Is this how easy it was in the 80's?

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I've said this before on here, a significant percentage of men are not getting any, the only reason it may not be obvious from face value is because this isn't something that people are open about. Like you said, 28% of men would not in a more normal environment be deemed undateable by women.

I'm 30, around 6'4"and workout regularly, very fit athletic body and I haven't been on a real date in over a year. I'm one of the fittest people I see at the gym, disregarding the steroid users who wouldn't be anything like that naturally. Throughout my day to day life it is rare for me to see someone else who is around my league physically, they exist but in the real world it is rare. A guy like me is clearly above average but yet I rarely date.

Before I posted on here and made an effort to pay attention to other men around my age I thought I was an outlier, now I'm finding out that there are tons of single men in a similar situation to me.
A 30 year old, 6'4" guy with a fit athletic body should be a guy with his pick of pusssy options. A 30 year old, 6'4" guy should never have a pusssy drought of more than 2 weeks.

Whenever I've been out to bars and clubs it's crazy to see these groups of women huddled together and yet literally have their face glued to the screens of their phones. I'm a little older at 30 but women I've seen in their early to mid 20s seem to have a severe issue with this, it's like why the hell are you even going out if you are just going to stare at your phone.
I noticed this was going on in 2011 when I got to my new city as an unattached guy. Seems like a problem of the smartphone era. Women in both their 20s and 30s now do this.
 

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I've got an older story, from 1899. The women in my ancestry used to wait at the shipping docks and snag up all the sailors as they got off the boats

They would make themselves look real nice and wait for hours for them to port. Many people are directly descended from this very act

Kinda proves that women's behaviour has always been the "chaser", especially with men they viewed as the most exciting, masculine and aloof

Sailors in the 1800's would have been the closest thing they had to rockstars
My maternal grandma was from Korea and was in her early-mid 20s when the war was going on. My grandpa was stationed there and basically hooked up with my grandma at a bar and got her prego. She wrote him a letter when he came back to the States and then he felt guilty so he went back and married her and took her back to the US lol. It’s the same exact thing as your story lmao she basically waited for a “big strong American” to come by :rofl: :rofl:
 

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I wonder what 60's would say about 80's
As a clicking my apps gen I would admit dire strait and scarface were good, other then that something feels like the 80's was the beginning for what seems to be the road to hell, as chris rea would put it
The 60's guys loved our 80's music and girls.
 

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I bet allot of this is down to no social media. Plus it was allot harder to get caught with more than 1 women on the go
 

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u didnt have any mobile gaming devices back then ?
Has to be something
Most of those were so primitive and small, I know a lot of people didn't bother until the Nintendo came out at the very end of the 80's.
 

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This is true. Chicks in the 80's were hot af. Not the bubble butt fake boobs princesses you have today. No "plus size" models, lol. Obesity rate was much lower which means fat people were less common. Go look at some pics of clubs, parties, women back then. People are in much better shape then vs. now. Much more athletic and lean. Guys included. If your thing is BBW, today is your hay day.

Hottest chicks from the 80's: Tawny Kitaen, Kim Basinger, Demi Moore, Bo Derek, Cindy Crawford, many more. Look 'em up their prime.

I honestly don't remember feminism being a huge deal or movement back then. It was in the 1970's with the ERA.
The best way to determine how women looked in a certain age is to look at Playboy models. I think the late 70s, early 80s had the best, and were the ones I grew up on during puberty/adolescence. o_O
 

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The best way to determine how women looked in a certain age is to look at Playboy models. I think the late 70s, early 80s had the best, and were the ones I grew up on during puberty/adolescence. o_O
My friend bought a house in nyc and took me for a visit there when I traveled to usa. The last household was an old lonely man, nobody had an idea that he's dead until someone found his body in one of the rooms. He showed me the erotic pornography collection of this dude. It was from the late 50's. I still cant determine if the women there are at their early, mid or late 20s. I took this collection as a rare piece of example of human history
 

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Back then, we all knew how to dance, have adventures and basically enjoyed life.

The young men nowadays are so busy clicking on their apps, trying to get laid virtually but when out on a date, they no nothing at all since they're aren't adventurous nor are they fun.

They're just too busy complaining, just like a chick.

Imagine, being a woman, dating another woman in a man's body.
Imagine.

Its enough to send women researching the internet for masculinity forums to see if there's any men. Men. With capital M.
 
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