My slut gf/wife

[Buzzman]

Dated 3 years. Then When we were on a break. Soft breakup...i also dated others.

she dated a frat guy she knew from college for a month. Then the next frat guy asked the 1st guy if he could ask her out ( she told me)... so they dated til 6 weeks ...right b4 valentines day. He breaks up with her...
Then in may we were starting to go out again... we werent officially back on... but i took her to see our favorite band at a local bar.
After the show.. at 11pm we were drinking at the bar... and her ex walks up with the other frat guy...pretty random...

I meet him she actually whiapers in his ear. And they leave... 20 minutes later.. me and her go to bathroom. I go in tell her ill see her at bar or in line...

Im in there 45 seconds. When i get out... shes gone. Vanished.

I called her phone she answered. Heard a commotion.. sounded like laughing....

So.. she then turns the phone off. I hear from her at 11am the next day. I go over to talk.

I asked her what happened. She said she was mad at me bc we were fighting ( we werent). And she had gone downstairs to leave with her gfs...and went home with them.

Long story short.. i belelived her.

Years later..after kids. ..she tells me that ahe actually went bar hopping with her exes and then went home with her gfs.

Then this jan she tells me that the frat exes also went home with her and her gfs at her gfs. But the guys left.

Then this may.. she tells me that the gfs werent there and she left with the frat guys.

She said ahe hasnt had any sex with either guy. That night or when they dayed months b4.

She has always said that shes only had aex with me and her college bf.

 

[backseatjuan]

Maybe she gave some head and took couple of ccks at the bathroom of any of those bars or at the house.

If you want your relationship to end quick I recommend installing reptilicus onto her phone. You will hear surrounding sounds of the phone, say she's fcking in the other room you will hear how she screams, you will get a list of all her recorded voice conversation, access to all her sms whats up snap chat, etc.. All her online activities from the phone, conversation with dudes she's banging, etc.. It's golden mine for you, since I can see an eventual divorce.

I believe you can also order a new phone from them, so you can give it as a gift to her instead of installing the app.

 

[Buzzman]

Maybe she gave some head and took couple of ccks at the bathroom of any of those bars or at the house.

If you want your relationship to end quick I recommend installing reptilicus onto her phone. You will hear surrounding sounds of the phone, say she's fcking in the other room you will hear how she screams, you will get a list of all her recorded voice conversation, access to all her sms whats up snap chat, etc.. All her online activities from the phone, conversation with dudes she's banging, etc.. It's golden mine for you, since I can see an eventual divorce.

I believe you can also order a new phone from them, so you can give it as a gift to her instead of installing the app.

 

[Buzzman]

Yeh. Funny thing. Bout a year ago.... we went back to my college town with her....
Saw a band play. And after the band played... she told me she wanted me to **** her in the bathroom... ive never asked her to do that b4...

 

[Serenity]

As I said in your other thread, taking a break is bullsh!t. You should never have accepted that and now you're in this mess with kids involved. You need to start planning your exit strategy because I highly doubt this will last and it's better to have control than to one day have it slammed in your face unexpectedly.

@backseatjuan I can see the appeal of such "solutions", but if the trust is that severely degraded I don't see the point of going through the extra steps. Just a waste of time and money.

 

[Buzzman]

As I said in your other thread, taking a break is bullsh!t. You should never have accepted that and now you're in this mess with kids involved. You need to start planning your exit strategy because I highly doubt this will last and it's better to have control than to one day have it slammed in your face unexpectedly.

@backseatjuan I can see the appeal of such "solutions", but if the trust is that severely degraded I don't see the point of going through the extra steps. Just a waste of time and money.

I know. Didnt know what was happening when it was happening. I was young and naive. Swe were still hanging out even a week b4 xmas that year and she was thinking about going back to my parents with me for xmas. Flying her up. Now... i know she had no intention of doing it as she was dating a frat guy from college and was about to be passed around to the jan/feb guy....

 

[metalwater]

It sort of helps to talk about it. If there are no real ppl to talk to about it a forum on the internet is the next best. The advice you get from this forum probably won't change much unless you tell something that is very different than what telling so far. sometimes it feels like if we just keep searching there must be a different answer than we can like and accept. especially when the truth is so very painful.

Some call it weak; some call it being human; all sorts of names but it means we do not yet have the learning and experience to deal with a very painful thing. A wife that cheats on a man that is not prepared to deal with it is one of the most terrible emotional situations in the entire earth. I promise you are not the first it happens to and will not be the last. So very often we can not get clarity or certainty of this thing but we know it all the same. Sometimes we do have enough info but refuse it because if we just look a little further we can find the other answer that we so much want to hear.

When you get through this; and you will get past it, remember how it felt and try to help other men when it happens to them. Watch and read what others are telling. Some of the tuff sounding men are really trying to deal with the pain.

Obviously there are a lot of men that believe they have the right to either advance on or accept the advances of a married woman. Don't become one of them unless you will enjoy causing the same that you feel now. I call it falling to the dark side, yes there is power in the dark side but with it great destruction in breaking other men and other families all just for a release and validation.

 

[Spaz]

R u trolling us?

 

[HyenaPrince]

Bro this is literally the same thread as before. You're going to get banned if you keep this up. If you wanna pour your heart out, create a group conversation and discuss that sh*t in private.

 

[Buzzman]

R u trolling us?

No. This is real...

 

[Buzzman]

Bro this is literally the same thread as before. You're going to get banned if you keep this up. If you wanna pour your heart out, create a group conversation and discuss that sh*t in private.

Thx. Talking it out really helps.

Ok. How do i do that....set up a private group

 

[Buzzman]

So she went to a bar with YOU and then left you there whilst leaving with OTHER guys? You don't think there is something wrong with that?

