So sexual talk comes with comfort, but what about the opposite? Does comfort come with sexual talk? I believe it does.
Maybe. But you have to get to the sexual talk. Sooner is better. Too often men use comfort as an excuse to cover for their lack of courage in telling a woman what they want. Women already know you want to screw them. They see dithering about it as a sign of insecurity, which it is. Insecure men don't do well with women. It's better to be a little too bold than her lose interest because some other dude isn't afraid to tell her he wants to **** her. If she wants you to back off a little, you'll know it.
Nowadays there is no reason for women's anti slut defense. None. 50 forms of birth control are available. There is not a single social stigma against a woman pulling train on ten dudes and a donkey if that's what she wants to do. Society will celebrate her. So, that being the case, there are only a few reasons I can think of why a woman wouldn't have sex since we know that women like sex more than men.
1. You don't turn her on. So she honest about it.
2. She's conflicted due to psychological/ideological issues. (In other words, she's ****ed in the head.)
3. She's sick, or menstruating, the babysitter needs to leave soon, early flight, etc...
4. She's a dinner ***** or otherwise manipulating some chump out of his time, attention & resources, either short-term or as a long-term boyfriend to pay her bills while she slips out to screw the dudes who could care less about her but who make her wet.
Add to the list if you can think of anything else. Regardless, getting to the point quickly separates the wheat from the chaff. Time is the one resource you'll never get more of. Don't waste it.
