All the nose ring shows me is that A. She's been ran through by a few "cool" guys B. probably done some type of drugs C. is all about using her pvss as a wagering device D. Possibly a few, not just one, lesbian encounters or relationships E. May wear one into her 40s or 50s as I am still seeing nose rings on women my age in my 40s F. is a follower or clings to pop culture or believes the media, thus, a slave unknowingly G. Is consumed, like a snake swallowing, by the world thus would jump to another man/woman in a heartbeat not really wanting to stay put with you, a traditional man, who doesn't believe in not building a sexual relationship with your partner for the goal of procreation and nurturing and securing the future of that new biology that contains apart of You. When a woman divorces with child, she's basically saying to the child, I HATE half of you. I know that's the way I felt when my mom divorced my dad, EVEN THOUGH she did it while I was well into college at my Junior year. It still affected me, and it was a Co-Worker (as well as her best girlfriend who always bad-mouthed my dad) Male ("Catholic" who'd cheated on His wife as well) of many years that lured her away from my father. I still see this man from time to time and my dad is dead as of 4 years ago. This man has 3 sons, one a paratrooper now a police/swat officer. My mother thinks the world of his family and their children and grandchildren, and never really calls or cares about me. It's pretty insane how a female can NOT care about her own flesh n' blood because it's got 50% of who she made it with, who she hated. I'll remind you that my dad was a "talkative" Alpha Marine badas5, who loved nonconformity (opposite of my mother) and hung with the dregs of the world (people you never see Rednecks and just plain weird people) like Easy Rider Jack Nicholson types, dope smokers, etc. He couldn't stand elitists, and I told the minister to express that side of him to the audience at his funeral and he did. My mother was the diametric opposite who WORSHIPS elites, those on TV, the whole gamut. It's sad. I'm proud of who I am but I had sh!tty parents to be honest who didn't know a damn thing about raising a child, yet expect me to just get married and not raise a child, and that if I don't then I'm nobody. Ok, well...