How to Meet a High Quality Woman

[Lynx nkaf]

Black pill just wants to be pitiful.

^^^^that's what I was thinking when I replied to that post

 

[BeExcellent]

So the question remains. Who are these "high quality men" who are surrounded by "high quality women"?

Here is what my life experience demonstrates to me:

A high quality man has the following traits:

1. He is purposeful in his life. He strives to excel. He has goals, ambitions and designs. He makes diligent efforts and takes risks to fulfill that purpose.
2. He exhibits self discipline in his manner and habits.
3. He leads by actions and example. He is respected by other men.
4. He is a gentleman in the true sense. Grounded, self assured, confident and socially adroit.
5. He looks after himself and his appearance as a matter of pride and good health
6. He enjoys life and those he surrounds himself with. But he is responsible rather than reckless.
7. He is secure.
8. He is emotionally intelligent and observant
9. He is accomplished/successful
10. He protects those in his care, whether family, employees, children, etc.
11. He exhibits characteristics such as loyalty, trustworthiness and honor
12. He mentors or influences others for good

Notice that none of those things are superficial things. A high quality man is one because of his character. Looks/money/status is a factor but these things are less important than who the man is at his core.

Some would say power or powerful. I’d agree. But there are plenty of rich powerful ass holes who are not high quality men. It’s about character above all else.

 

[Jack12345]

Here is what my life experience demonstrates to me:

A high quality man has the following traits:

1. He is purposeful in his life. He strives to excel. He has goals, ambitions and designs. He makes diligent efforts and takes risks to fulfill that purpose.
2. He exhibits self discipline in his manner and habits.
3. He leads by actions and example. He is respected by other men.
4. He is a gentleman in the true sense. Grounded, self assured, confident and socially adroit.
5. He looks after himself and his appearance as a matter of pride and good health
6. He enjoys life and those he surrounds himself with. But he is responsible rather than reckless.
7. He is secure.
8. He is emotionally intelligent and observant
9. He is accomplished/successful
10. He protects those in his care, whether family, employees, children, etc.
11. He exhibits characteristics such as loyalty, trustworthiness and honor
12. He mentors or influences others for good

Notice that none of those things are superficial things. A high quality man is one because of his character. Looks/money/status is a factor but these things are less important than who the man is at his core.

Some would say power or powerful. I’d agree. But there are plenty of rich powerful ass holes who are not high quality men. It’s about character above all else.

Only these 12 points?
And not a single word about his penis.
I'm a lucky guy

 

[BeExcellent]

Only these 12 points?
And not a single word about his penis.
I'm a lucky guy

It’s a good general list, lol. Anatomy has nothing to do with character and vice versa.

 

[Jack12345]

Anatomy has nothing to do with character and vice versa

That's true. The more defects the better. These what makes men. Although lynyrd skynyrd would not agree as she already swallowed the black pill.

 

[Visionist]

If you just want to get laid, forget about surrounding yourself with "high quality men". They're usually married and unless you're fücking their wives you're wasting your time.

Fückboys get laid. Fückboys are:

1: Ripped
2: Dress in the height of fashion
3: Love to drink, do drugs and party
4: Arrogant and douchey

There's your list.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Here is what my life experience demonstrates to me:

A high quality man has the following traits:

1. He is purposeful in his life. He strives to excel. He has goals, ambitions and designs. He makes diligent efforts and takes risks to fulfill that purpose.
2. He exhibits self discipline in his manner and habits.
3. He leads by actions and example. He is respected by other men.
4. He is a gentleman in the true sense. Grounded, self assured, confident and socially adroit.
5. He looks after himself and his appearance as a matter of pride and good health
6. He enjoys life and those he surrounds himself with. But he is responsible rather than reckless.
7. He is secure.
8. He is emotionally intelligent and observant
9. He is accomplished/successful
10. He protects those in his care, whether family, employees, children, etc.
11. He exhibits characteristics such as loyalty, trustworthiness and honor
12. He mentors or influences others for good

Notice that none of those things are superficial things. A high quality man is one because of his character. Looks/money/status is a factor but these things are less important than who the man is at his core.

Some would say power or powerful. I’d agree. But there are plenty of rich powerful ass holes who are not high quality men. It’s about character above all else.

Hey, that's pretty good. I'm going to write out this list.

Leadership and dominance.

I agree and that's after cancelling out the LMS one by one in my head to doublecheck.

I still agree. Leadership and dominance.

Well done. This is a high quality man.
What a pleasure to read such a wise and mild post. I like the word usage too.

ok, effusive praise over.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If you just want to get laid, forget about surrounding yourself with "high quality men". They're usually married and unless you're fücking their wives you're wasting your time.

Fückboys get laid. Fückboys are:

1: Ripped
2: Dress in the height of fashion
3: Love to drink, do drugs and party
4: Arrogant and douchey

There's your list.

If thats the majority of reality then thats what it is. Alot of them like complaining about the guy so he gives them plenty to complain about.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

If thats the majority of reality then thats what it is. Alot of them like complaining about the guy so he gives them plenty to complain about.

women do that too. Its all childish

 

[redskinsfan92]

Here's another Alexander Grace video. Here he talks about how to meet a high quality woman. Basically he says the odds are very low using pickup.
He suggests building a social circle, or gaining entrance to a social circle made up of high quality men, men you respect.
These men will naturally have high quality women around them, so if you meet a woman through them, they are basically pre-vetted by the group to be high quality.

