6 pack abs and girls?

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
 

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
It'll show as a flat stomach and trim waist.
 

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6 pack + looking fit is what does the difference for your physique (along with height and a hot face), not how "big" you look as a natural lifter.

Maybe if you took steroids like fitness models, athletes and actors do some girls will be into that, however I speculate that it's mostly because of the shredded look and 6 pack in the first place that the drugs give and only secondarily the size itself. Just other guys will compliment you for "looking big" as a natural ime (I have no experience with drugs) so I guess if you're homosexual then it might make a meaningful difference.

By the way that "muscle mass" you think you are sacrificing to get a 6 pack may just be fat.
 
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Only at the beach but regardless, remember you have to be charming to be in the position where both of your clothes are off and by that point, the girl is going to like you enough anyways whether you have a 6pack or not. Never met a gal that rejected me after we got naked for sex because I didn't have a 6 pack.

Muscle mass over clothes is what's more noticeable as you said.
 

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About 6 pack abs. Does having one boost your chances with girls?

Would you go for more muscle mass generally or 6 pack abs? Which one should one go for first

I think girls like a 6 pack abs but that most of the time, it's hidden(under your shirt) so I don't really know
I'm quite certain (personal observation and have been told by many) most women prefer lean, muscular, in-shape guys vs the doughy, undefined, "big" guy. And yes, abs are a HUGE turn-on for women. Women will check out your ass to look for a trim waist. Don't be afraid to wear some nice fitted jeans and a tighter v-neck t-shirt or similar on your next date. If you have pipes, wear something that shows them off too.

Staying in top physical shape means you take pride in your appearance, feel good about yourself, aren't afraid of hard work and dedication, and have high standards for yourself which translates to every other facet of your life--and women know this, especially the high-quality ones.
 

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I'm quite certain (personal observation and have been told by many) most women prefer lean, muscular, in-shape guys vs the doughy, undefined, "big" guy. And yes, abs are a HUGE turn-on for women. Women will check out your ass to look for a trim waist. Don't be afraid to wear some nice fitted jeans and a tighter v-neck t-shirt or similar on your next date. If you have pipes, wear something that shows them off too.

Staying in top physical shape means you take pride in your appearance, feel good about yourself, aren't afraid of hard work and dedication, and have high standards for yourself which translates to every other facet of your life--and women know this, especially the high-quality ones.
I might have one of the best asses of all time from years of 500+ lb deadlifts and squats but I am not exactly trim. I get compliments all the time on it
 

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I have a six pack, but I get compliments on my arms and ass way more than I do on my six pack. Could be that they stand out much more when you’re wearing fitted clothes, whereas the six pack is only visible shirtless.

I definitely recommend the aesthetic, golden era look (wide shoulders, slim waist) vs the stockier powerlifter, HGH look.
 

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Women are not likely to see you have a six pack until you bed them and take off your shirt. So does it help create attraction, but it doesn't actually attract a woman. However, if you take off your shirt and she goes "oh my god..." it will certainly help your cause.

As for muscle bulk vs 6 pack. Muscle bulk is easier to achieve and it's more visible.

Bear in mind that it doesn't matter what you look like sometimes. If you find a chick that likes guys with a dad bod then you're not going to impress her at all.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I've gotten the "oh my god" reaction before and while it's good for the old ego she was already in the bag by then. Really the only time its gotten me straight out laid was in a pool party type environment where I was able to show off without looking like a douche. Well, that and hook up apps. But if you can't close the deal by not acting thirsty or being not being a **** then abs or a great body won't really matter.
 

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Women are not likely to see you have a six pack until you bed them and take off your shirt. So does it help create attraction, but it doesn't actually attract a woman. However, if you take off your shirt and she goes "oh my god..." it will certainly help your cause.

As for muscle bulk vs 6 pack. Muscle bulk is easier to achieve and it's more visible.

Bear in mind that it doesn't matter what you look like sometimes. If you find a chick that likes guys with a dad bod then you're not going to impress her at all.
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tbh no girls like a dad bod, they just say that so dad-bod guys wont be offended, imo
 

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Women are not likely to see you have a six pack until you bed them and take off your shirt. So does it help create attraction, but it doesn't actually attract a woman. However, if you take off your shirt and she goes "oh my god..." it will certainly help your cause.

As for muscle bulk vs 6 pack. Muscle bulk is easier to achieve and it's more visible.

Bear in mind that it doesn't matter what you look like sometimes. If you find a chick that likes guys with a dad bod then you're not going to impress her at all.
LMAO, I don't think I want a chick that likes a dad bod
 

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I'm quite certain (personal observation and have been told by many) most women prefer lean, muscular, in-shape guys vs the doughy, undefined, "big" guy. And yes, abs are a HUGE turn-on for women. Women will check out your ass to look for a trim waist. Don't be afraid to wear some nice fitted jeans and a tighter v-neck t-shirt or similar on your next date. If you have pipes, wear something that shows them off too.

Staying in top physical shape means you take pride in your appearance, feel good about yourself, aren't afraid of hard work and dedication, and have high standards for yourself which translates to every other facet of your life--and women know this, especially the high-quality ones.
Nice abs! How long have you had it?
It's all balanced and muscular, your arms, chest, shoulders
 

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By the way that "muscle mass" you think you are sacrificing to get a 6 pack may just be fat.
No, what I mean is, either working to become more muscular generally(chest, shoulders, arms, back, thighs) or just working on my abs. Cos I don't think I can do both simultaneously
 

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No, what I mean is, either working to become more muscular generally(chest, shoulders, arms, back, thighs) or just working on my abs. Cos I don't think I can do both simultaneously
You mean you can't gain muscle and lose fat simultaneously? of course you can.
 

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Nice abs! How long have you had it?
It's all balanced and muscular, your arms, chest, shoulders
Always been active and a gym rat but got super serious about 3 years ago and took it to a new level. I tell people what my diet and workout regimen is and 99% say "I could never do that." No, you actually COULD. You just CHOOSE not to.
 

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Always been active and a gym rat but got super serious about 3 years ago and took it to a new level. I tell people what my diet and workout regimen is and 99% say "I could never do that." No, you actually COULD. You just CHOOSE not to.
Wow! What's your diet and regimen

Another reason people(i have said this before too) give as to why they don't workout is "I don't want to get too huge "(like it's that easy, lol)
 
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