unnerving to jump into the teeth of that monster, when you had it good at home and took no risk.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Maybe you were not a predatory woman. He got used to your comfort. Out in the world after dealing with a stable "go to" is the exact opposite. There are many predatory men and women in the dating game, actually in my country it seems like it's a large part of the market.

So it's very unnerving to jump into the teeth of that monster, when you had it good at home and took no risk.

I think I get what you're saying, I'm not sure though. For him or me?
Or maybe you mean both.

Storytime:
There was this sofachair in his living room. He was tall, thin and angular and I'm built like a 5'5 brickhouse UK olympic shotputter but with long legs.
He would sit down first with his long legs on the ottoman stool and then hold his arms out for me and I would just sink into him and the chair. Just a perfect fit, perfect furniture for hours of napping, waking up to makeout and napping again.
He used to say we were both convalescing in that chair. I understand it more thinking back on it. Sometimes this affection stuff is better than sex. If I was predator and he was prey I would like that again.

 

[Mike32ct]

Be wary of any woman who claims to be a femcel or a men's rights advocate.....

There's a new phenomena in incel communities where women are trying to infiltrate and exploit men's thirst by claiming femcel status....

These women are preying on the weakest men just like lions prey on the weakest gazelle....

Or a certain Stacey-lite female pretending to be an ally to ‘cel guys.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think I get what you're saying, I'm not sure though. For him or me?
Or maybe you mean both.

Storytime:
There was this sofachair in his living room. He was tall, thin and angular and I'm built like a 5'5 brickhouse UK olympic shotputter but with long legs.
He would sit down first with his long legs on the ottoman stool and then hold his arms out for me and I would just sink into him and the chair. Just a perfect fit, perfect furniture for hours of napping, waking up to makeout and napping again.
He used to say we were both convalescing in that chair. I understand it more thinking back on it. Sometimes this affection stuff is better than sex. If I was predator and he was prey I would like that again.

In dating, people are keeping their distance, and avoiding being overly affectionate. If you are used to affection, closeness and love you will not get that in the dating game. You'll have sex, but people are protecting their feelings. You will spend time, but people are worried about themselves and not trying to let you waste their time. It's way different than what you guys were doing.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

In dating, people are keeping their distance, and avoiding being overly affectionate. If you are used to affection, closeness and love you will not get that in the dating game. You'll have sex, but people are protecting their feelings. You will spend time, but people are worried about themselves and not trying to let you waste their time. It's way different than what you guys were doing.

he was a lone wolf/sigma as described in the Men on Strike book.
Hey, I genuinely hope he is happy and content. I hope he got his wish to become a father and I hope he hasn't become covidsick or anything.


I am grateful for the precious time with him.
Finally my gratitude has more dominance in my grief than disappointment....I wonder why gratitude isn't a state on that transformation mastery inverted triangle of Julienhimself on yt? it would be above grief on the ascension, do you know what I'm referring to?

 

[MatureDJ]

For the MANS side we discussed a dynamic you REFUSE to accept. Women are not attracted to sexless men. The exception is a celebrity Tim Tebow.

Obviously, women will make an exception for men who COULD get sex but are able to deny themselves of it for religious of otherwise reasons.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Obviously, women will make an exception for men who COULD get sex but are able to deny themselves of it for religious of otherwise reasons.

Often times enough because he is "dry" in the game they will find themselves strangely unable to be turned on. For those of us who are "sexual" men we accepted in high school and even earlier that sometimes you just need to get your "d1ck wet", or "pop your cherry". It's just like jumping in a swimming pool..

 

[corrector]

Obviously, women will make an exception for men who COULD get sex but are able to deny themselves of it for religious of otherwise reasons.

How would they know that unless it's a chad-looking priest? I don't get what @mrgoodstuff is talking about. Do you know any non-sexual or celibate chad who has difficulty with women taking him on? They probably want be the first to corrupt him. It's like an average guy visiting a prostitute then getting religious on the session and feeling good he didn't go all the way because it confirms he possesses some virtue. It's not sexual or non-sexual, it's chad or average guy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How would they know that unless it's a chad-looking priest? I don't get what @mrgoodstuff is talking about. Do you know any non-sexual or celibate chad who has difficulty with women taking him on? They probably want be the first to corrupt him.

So the sexual men will comment. I might need to take a break from this site.

What we notice. Is if we go thru an extended sexual drought that we will not get many IOI or sexual interest.

Once we start having sex again we notice IOI and sexual interest from alot more places. It's due to your sexual swag, or aura or the sexual part of your ego being fed. It comes alive and has strength. Women can SEE this in you.

A non sexual man in comparison is "dry".

 

[Focal core]

In dating, people are keeping their distance, and avoiding being overly affectionate. If you are used to affection, closeness and love you will not get that in the dating game. You'll have sex, but people are protecting their feelings. You will spend time, but people are worried about themselves and not trying to let you waste their time. It's way different than what you guys were doing.

Affection and closeness are the first and foremost attribute that i will observe on my dating prospect.. If shes willing in giving shes as well able to reciprocate, recognize and respect you. Afterall whats a date without feelings? A plate maybe.

