Glassguy
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The year of my divorce I went on a rampage. My count that year was in the 30s. Once I got a steady rotation I really didnt care anymore on my approaches, which is a reason why I pulled so many chicks.
Several people have mentioned approach anxiety. I think it exists but it can go away and come back depending on your situation and your mentality.
When I had a steady 2-3 chick rotation and I had steady pvssy, it seemed as though my approaches were flawless. There is a simple reason why:
I didnt NEED them, I only WANTED THEM and I was ok with either outcome. Think about that. If I approached a chick in real life, on facebook, etc.......I truly didnt give a shyte if they wanted to hang out or if they didnt. That is what separated me from the other guys hitting them up. And that is why they hung out with me.......it was sexy and attractive.
So OP says 48 chicks in a year? Its doable. Good for him. 7 years ago when I hit the 30s count in a year I was at fighting weight, didnt sleep much and it got to the point that I had to slow down and reduce the amount of money (just drink dates) and time I was spending on so many different chicks. But I guarantee you cant pull that many chicks a year unless you truly have an abundance mindset.
Think about this-
2 guys walk in to a car dealership. One guy has a newer vehicle and doesnt need another one. He is just looking. He will only buy a new vehicle if it is a great deal for him.
The other guy's car just died, he has poor credit and he must find a way to get a new car.
Who is going to get the best deal for themselves? Same goes with women. Its all about an abundant mindset. Which you can still have if you are dating someone exclusively if she knows that you have replacements in the background on standby if she fvcks up.
Happy Hunting
Several people have mentioned approach anxiety. I think it exists but it can go away and come back depending on your situation and your mentality.
When I had a steady 2-3 chick rotation and I had steady pvssy, it seemed as though my approaches were flawless. There is a simple reason why:
I didnt NEED them, I only WANTED THEM and I was ok with either outcome. Think about that. If I approached a chick in real life, on facebook, etc.......I truly didnt give a shyte if they wanted to hang out or if they didnt. That is what separated me from the other guys hitting them up. And that is why they hung out with me.......it was sexy and attractive.
So OP says 48 chicks in a year? Its doable. Good for him. 7 years ago when I hit the 30s count in a year I was at fighting weight, didnt sleep much and it got to the point that I had to slow down and reduce the amount of money (just drink dates) and time I was spending on so many different chicks. But I guarantee you cant pull that many chicks a year unless you truly have an abundance mindset.
Think about this-
2 guys walk in to a car dealership. One guy has a newer vehicle and doesnt need another one. He is just looking. He will only buy a new vehicle if it is a great deal for him.
The other guy's car just died, he has poor credit and he must find a way to get a new car.
Who is going to get the best deal for themselves? Same goes with women. Its all about an abundant mindset. Which you can still have if you are dating someone exclusively if she knows that you have replacements in the background on standby if she fvcks up.
Happy Hunting