need some advice on plate , shes been hot and cold pulling back ?

[bat soup]

Yeah that might be it , because its weird how 10 days ago we meet we **** she tells me she misses me kisses me , then after i hit her up the same way shes alwaysss hit me up she flakes
Do u recommend i dont msg her unless she msgs me first tho ? Because i dont really want to hit her up after she flaked on me . I would want her to contact me first

Also i few days b4 we met we were on the phone and she asks me what im doing i say meeting a friend and she goes is it a girl or guy ? I lied and said its just a guy from work. It was actually a girl. But why would she ask me that meet me tell me she misses me. Then flake on me afterwards
Maybe shes tryna **** with me

It seems like she's playing games and trying to lock you down. Maybe don't see her for a month and definitely not more than once a week just to bang - don't be hanging out and doing boyfriend/girlfriend stuff together, otherwise she might start to assume the two of you are together. You also shouldn't lie to her or feel like you have to - it actually hurts your case, because if she thinks that you're not seeing other girls that encourages her behaviour.

 

[derby1]

Yeah that might be it , because its weird how 10 days ago we meet we **** she tells me she misses me kisses me , then after i hit her up the same way shes alwaysss hit me up she flakes
Do u recommend i dont msg her unless she msgs me first tho ? Because i dont really want to hit her up after she flaked on me . I would want her to contact me first

Also i few days b4 we met we were on the phone and she asks me what im doing i say meeting a friend and she goes is it a girl or guy ? I lied and said its just a guy from work. It was actually a girl. But why would she ask me that meet me tell me she misses me. Then flake on me afterwards
Maybe shes tryna **** with me

This girl has you spun, women pity players, you are giving off a player vibe im afraid.

women are NATURAL players, you ARE NOT. make sense?

read "the book of pook" without delay.


and read it 10-15 times

 

[Rake101]

This girl has you spun, women pity players, you are giving off a player vibe im afraid.

women are NATURAL players, you ARE NOT. make sense?

read "the book of pook" without delay.


and read it 10-15 times

Women pity players ? What do you mean man ??? I thought women liked alphas . Are u telling me women like betas ? I don't understand
Am i supposed to act like im not a player ? While i know shes a slut ****ing other guys ?

 

[Rake101]

It seems like she's playing games and trying to lock you down. Maybe don't see her for a month and definitely not more than once a week just to bang - don't be hanging out and doing boyfriend/girlfriend stuff together, otherwise she might start to assume the two of you are together. You also shouldn't lie to her or feel like you have to - it actually hurts your case, because if she thinks that you're not seeing other girls that encourages her behaviour.

Honestly i thought if i was to tell her i was seeing a girl she would of took it as disrespect and maybe stopped seeing me because of that i wasent sure

 

[bat soup]

Honestly i thought if i was to tell her i was seeing a girl she would of took it as disrespect and maybe stopped seeing me because of that i wasent sure

The problem in going along with her assumptions is that you're letting her believe that it's a relationship. If you tell her you're seeing other women, then she can't complain about it. Otherwise, she might stalk and then spring some drama on you when she catches you "cheating".

 

[Rake101]

The problem in going along with her assumptions is that you're letting her believe that it's a relationship. If you tell her you're seeing other women, then she can't complain about it. Otherwise, she might stalk and then spring some drama on you when she catches you "cheating".

I mean when she brang up the ltr thing way eailer i told her im not ready for that yet.
And remember she flaked and has been cold i havent heard from here. Also today i actually came accross her profile on tinder. Thats how i met her to begin with

 

[bat soup]

I mean when she brang up the ltr thing way eailer i told her im not ready for that yet.
And remember she flaked and has been cold i havent heard from here. Also today i actually came accross her profile on tinder. Thats how i met her to begin with

The best thing is just to be honest with her about what you're doing. Otherwise you'll get pegged as a liar and she'll stop seeing you. At least if you're honest she'll remember you when she feels like getting some D.

 

[derby1]

Women pity players ? What do you mean man ??? I thought women liked alphas

An Alpha male is not a player, an alpha male wouldnt have said he was with a guy when he was with a girl...

when asked , his answer would have been "are you a journalist for the national gazette"