Yall are gonna crucify me for this.... so please dont.
About 3 months ago..early covid days....me and her got into a big argument... she had visited gfs for a couple of days...a few hours away and went out to eat... potentiality putting our family at risk. We were being very strict at the time. Nothing in public. A family decision.
When she returned. The boys and i gave her a hard time about it. She was very standoffish... felt picked on.
But we had agreed... she wouldnt go out to eat.. purely safety.
So big argument...i wake up saturday morning... and shes gone... 8.20am i woke up. She left a note referring to covid concern and said shed be fone as long as she needed to be.
Then at 1pm... i got an email from her... stating. Im fine and im safe.
No phone calls.. just emails...until 5 or 6pm
She started talking about us having a break. Me visiting my parents..sister. then talking about seperation and family marriage counseling with the kids. I never agreed to it btw. I found out later that if i had... it could have been used against me...
Never heard her voice saturday. Sunday at 7 got another email. Saying shed call the kids.
We all talked and at 10pm she sunday she showed up.
She said she didnt have to tell me where she was....
Im like wth...is going on...
We went to a counselor monday afternoon...and i got the counselir to press her for her location over the weekend. Finally with a weird smile... she said gabby.. one of her friends... that im actually real close with.... i was...not now...
Monday night she made me sleep on the couch.
Tuesday night we had sex...
But she was very tender.
Bc of her period and being out of town and previously on antibiotics...we hadnt had sex in 16 days. She said that was why.. she actually winced... juat when i put it in.
She was extremely wet... had a maxipad on ( not period)... and very tender.. she actually asked me do i have on an extender?...bc i was so big. i coyly asked her a what that was.. she said that she made it up....she didnt know....