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Who cares what they want? They're too old.
This guy I know is a year older than I am.

I would disagree that the women are too old. I get the point that you're trying to make. However, most men end up with women close to their own age, especially if they are using swipe apps, as the guy in this example does. A lot of women on swipe apps will filter out much older men. He's making a solid six fig salary, swiping, and getting no respect on these swipe app sourced dates from the 28-35 yr old women. I think that's absolutely a sign of a bad mating environment.
 

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However, most men end up with women close to their own age, especially if they are using swipe apps, as the guy in this example does.
That's because most men are delusional about the value of older women.

A lot of women on swipe apps will filter out much older men.
How do you know that?
 

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I'm around 6'4" and 235-240, have a 34" waist and very broad shoulders and chest. I'm not cut up or look stage ready but I'm solid and athletic looking. We all have different body types, as long as you strive to stay active, workout and eat a good diet your genetics will determine the rest.
This is the kind of physique most men desire to have. You've got the height thing going for you. Your appearance is what should be delivering the most amount of women slobbering to get with you. We encourage guys in this forum to lift to get to the point where you are in order to get attention.

That's because most men are delusional about the value of older women.

How do you know that?
Most men can't get better than someone near their own age. It takes a lot to get a woman 10 years or more younger. I know how my friend is treated by women from his anecdotes.
 

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Most men can't get better than someone near their own age. It takes a lot to get a woman 10 years or more younger. I know how my friend is treated by women from his anecdotes.
Unfortunately its all anecdote here, there is no data on this, but I would think if you're 30+ and have an SMV of at least 7.5 or more, I can't imagine that landing a girl 10 years younger than you is hard.
 

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Fat shows up in the face. It'll make you ugly.

The more weight I lose, the more looks I get. It's undeniable.

But, even with the weight...I've been called a "handsome devil".
Unfortunately its all anecdote here, there is no data on this, but I would think if you're 30+ and have an SMV of at least 7.5 or more, I can't imagine that landing a girl 10 years younger than you is hard.
it’s not hard at all.
 

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Fat shows up in the face. It'll make you ugly.

The more weight I lose, the more looks I get. It's undeniable.

But, even with the weight...I've been called a "handsome devil".
Was 23%. Now about 17%. No real difference in attraction. I do feel better though.
 

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Women think any guy that makes under 6 figures is “broke”.
only if we are relying on it as our only value. if we lead with money; better have more than that or be in a location where others are extra poor. to be fair there are lots of guys that earn more than that; and they are broke living month to month. I have had that conversation before with girls I was not interested in and have been told two different things. Several have said 50 or 60k is a baseline and less than that is ok if there is a plan in place for more. Others and more often have told that they never want to need to feed the man. Often they tell their girlfriends that you earn more than you do while they are seeing you.
 

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For the longest time early part of this year until June, I've not been able to crack 180 lbs at 6'2." As of mid-July the past 2 weeks I've dropped to 175 lbs. This just proves consistency will shed weight. You think you've hit the wall, but sky's the limit. I could probably drop to welterweight at 170 lbs by the end of the year. For the longest time I was hovering around 185 (middleweight) through winter. It could be the heat of Summer (more sweating) being the cause of more weight dropping or implementation of pullups into my routine or more frequency of 3+ workouts/week as opposed to 2+ workouts/week.

So, being so much lighter now, I feel a bit more "vulnerable," in just meeting bigger guys within +/- 10 years of my age. Of course, I'm flexible and faster and probably healthier/more energy/endurance/cardio, explosive. But to the eye (to the female eye), I may look "weaker," but certainly not it's deceiving ability to defend myself. Not sure how I feel being so light and perhaps lighter in the coming weeks. My metabolism has changed certainly and I lose weight just walking in the Sun. As well, I sweat easily whereas before I started getting "fit" in August 2019 (200 lbs then on the beach), I hardly ever broke a sweat even while working. Your biochemistry utterly changes when you stick to your plan and remain consistent. Light of foot is where I'm at now. It makes sex more "feel-good" - more sensitive to the perineum area (no homo). Sex does not feel as good when you're overweight.

I may need to ad weights to my workouts. It's been totally body-weight exercise for me for almost a year, a lot of planks/pushups/squats, and now pullups.
 

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only if we are relying on it as our only value. if we lead with money; better have more than that or be in a location where others are extra poor. to be fair there are lots of guys that earn more than that; and they are broke living month to month. I have had that conversation before with girls I was not interested in and have been told two different things. Several have said 50 or 60k is a baseline and less than that is ok if there is a plan in place for more. Others and more often have told that they never want to need to feed the man. Often they tell their girlfriends that you earn more than you do while they are seeing you.
Where I am, 6 figs is barely adequate. There are so many new homes being erected even through this asinine virus, homes starting at 500K, makes no sense unless it's old money coming from out of town.
 
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