GigaChad is actually a real dude...???...

[Xenom0rph]

You could be right, I don't have the presentation or poses of a thug or something like that. No tattoos, no arrogant or "dangerous" or criminogenic poses.

Im not a "nice guy" at all either according to my own judgement, in fact i like to tease girls with deliberately not doing "nice" things for them, but that doesnt matter. Their perception is what matters and my presentation does me no favor in that regard, that's for sure. My presentation is not "optimised" for what women want, while guys like @cola are.

I have a six pack and villa-living women did smile, blush and greet me when i walked through their area shirtless on a hot day...



Ill just talk to whoever i come across in my student accommodation.. then ill just talk to whoever i find on campus.



I don't want to do something again just for women, especially not if it's expensive, that's how i got my worst burn so far when i travelled to see a woman. But if im going on exchange anyway... Id rather go somewhere it's easier to meet and have sex with women.

I don't want to spend the rest of my youth fvcking nothing or dating down when i do fvck... And then what? Wake up one day in your 30s or 40s and find out you can finally match with mentally ill baggage-ridden trash that have been put through the blender and even their most deceitful cosmetics cant fix their face anymore?

No thanks. It's already bad enough with my 29 year old emptied out, damaged fwb. I want to experience sex with girls i find attractive while i still can, both by age and environment.

Whites and latinas huh.. so you think i would still get past the race filter in SD being mixed? Haha. I wouldve thought youd say i needed to go somewhere with more black girls.

Your biggest weakness isn't your phenotype, women down in San Diego dig all types of men.

Your biggest weakness is your age. I graduated late at 24 years old because I had to work part time in community college and save up money. Even at 24 I felt like a senior citizen amongst all those 19 and 20 year olds.

At 27 it's gonna be tough, no joke, you'll have a hard time competing with a 20 year old Chad.

But in all honesty, if you're thinking you can run "just show up" game and women will throw themselves at you, that's a mistake.

Sorry bro, but reality check, only Chad surfers can run Just Show Up game.....

 

[AttackFormation]

Your biggest weakness isn't your phenotype, women down in San Diego dig all types of men.

Your biggest weakness is your age. I graduated late at 24 years old because I had to work part time in community college and save up money. Even at 24 I felt like a senior citizen amongst all those 19 and 20 year olds.

At 27 it's gonna be tough, no joke, you'll have a hard time competing with a 20 year old Chad.

But in all honesty, if you're thinking you can run "just show up" game and women will throw themselves at you, that's a mistake.

Sorry bro, but reality check, only Chad surfers can run Just Show Up game.....

I think im still in a workable age for those young women, not really worried about that, just give me a conductive environment and ill do what i can.

It does seem likely that the competition in SD would be very tough. Tall, high status, ripped, hunter eyed surfer Chads, pro athletes, actors and stuff... I certainly wouldnt be counting on OLD still.

What about Chapel Hill in NC? I guess that's outside of your area.

 

[andreihaha]

Turns out the meme is actually based on a real person. He's a Russian dude.

I lol'd hard watching this video.

No one cares.
Stop imagining chin implants and do your best with what you've got.

Not talking to OP, but with all of you(you know who you are)

 

[AttackFormation]

1)Dont listen to what users of this board say, half of them cant tell the difference from a fat woman and a curvy one and very likely aint banging any....1/3 of western men are sex starved and I find it very unlikely that the winners happens to be all here.

2)I recall you are in your late 20s, above average in height and not bad looking so it means that you either do something wrong when you deal with women or that the environment where you happen to be sucks, I hardly blame the guys with "step up your game bro" or bullsh1t like that, nowadays its very likely a crappy environment, game means sh1t compared to look and evironment.

3)Wherever you are, online dating multiplies the value of women and decrease the one of men so if you already are in a crappy environment you can guess whats the result.

I told you many times how I get a match a week in southern spain while I get 3 matches daily in western poland, same pictures, same bio and same everything...what changes is that in Cordoba its mostly 5s while in Wroclaw its 6s and 7s and keep in mind that the Wroclaw area has many european companies and many western european tourists therefore its not the green pasture it was mid 00s.

To be successful with women nowadays it takes a certain amount of look, enough money to live a decent life and most of all be in the right place...none of these can balance one lacking.

Thanks bro, you are always as grounded as the oak tree in my old schoolyard.

About the environment. I take accountability for the fact that I haven't cold approached much in my life (but neither has anyone else I've seen or heard of in real life unless the woman gave them obvious signals like in the gym, I wouldn't even have known of the concept of "cold approach" unless I saw it on the internet from american PUAs in my teens), don't go to clubs since many years ago and haven't created any social circles with young single women in them (who aren't mentally ill, single moms, substance abusers, etc).

I understand that women are not going to just teleport into my life. But what I want to know is this: how are men supposed to meet women in this society? what are we supposed to do? Right now I can wait to find out which girls will live in my student accommodation that I move into next month, but that's it.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Thanks bro, you are always as grounded as the oak tree in my old schoolyard.