She then told you she went bar hopping with other guys, whilst forgetting all about you. Shows you how little respect she had for you. Probably knew you would tolerate it.

Then afterwards they all went back to her girlfriends house and LIED about it.

Finally, she told you she went ALONE back to the frat guy's house - a woman amongst two (maybe more) guys - and you believe NOTHING happened? What do you think they did? Play musical chairs?

Surely you can't be that naive to believe that nonsense. She definitely f*cuked them in my opinion. She was eager to leave you for them.

Completely agree with @HyenaPrince last post in your other post.

Yes. All true. I didnt know about leaving with the frat guys until years later after married and had kids.
She started changing the story.
I told her b4 we got engaged to tell me the truth about that night... and in a extremely believable way...she swore she just went home with gfs. Thats all. I thought... shes either telling the truth or shes a sociopath.

 

[Buzzman]

It sort of helps to talk about it. If there are no real ppl to talk to about it a forum on the internet is the next best. The advice you get from this forum probably won't change much unless you tell something that is very different than what telling so far. sometimes it feels like if we just keep searching there must be a different answer than we can like and accept. especially when the truth is so very painful.

Some call it weak; some call it being human; all sorts of names but it means we do not yet have the learning and experience to deal with a very painful thing. A wife that cheats on a man that is not prepared to deal with it is one of the most terrible emotional situations in the entire earth. I promise you are not the first it happens to and will not be the last. So very often we can not get clarity or certainty of this thing but we know it all the same. Sometimes we do have enough info but refuse it because if we just look a little further we can find the other answer that we so much want to hear.

When you get through this; and you will get past it, remember how it felt and try to help other men when it happens to them. Watch and read what others are telling. Some of the tuff sounding men are really trying to deal with the pain.

Obviously there are a lot of men that believe they have the right to either advance on or accept the advances of a married woman. Don't become one of them unless you will enjoy causing the same that you feel now. I call it falling to the dark side, yes there is power in the dark side but with it great destruction in breaking other men and other families all just for a release and validation.

Thank you. Yes. It does help to talk it out. You realize how hard its been until you see it written down. Then you read it back and think... how did this guy let this happen. Unfortunately... im that guy. And it sux.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It sort of helps to talk about it. If there are no real ppl to talk to about it a forum on the internet is the next best. The advice you get from this forum probably won't change much unless you tell something that is very different than what telling so far. sometimes it feels like if we just keep searching there must be a different answer than we can like and accept. especially when the truth is so very painful.

Some call it weak; some call it being human; all sorts of names but it means we do not yet have the learning and experience to deal with a very painful thing. A wife that cheats on a man that is not prepared to deal with it is one of the most terrible emotional situations in the entire earth. I promise you are not the first it happens to and will not be the last. So very often we can not get clarity or certainty of this thing but we know it all the same. Sometimes we do have enough info but refuse it because if we just look a little further we can find the other answer that we so much want to hear.

When you get through this; and you will get past it, remember how it felt and try to help other men when it happens to them. Watch and read what others are telling. Some of the tuff sounding men are really trying to deal with the pain.

Obviously there are a lot of men that believe they have the right to either advance on or accept the advances of a married woman. Don't become one of them unless you will enjoy causing the same that you feel now. I call it falling to the dark side, yes there is power in the dark side but with it great destruction in breaking other men and other families all just for a release and validation.

The guys who do it get off on knowing they shytted on another man. They think they are "better" than that man if they fvck his rotten and corrupt wife.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Thx. Talking it out really helps.

Ok. How do i do that....set up a private group

It works exactly like creating a private conversation. Go to your message and start a new conversation with the participants you want to address.

 

[Buzzman]

The guys who do it get off on knowing they shytted on another man. They think they are "better" than that man if they fvck his rotten and corrupt wife.

Yeh. Ironically... a couple of years b4 leaving me at the bar... we went to her gfs wedding. Wed been dating a year...

And that same group of frat guys was there. Including the ones she would everually date and leave me for...

So i go in the bathroom and they start giggling a little.. i thought it was a little weird...
Told her... she said thats bs and said shed talk to the bride to cut it out...

The other day we were arguing... i told her i assumed the guys were laughing towards me bc i was with the girl that sleeps with everyone...

She said no... its bc they thought u were a dork....

Remember, that is now... after she had actually dated them, gone home withem...who knows when stopped...

Present day.. she says they called me a dork.
I told her that was harsh... then she said she was just kidding... and she said that bc i said that about her sleeping around

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thank you. Yes. It does help to talk it out. You realize how hard its been until you see it written down. Then you read it back and think... how did this guy let this happen. Unfortunately... im that guy. And it sux.

Hey bro to talk about it more than once causes increased weakness. It's a form of complaining which is not a good habit. Or it's like an abused female keeps going back to the guy which is a feminine manner. It's best in this life to respect ourselves and take action.

 

[Buzzman]

It works exactly like creating a private conversation. Go to your message and start a new conversation with the participants you want to address.

Ok. Thx.

 

[Buzzman]

Hey bro to talk about it more than once causes increased weakness. It's a form of complaining which is not a good habit. Or it's like an abused female keeps going back to the guy which is a feminine manner. It's best in this life to respect ourselves and take action.

Thats true. Thx

 

[HyenaPrince]

Hey bro to talk about it more than once causes increased weakness. It's a form of complaining which is not a good habit. Or it's like an abused female keeps going back to the guy which is a feminine manner. It's best in this life to respect ourselves and take action.

Talking about it feels like you're already handling it. This is very counterproductive. It's like having a goal and then telling it the wold. You feel like you're getting closer and making progress, but in reality you're just deceiving yourself.