Of course, this raises the question as to what you think a high quality man is. I doubt that you want to hang around with alpha douchebags (or maybe you do).
Usually men build their male friendships around having similar interests and liking similar activities, although it helps if they have good character. You don't want to hang out with some dude you can't trust.

You building time machines Zekko?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

women do that too. Its all childish

All fueled by the "quick notes" of social media and smartphones. People went back to a high school mentality. So perhaps your search for suitable mate excludes people in that high school mentality.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

All fueled by the "quick notes" of social media and smartphones. People went back to a high school mentality. So perhaps your search for suitable mate excludes people in that high school mentality.

"Passing notes" like high school... Smh

 

[Lynx nkaf]

All fueled by the "quick notes" of social media and smartphones. People went back to a high school mentality. So perhaps your search for suitable mate excludes people in that high school mentality.

no longer searching

 

[mrgoodstuff]

no longer searching

Exactly, Take care of yourself, live it will be there.

 

[zekko]

You building time machines Zekko?

Very funny.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

The problem right now is that no one can build a social circle with almost no in-person gatherings.

Social circle can't work for a lot of people there are too many variables involved. The biggest one is that you have an urgent sexual need and are impatient to relieve it. It takes a while to develop circles to feed you prospects.

A lot of older guys (late 20s+) don't really have the capability to implement it because social circles become almost exclusively the domain of established couples around age 30.

It's best to do before hormones get raging. In order for a person to do social circle most effectively, it is best to lay the foundation in elementary school and 9-10th grade. Ideally, this person went to the same feeder pattern public schools or followed a common private school path in that geographical area. The person must also stay in the same geographical area as an adult. That's the most common way in which I've seen social circle work.

The other way I've seen it work is to develop a broad group of friends once you get to campus as a freshman and then see what happens. I know a guy (good friend) in his early 30s now who has had the same girlfriend/wife for 10 years based on this model. He met this girl in a class study group as a freshman. When he was a junior, some other guy who he was friends with went out with this study group girl a few times but had yet to bang her, so my friend made an effort with her. He won the battle for her, severely annoying that other guy who had been out with her 3 times and no bang. It destroyed that friendship, but he's gotten a 10 year long relationship out of it so it was worth killing the friendship.

I think the advice in the video is fundamentally sound, but not able to be implemented by a large swath of the population who would actually need to implement it.

Research into the subject of relationship formation has indicated that social circle as a means of meeting women has been on the decline since the late 1980s. Quite simply, I think that is because social circles as a whole have gotten weaker since the late 1980s. People now have weaker social circles due to frequent geographical displacement (aka moving). Also, with many staying single later into life, and couples ruling the roost in a lot of social circles, there's just fewer social circle options. Civic organization participation has also decreased as well.

I highly recommend forming social circles if you can because it will make life easier.

Bro are you, like, me from the future or something? Every time I read your posts, it’s like I’m reading my own thoughts lol

Red pill allows you to improve your lot in life. It also knows you can join clubs or groups to gain access.

Black pill just wants to be pitiful.

There’s a lot of truth to blackpill though. Forget about their nihilism and their cynicism for a second, and see what they say about female nature outside of their perpetual redpill rage-turned-blackpill. While they do draw faulty conclusions sometimes based off of anger, there is a lot of truth to what they say. Case in point:

Nightclub

Nightclubs (a.k.a. sexploit clubs) are one of the main venues which are supposedly designed as venues for courtship to occur. In practise, nightclubs are more likely...

incels.wiki

Nightclubs are one of the main venues which are supposedly designed as venues for courtship to occur. In practise, nightclubs are more likely to be venues wherein men are exploited. Off course, the MSM (mainstream media) will never frame it as such, due to an unwritten social rule that its Ok if male disposability occurs. In the western world, exploitation and being treated like one is expendable will only acquire social scorn if it is directed against women; on the other hand, if it is directed against men, especially low-tier men, it is deemed as a trivial matter. As such, a nightclub could more aptly be referred to as an exploitclub, or more accurately, a sexploitclub.

Like, directly pointing out the expendability of men like this, and being done so overtly and factually nonetheless, is magnificent, in my opinion. Forget about the woman hate and bitterness for a second and look at how they talk about societal problems at large—their ability to not only detect but to find logical and empirical data as proof of what is happening and why it happening is unrivaled by any other internet community.

That’s why a part of what they say resonates with me—because they don’t just focus on sex with women, they look about intersexual dynamics as it relates to society as a whole, and that’s a HUUUGE scope that they handle. The sex problem with females isn’t something that’s an issue in and of itself, it’s merely a symptom of a greater overall problem with society at large. And THAT is what they focus on and actually talk about that traditional redpillers just kinda gloss over and ignore. The phrase of “enjoy the decline” comes to mind with this. And when you have groups of dudes who can’t (or who rather, won’t), then you have a large community of intellectuals inadvertently running diagnostics tests on society trying to (and actually succeeding, no less) find out what is wrong with society right now and why it is the way it currently is. The implications behind that are huge because it lays the foundations for finding solutions to many, or even all of, society’s problems.

Granted, it’s still in its infancy stage right now, but just browsing around the wiki page you’ll come across excerpts and snippets of things that you never would have thought about before that actually do ring true to everyday life.