Ok i doubt she will want to come around anytime soon since she just started up with her ex , ill see what happens in a few weeks
Need advice/ do i tell her im not using her for sex ? Has she decided to walk ?
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mrgoodstuff
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I was asking you a question to make a certain point clear for the other guys. Say you have a stack of sexual swagger, ton of sexual confidence and it's so much it makes bytches around you horny. Say this confidence is put in there by 6's and 7's, who worship your c0ck.
Now say you have no females. 3-4-5 months go by, sexual swagger dips but it's not all drained out. Say you have a 9 in front of you that you think is hot. What would happen if you let that 9 string you along for 3-6 months, promising sex and always backing out? Would it help your sexual confidence if you had no other babes or would it hurt it?
No contact as others have said. Only read cliff notes but that is enough for me.
Also if you guys can't communicate about this stuff and she was just assuming instead of actually asking you and validating her thoughts about a relationship then LTR would most likely fail anyways.
Move on and find someone else.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You can't even "wait and see", you better be worried about someone whose worried about you. You should feel insulted and want nothing to do with her.
I do feel insluted and im pissed off . I have to fight of the urge to msg her going off
Yes but doesnt every say never tell a girl your feelings first or never ask to be official first etc. So i was going by that logic that why i didnt bring it up . But she never brought it up either
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She could hear it because you bypassed the steps in your mind. She's gotta like you enough for consistent sex to even take her seriously.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Let this be a lesson to you.
Please elaborate?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You can't HEAR when a babe is really suggestive, attracted to you and you can probably fvck her?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Baibars
Master Don Juan
Wow. So in the end she used you not the other way around.
See it as a lesson. He can have the girl you fcked back.
Next time you wont be so confused about such girls actions.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I didn't even see that he fvcked her.Wow. So in the end she used you not the other way around.
See it as a lesson. He can have the girl you fcked back.
Next time you wont be so confused about such girls actions.
bcude
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Ah the good ol' lingering ex.
Another golden rule for the future. After sex happens between a man and a woman, the woman is supposed to increase her interest, pursue you (to trap you down) and initiate alot more, not go cold, withdraw and come up with excuses. That's when you know something is very wrong.
Another golden rule for the future. After sex happens between a man and a woman, the woman is supposed to increase her interest, pursue you (to trap you down) and initiate alot more, not go cold, withdraw and come up with excuses. That's when you know something is very wrong.
NSX-R
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First of all why would you fck her if she eventually return ? If that was me i wouldn’t even entertain the possibility to even allow her do anything further with me after all that . She’s been the player in the situation and used you as a rebound guy . And her excuse? She thought you weren’t serious enough. After 7 dates and a bang? Don’t believe this bs . That’s just a way for a slut to fulfill her broken ego . A guy dumps her then she tries to fill the ego hole from other guys ( you in our case) , as soon the older guy returns, she’ll be back to him .
Don’t you guys have some self value? Women as every human being has to prove to you that she’s worth the time you spend with them . Even more when you about to bang. Never allow yourself to be number 2 . Even at the slightest chance.
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I've had a very short fuse since last year. If I get a whiff that I'm a benchwarmer or I'm just a lower option to her, I just jet and forget. Way too many women in this world to be stuck on one, especially one that doesn't view you as the prize.
mrgoodstuff
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How does one determine they are the "lower option"?
You can't always determine it obviously but there are tell tale signs that are obvious to the seasoned daters and maybe not so obvious to others just starting out.
For example, I look at texting response rate and habits. If you just texted and held a convo with a gal and all of a sudden she goes cold, you can pretty much bet she has a more interesting option she's texting with.
If you ask her on a date and she cancels last minute with any bs excuse, you can bet she's going out with the better option.
If you ask her when she's free and she's wishy washy about her schedule, you can bet she has other options lined up in the pipeline and is keeping you as a backup.
If you're always initiating texting her even though you made it clear that you are interested in her and she never initiates the text, you're not her first option.
If after a first date, she's late to respond to your text, she's looking at better options.
Etc...
Yep but she would of lied , when i first met her she told me her ex was 2 years ago , even yesterday she told me it was that ex . But i dont belive it was 2 years ago noway it would of been much eariler maybe a few months ago . She just told me what i wanted to her to i assumed there was no exs lerking just incase it didnt work out with him she wanted the best of both worlds.
I told her what 2 years no contact and he calls u and u go running back to him ? Unlikey
mrgoodstuff
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Why would she suck him but not fvck him? A guy wouldn't suck a babe he wouldn't fvck.
bcude
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It's not unlikely, only you think it's unlikely because it's a blow to your ego but in reality 2 years could might aswell be 2 days if she sees him in a good light, especially if he dumped her.
If you act attractive, keep your self-respect and made a good impression while it was good times you'd be surprised how responsive and readily available women can be even years later. Why? Because they feel you're their best option.
But microanalysing this is a waste of time. What matters is her actions. Forget about her.
