Sand volleyball is everywhere (a truckload of sand only costs about $50, so it's not like it costs that much); of course, in nothern climes it is only a summertime activity. A problem with this ploy is that it is CHAD CITY, especially since goof volleyball players tend to be tall.
When you say good volleyball players tend to be tall, are you referring to both sexes or just the women?
As for the Chad City part, I don't see this as a major problem. Every man should do everything in his power to be Chad. I exercise 4-5 days a week, eat clean, and avoid porn and mbate to optimize testosterone. While I am not a definitive Chad, I have a very good case for being Chad Lite.
Weddings have changed in recent years as well. In the 1990s and early 2000s when you were likely doing weddings it was different. In a lot of the weddings since 2010, the couple getting married are around age 30, and most of their friends are people in established couples around age 30 as well, making a post wedding reception a complete pusssy wasteland for the single and unattached man. "Wedding Crashers", which came out in 2005, is horribly outdated today, and might have even been outdated in 2005. People just don't meet at weddings anymore if they are in their late 20s or later. If people meet romantic partners through their circle of acquiantances and friends, it is at some other social event.
3 of my friends in my primary social circle got married in 2017. I didn't attend any of the weddings because of this. My closest friend of the 3, after the wedding, told me there were a total of 110 attendees at the post wedding reception, and 0 single and unattached women under the age of 40. The other 2 weddings likely had a similar demographic composition. I was in a new relationship in 2017 at the time of 2 of the 3 weddings, including the one I mentioned with the 110 attendees. In a separate issue, for the one with 110 attendees, I wasn't even given a +1 to that wedding since when the guest list was determined, I wasn't in a couple.
The only time a wedding might be worth going to is if it is a local wedding, and the couple getting married is well younger than the median age of people who married. You want the couple getting married to be like 25 and 23, so that they'll still have unattached people in their orbit.
I'm an early Millennial and I know of Norm from Cheers from passing by re-runs.
I'm not sure that method would work today. Why would a 45 year old woman go to a Rotary Club or Kiwanis event to meet men when she can interact with far more men by putting up a profile on Hinge, Bumble, or even old school Match? It's entirely possible for a 45-50 year old woman who isn't drawing much interest in the real world often to throw up a profile in the digital world and all of a sudden she's being pursued like she was when she was in high school in the pre-internet era. I've seen this exact scenario play out among people I know. About 6 years ago, a male acquaintance who was in his early 30s at the time tried to bang such late 40s woman in this scenario and she turned him down as she told him she had 3-5 other options she was juggling. She was menopausal, had 2 kids still under 18, and yet could carry on a multiple sexual relationships.
