article: Plus-Sized Woman Says Being Fat Doesn’t Mean She Has To Settle For Any Man

[MatureDJ]

You really need to check out this butterball!

Plus-Sized Woman Says Being Fat Doesn’t Mean She Has To Settle For Any Man

<p>A plus-sized woman is preaching body confidence as she hit back at trolls and said she doesn’t have to settle for men just because she’s overweight. Teacher Megan Fisher, originally from Pennsylvania, USA, struggled with her self-confidence growing up, and in her teenage years began to...

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I had been on at least one fad diet per year since I was in eighth grade. I even was two weeks out from having gastric bypass surgery at one point but thankfully found the body positivity movement during my pre-op work which gave me the courage to cancel the surgery.

Knowing how much Tess has helped me with my journey made me realise that if I post pictures of myself normalising things society says fat girls can’t do like wearing a bikini [and] dating attractive men… My goal is to be the role model I needed when I was younger.

Megan explained:

I think some men believe they can message fat girls and that we are obligated to talk to them just because they’re giving us attention, but they are so wrong.
Fat women do not have to settle for any man, we have plenty of amazing options.

 

[Georgepithyou]

But she does have to settle for all the health problems with being at that size

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

we have plenty of amazing options.

No, they don't. There's no point in even talking about this, fat women can get laid, sure, or settle with some low SMV man, but none of them have access to the top men, and they know it. It eats them up inside knowing that they can't get the men they want, and deep down they know the men that they end up with are not attractive; if they were, they wouldn't be with them.

 

[bat soup]

The only thing less attractive than a fat woman is a confident fat woman

 

[JayAce]

“She now shows off her body in bikinis, crop tops and shorts and shares body positive pictures on Instagram to inspire other women and encourage them to ditch their body insecurities”

aka no need to work out and try to lose the pounds because that’s too much work. we can still get attention because a lot of guys are complete simps. we can trick ourselves into thinking we’re just as beautiful as slimmer women. Lessgo queens yaaas

 

[bat soup]

To me personally, fat is repulsive. They can be as positive as they want but I'll never find a fat woman attractive and I'm sure that a lot of men feel the same. I also don't particularly like confident women because they tend to be mouthy and a pain in the ass. So these fat and confident women are about as repulsive as a woman can get.

 

[JayAce]

To me personally, fat is repulsive. They can be as positive as they want but I'll never find a fat woman attractive and I'm sure that a lot of men feel the same. I also don't particularly like confident women because they tend to be mouthy and a pain in the ass. So these fat and confident women are about as repulsive as a woman can get.

I have to agree.

Fat is repulsive to me as well. Man or woman.

it shows lack of self care. no it’s not usually easy to shed the pounds, but it can be done over time and with some decent discipline.

in the article it said this woman tried a lot of diets growing up, but it never actually said if she jogged, walked or exercised. Which is kind of important...

 

[Who Dares Win]

I dont think there is a problem in being slightly fat (see chubby girl from school), the problems is when bodyfat gets above 30% for two reasons.

The first one is such amount of fat doesnt require anything extreme to be removed and the second one is that it makes whoever has it far from healthy and attractive.

We cant be mad at a guy for being 20% bf or a woman being 25% especially for those living in the city and being over 40, yet there should be no tolerance for young people doing sh1t about being 40%+.

 

[isasda66]

I always tell fat girls that sign from Netherlands "Dress for the body you have not the body you want"

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Haha, sounds like a complete rationalization to me.