 

[corrector]

So the sexual men will comment. I might need to take a break from this site.

What we notice. Is if we go thru an extended sexual drought that we will not get many IOI or sexual interest.

Once we start having sex again we notice IOI and sexual interest from alot more places. It's due to your sexual swag, or aura or the sexual part of your ego being fed. It comes alive and has strength. Women can SEE this in you.

A non sexual man in comparison is "dry".

I didn't notice a night and day difference in 2014 when I was married to my ex-wife in terms of IOI or sexual interest. I did notice a difference when I tried spraying on pheromones back in 2011 and around November/December 2013 however.

In the former board there was an old poster named Maxtro that sounded like he did that (I'm talking before 2009) and complained that he still couldn't get HOT girls to notice him even after dumpster diving.

 

[Xenom0rph]

So the sexual men will comment. I might need to take a break from this site.

What we notice. Is if we go thru an extended sexual drought that we will not get many IOI or sexual interest.

Once we start having sex again we notice IOI and sexual interest from alot more places. It's due to your sexual swag, or aura or the sexual part of your ego being fed. It comes alive and has strength. Women can SEE this in you.

A non sexual man in comparison is "dry".

I absolutely must salute this comment because it is 100% true.

Women are damn near psychic and can tell if a man is getting a lot of sex or if he's going through a drought.

For example, let's say a guy just had some incredibly sinful sex last night after a long dry spell. He's gonna be getting major IOI from females as he cruises around town just going on about his business....

Has his personality changed? Has his physical appearance changed? Has has financial situation changed?.....No... he's still the same guy...

....and yet women will automatically detect that he's getting sex and therefore will conclude he's a high-value man and will give him IOI....

 

[corrector]

@Xenom0rph visited a hooker and noticed IOIs afterwards. I read the post where he said that.

You know what else I notice? I get IOI's from women whenever I purchase a new car I didn't drive in before. When I get used to the car then I get less or no IOIs. Or, another one, when I just get a haircut. Any NEW thing you do that disrupts your "normal" could create a field that creates IOIs. If you travelled to Australia for 2 weeks and came back you'd probably notice new IOIs when you return back. I went to Canada's Wonderland and went on various rides by myself and noticed IOIs from women both in the park (after the scary ride), and afterwards.

So, @Xenom0rph, my challenge is this, how do you know its because of what you are saying, and you didn't just do something that's shockingly outside your comfort zone?

 

[7onriverI f]

Girls have often told me they thought I would fuk them. I have girls run off, move away from me, girls into me grinding on my dik, put their hand up and say no when i look at them, approach me.

Some of these same girls have pulled the finger at me when i looked at them and I just smile and walk off. later they are all into me and wanna bang.

Some of my buddies in the past get the same **** from women. Women behind the bar kick them out of the bar really for no reason other than them looking at them.

It's all about timing. When a girls horny she will let you come over and answer your calls. Even a girl i talk to has told me this that a guy whos trying to come over to fuk her has his timing wrong. When she wants to fuk he doesn't come over and when he wants to fuk she doesn't want to and doesn't respond to his texts.

If you guys get into friendships with women you will notice when they are horny and will let you fuk them. They might not want you as a boyfriend but just a dik they can ride. They might also want you as a boyfriend.

 

[7onriverI f]

@Xenom0rph visited a hooker and noticed IOIs afterwards. I read the post where he said that.

You know what else I notice? I get IOI's from women whenever I purchase a new car I didn't drive in before. When I get used to the car then I get less or no IOIs. Or, another one, when I just get a haircut. Any NEW thing you do that disrupts your "normal" could create a field that creates IOIs. If you travelled to Australia for 2 weeks and came back you'd probably notice new IOIs when you return back. I went to Canada's Wonderland and went on various rides by myself and noticed IOIs from women both in the park (after the scary ride), and afterwards.

So, @Xenom0rph, my challenge is this, how do you know its because of what you are saying, and you didn't just do something that's shockingly outside your comfort zone?

Yeah they want you as a boyfriend or some guy who drives them around because you got a hot car. They ain't all wet over the fact you have a hot car. Lose the car and the girl won't show you any ioi's because they can't use you for this. Having a haircut means money as well which they wanna use you for.

 

[corrector]

Yeah they want you as a boyfriend or some guy who drives them around because you got a hot car. They ain't all wet over the fact you have a hot car. Lose the car and the girl won't show you any ioi's because they can't use you for this.

You missed the point. I said the IOIs go down after the car is now part of my comfort zone or new normal. This makes it a mental field rather than the car.

 

[7onriverI f]

You missed the point. I said the IOIs go down after the car is now part of my comfort zone or new normal. This makes it a mental field rather than the car.

No it's the car dude. nothing mental. the car probably needs a wash or looks old meaning less money.
Girls want a guy who is going on instincts and wants to bang them at certain points in time. and get as much use from guys who provide them secruity in the form of resources. You can be both to the girl and not every girl is going to want to ride in your sweet as ride. some girls ain't interested in that.