About the environment. I take accountability for the fact that I haven't cold approached much in my life (but neither has anyone else I've seen or heard of in real life unless the woman gave them obvious signals, I wouldn't even have known of the concept of "cold approach" unless I saw it on the internet from american PUAs in my teens), don't go to clubs and haven't created any social circles with young single women in them (who aren't mentally ill, single moms, substance abusers, etc). I understand that women are not going to just teleport into my life.

But what I want to know is this: how are men supposed to meet women in this society? what are we supposed to do?

Cant really help you with the social circle game at all, most of the girls I've been intimate with were picked up in night clubs or were friends of girls I met in night clubs.

The only few exceptions were hotel receptionists, secretaries and other women I happen to deal with...never done anything proactive in terms of life style to meet women.

I increased my LMS as much as possibile and once reached a decent levels I simply did my stuff and dealt with women who happened to be on the way (except at work or at the gym).

If you need suggestions for proactive actions with the goal of meeting women, you have to wait for other users, personally never been a social circle guy.

Anyway dont get depressed and dont believe the bullsh1t you read here, nowadays most of the guys live months long dry spells or deal with sea monsters and psycos.

 

[AttackFormation]

Cant really help you with the social circle game at all, most of the girls I've been intimate with were picked up in night clubs or were friends of girls I met in night clubs.

The only few exceptions were hotel receptionists, secretaries and other women I happen to deal with...never done anything proactive in terms of life style to meet women.

I increased my LMS as much as possibile and once reached a decent levels I simply did my stuff and dealt with women who happened to be on the way (except at work or at the gym).

If you need suggstion for proactive actions with the goal of meeting women, you have to wait for other users, personally never been a social circle guy.

Cool, your commentary is like basically everyone else on this forum nowadays. Guys say you shouldn't go out just to approach women.. just interact with women who happen to cross your life and work on your LMS.

So I guess it's simply fatalism, and acceptance of that. Fine with me really, I just want to know what the case is.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Cool, your commentary is like basically everyone else on this forum nowadays. Guys say you shouldn't go out just to approach women.. just interact with women who happen to cross your life and work on your LMS.

So I guess it's simply fatalism, and acceptance of that. Fine with me really, I just want to know what the case is.

In the end it all boils down to your SMV, below a certain threeshold is pointless to go after women since the effort wont give you results.

Above a certain threeshold you dont really need to make an effort to get women cause the ones on your way will be enough.

Its only low IQs that think that getting women its a matter of what you do rather than what you are.

The only active measure you have to do is move away from crappy environments.

 

[f(x)]

I would go to SD and learn how to surf if I were you. I lived in North Carolina for 30+ years and spent a lot of time in Chapel Hill. It has one of the best college basketball teams in the country (Michael Jordan went there) and the school has been recognized as having some of the best looking women. It’s also hip and a lot of touring bands stop there. Raleigh and Durham are minutes away and the beach/mountains are about 3 hours away. Another plus is cities like Atlanta, DC, and NYC are relatively close if you have a car. The state is growing (top 10 in population nationwide), great networking and businesses opportunity as well. I can’t speak for Oklahoma, I’m sure it’s nice but if San Diego doesn’t work out, Chapel Hill really isn’t that bad. *not sure what it’s like post-Covid though.

 

[AttackFormation]

I would go to SD and learn how to surf if I were you. I lived in North Carolina for 30+ years and spent a lot of time in Chapel Hill. It has one of the best college basketball teams in the country (Michael Jordan went there) and the school has been recognized as having some of the best looking women. It’s also hip and a lot of touring bands stop there. Raleigh and Durham are minutes away and the beach/mountains are about 3 hours away. Another plus is cities like Atlanta, DC, and NYC are relatively close if you have a car. The state is growing (top 10 in population nationwide), great networking and businesses opportunity as well. I can’t speak for Oklahoma, I’m sure it’s nice but if San Diego doesn’t work out, Chapel Hill really isn’t that bad. *not sure what it’s like post-Covid though.

Yeah if the numbers I can google are right then there's no way in the whole helvete that I'll go to San Diego, it's WAY too expensive, so I guess if I do go to USA it would be to Chapel Hill. The nature around there looks great, I love the southern accents, and it's also small enough that you won't be crippled without having a car on a daily basis.

Anyway, this is a decision a long time away and I'm still leaning toward exchange in Australia or New Zealand,

 

[EyeBRollin]

If I go on exchange study to USA I can go to San Diego, North Carolina (Chapel Hill) or Oklahoma (Norman). I can go to other places too but theyre too far north, too cold (the most southern after those 3 was New Jersey). I was wanting to go to Australia or New Zealand... But im not sure about that, don't want to go somewhere else where id just live like this.

You got any recommendation or maybe those destinations are all shyt? Haha. I like my girls big. I actually spent some days in Saint Louis years ago, first time in my life that I felt like I clearly got hit on in public twice (2 black girls, but one looked so young i was afraid to reciprocate). Barely saw anyone though since it's a car-based city and it was winter on top of that.

Im not dead set on using OLD at all, i just feel like i have no choice both because of the culture here, that i dislike clubs and substance use, that there are very few girls here who are my type, and that i have no social circles.

My man come to New Jersey. You will clean up. Metro NYC is the OLD Mecca of USA