An observation on American guys and their game.

[Listen_to_Olly]

Over the years, having met a lot of American dudes and having gamed with them, I notice a clear and distinct hierarchy between how well they do with women and where they were raised.

I notice that East Coast guys from the Tri-State area but also Boston tend to have the most sexual experience with women and are most keen on actually approaching women outside their circles. The best actual game I have seen has come from men from these areas and DC.

Guys from the southwest in my experience are also really good with game in general but if they are from So Cal, they really care for their looks and tend to look better.

I'd say that guys from Texas, Florida, and Louisiana (more on that later), basically any southern states that are not uber-religious or massive on religion also round out the top tier of American men in terms of game. Texas and Florida produce a lot of Chad-type dudes and I've seen some of the best players come out from there.

The worst in my experience are guys from very religious southern states like Alabama and Georgia who end up growing up strictly Christian, they seem to be awkward and creepy around women. I went to Europe with a kid from Atlanta, we were in Stockholm and he was creeping on a couple hot blondes who were shouting at him to get lost. He was overall a creepy kid too but I notice this a lot from southern men who are raised in more traditional southern states. If they do not have a social circle, they cannot slay outside of it.

 

[logicallefty]

I can't speak for the East or Southwest but I can speak for the strict Christian household part. I live in the Midwest\Illinois South of Chicago. I know many guys who grew up in strict Christian homes. Some into their 40s who still think they have to do certain prim and proper things that their parents shoved down their throats. Many go to church every Sunday because they still think they have to, when they dread going and can't stand a minute of it while they are there.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I can't speak for the East or Southwest but I can speak for the strict Christian household part. I live in the Midwest\Illinois South of Chicago. I know many guys who grew up in strict Christian homes. Some into their 40s who still think they have to do certain prim and proper things that their parents shoved down their throats. Many go to church every Sunday because they still think they have to, when they dread going and can't stand a minute of it while they are there.

I hoped those "Christian" women are fvcking their man like champs and supporting him. It says so in the bible.

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We are in a crazy world. The crazy thing is that if you do your sex right in marriage, it's a full and spiritual experience.

 

[Postmalonelistener]

Can speak to the whole religious act having gone to high school in the Atlanta suburbs. The one thing you miss is that these dudes end up being very prototypical Nice Guys as a result of the Jesus act. A ton of these guys talk about wanting sex when you get to know them and about how they would love to act on porn fantasies but they are super goody two shoe in most public settings. Parents are also heavily involved in the kid's life and there is this whole emphasis on appearing nice and like a gentleman too for the public.

Most of these dudes will diss the players and guys that get around, talk ill of that lifestyle, but at the same time simultaneously want it. It is like they are living a lie without even realizing it. Georgia guys with the best game are either really small town dudes who do not care or Savannah kids who are party animals that have had a lot of sexual experiences by 18, the Atlanta area kids are usually weird AF.

I also notice these days that the men in the Atlanta suburbs are very very feminine or being raised to be that way. It could be due to church pressure and sex shaming but I am surprised at the amount of my classmates that have came out in the past couple of years. You have a lot of guys who are popularity focused and think like high school girls because that is the kind of world they keep getting raised in.

As for the best game, I'd say it's a tie between Boston guys and suburban California guys from So Cal (Nor Cal dudes are hideous and awkward). I find that Boston men embody the bold DGAF game attitude while men from So Cal look good and embody more of the natural laid back game. I'd throw in Florida guys as the wild card though, a Miami player or South Florida player can slay like none other.

Come to think of it though, Texas guys from Dallas seemed to have the most alpha male type of game but it was a lot quieter than that of a Boston raised guy.

 

[Medina]

The big difference I've heard with American dudes is they partake in c0ck blocking

Here in Britain c0ck blocking is not socially acceptable at all

If you are talking to a girl in a bar, that girl is basically yours. We are not going to interrupt you

 

[Postmalonelistener]

The big difference I've heard with American dudes is they partake in c0ck blocking

Here in Britain c0ck blocking is not socially acceptable at all

If you are talking to a girl in a bar, that girl is basically yours. We are not going to interrupt you

Depends on where in America they are from though. Southern men will c0ckblock you by being concerned with women and men from the PNW will do so in passive aggressive ways.

East coast guys will be brash and do it if they feel like they have a chance to win one over.

 

[zinc4]

The big difference I've heard with American dudes is they partake in c0ck blocking

Here in Britain c0ck blocking is not socially acceptable at all

If you are talking to a girl in a bar, that girl is basically yours. We are not going to interrupt you

If that's true I need to go to Britian. I've never been to a part of the world that wasn't a blatant **** blocking White Knight festival besides maybe southeast Asia.

Southeast US, particularly Georgia, is tops for white knighting and ****blocking.

 

[thinker]

I've seen guys from the south that could slay but yeah the super religious guys couldn't get laid to save their lives. Agree on guys from NY,NJ, Boston, California,Texas, And Florida. Midwest guys can be very hit or miss. Pacific northwest guys can also be very hit or miss and from my experience the worst and most feminine once are from Seattle , Portland , and even though it isn't in the pacific northwest I would put San Francisco in that group as well. On the whole cawk blocking thing and guys hitting on your girl I've always used the same thing relaxed chilled amused arrogance. My whole outlook has been to think look at these losers, they don't even know they got no shot. Sometimes I would just look at the girl with a playful smirk and she would basically send me the signal to take her away from the losers so we could have some fun.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

The thing I notice the most with San Francisco guys is that they overcompensate a lot and are quite petty. A lot of them go wild and cannot really read social cues well, they try too hard to be cool than just being chill. Boston guys are good at being that douche but San Francisco guys are like the example of how not to be that way while Boston guys are.