It is just too hard for most men to accept.
I've accepted it but have trouble coping w/ it...if that makes sense. There are days this stuff still eats me up. It hurts man. The thing that hurt the most though? When I understood the game and had interactions with women in the real sense. You know when a woman thinks your on her level, like insider information, about the game. Well even in those types of relationships I've had, in moments of utter human exposure and humanity, to see a woman STILL behave in the utmost of opportunistic fashions when you'd expert her to conform to Disney has been rough.
For example the first time I had a real Alpha type vibe with a woman from the moment I met her until the moment we ended things (My choice btw)..to then start to miss her and reach out a month later (broke NC) and to tell her I missed seeing her and if she was free to grab some food at some point over the next couple of weeks...to have her respond with some curt tone and not in a sh*t test way but in a "Wow, she literally doesn't give a ****" way is the first time I literally felt the matrix b*tch slap me in the face.
That's when I realized how different women are from men. The only thing becoming a self aware Alpha has done for me is increasing my job prospects 10x fold and getting a-lot of sex. After a while you find out that sex isn't as big of a deal as our society makes it out to be. Then you get depressed about that. So you have more sex. Then you feel worse. So you start to think, well let me try the whole relationship stuff over again. Then, with your new found awareness, you realize women want men they can control for marriage/relationships. An alpha is incompatible with a modern day American woman for relationships.
I mean the first time you have a woman use men to make you jealous, again after you've held frame, instead of trying to find some common ground with you, letting love prevail, apologizing and owning up to her mistakes, etc. is another slap.
I thought once I learned game and internalized "Alpha" that I wasn't supposed to hurt anymore? Why do I still hurt? I figured it out..
Oh wait a minute. You mean that sh*t Rollo wrote about women literally being incapable of loving a man the way I thought she should was true? WHAT?
You mean no matter how good of shape I'm in, no matter how smooth I talk, no matter how much money or how well I f*ck there's literally no way to guarantee a woman will stay faithful to you?
For those strong enough, the few, to accept this reality and then try to forge a new path for yourself based on these truths face a daunting battle. I can't tell you how sick most of society makes me. Tv, online, on my way to work, in social circle conversations, I'm constantly getting a false narrative of my own God damned existence shoved down my throat. They are literally gaslighting me into submission into accepting a narrative on life that they've been brainwashed into believing that's how we should all live. They want me to filter my OWN life experiences and real information I've learned on my own through a scripted lens.
But they're not all that way. Then you have the players (the natural alphas you knew your freshman year of high school and the hoes you didn't). They typically take two paths in life. Either a life of crime or a life success in the office, on capital hill or the set. You'll know who these people are because once you've arrived as a self-aware Alpha, you'll find these people start targeting you. They'll pop up. I've experienced this at two jobs. When you're a legit good person, I mean like a righteous individual, and I'm not talking religious sh*t. I'm talking about when you know in your soul that you're a good person, these people don't like it.
This is when you realize that there is a small% of the population who really run things. Think of it like the Mafia. It's an underworld type of group, not saying they are all criminals - not at all, just trying to illustrate the point. These types, again, if they don't become criminals, will typically do very very well in the corporate, political and entertainment world. I can tell you right now that the movies that you see released each year pretty much have ZERO to do w/ Art. Companies make films that the POPULATION will like. What's popular on TV/in the Movies is based on what they KNOW will sell.
Why do you think Rom-Coms were a billion dollar segment alone in the movie industry back in 1999? More interesting is the fact that those numbers this year are only $3,000,000. 3 MILLION. Even with COVID, that's a ridiculously sharp decline. The reason being is because while men are desperate, they are not stupid. After a while they noticed what women were doing and started to de-tach. Well guess what? It's about time for Hollywood to start making movies showing how it's OK for women to have multiple lovers at the same time, i.e. "Daddy's Home", "You'll always be my maybe", etc. This is happening intentionally and on purpose. Wake. The. F*ck. Up.
This is "Eyes wide shut" type **** I'm describing here. When this small % of the pop. notices an outsider, i.e. a righteous individual waking up and asking questions, they don't like it. Why they don't like it? I'm not exactly sure. It's like there's this ancient set of rules for that way of life and it cannot be violated at any cost, lol. It's like you can't be woke and still be a good person if you want to succeed in American society. I think it's because when winning is all that matters there is absolutely no time or energy spent on thinking about rules. This small % is the definition of the 7 deadly sins man. I'm telling you this sh*t I'm telling you about is biblical.
So of course men are going to be persuaded into the comfortable. "She'll love me for me". Less competition for the men in that small % and more profits at the box office and also culturally speaking from ways of life lived and the new products created in response to those changes in living (The feminist movement). All industries are and were effected by the feminist movement, #metoo, etc. It's about power and control. That's what the elites of this country want. That's all they want and it will never be enough. And women are going to fall in line. Even if they don't like it. Do a google search for "My husband's a pu$sy" And hundreds of thousands of search results come up. But what are women going to do? Stand up to the elites who are force feeding themes of "strong, independent women, i.e. OK for them to be slutty AND feel good about themselves doing so, open relationships and men being clumsy idiots? No, they're going to fall in line. Even if they don't want to. Again, I'm talking the cultural/socioeconomic level.
Now, circling back to YOUR post. Do you think the average man could fully accept and internalize all of the aforementioned without wanting to hang himself? ESPECIALLY, if he was raised (tricked?) into believing life worked as the exact 180 degree opposite?
Batman knew his ****. "You either die a hero or live long enough for yourself to become a villain". That's the only option. Either that or you fall in line and just ride it out until you drop.
Hmmmmm...
What to do...
What to do...?
