Women are truly insecure

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You can't control how people receive your message, you can only control how well it was delivered. If it was delivered with honesty and compassion, then that's the best you could have done. Their negative reaction is their own projection.
Mate I've got no doubt about the honesty and compassion. It's the humility that's a work in progress.
 

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Umm probabiy not that far. It's making the delivery of the message more effective by seeking common ground and having it come more from their own level.

If you raise yourself up a lot of people will see you as pushing them down.
 

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And right on cue you illustrate my point...And the same behaviour you complain about so much going on here. Also kind of disastrous trying to adopt a command and control leadership style with millennials.

It was a subtle invitation to a potentially useful discussion on leadership styles mate not a slanging match

I'm a senior project manager by trade I don't have any problem taking charge of the room but I don't feel like I need to be the smartest guy in it or suck all the oxygen out.

If you are open to some alternative viewpoints I can humbly suggest a couple of Good reads that have helped me become a more effective leader.

Humble leadership
Connect first
Self as coach self as leader

If not.....well I wish you luck with the next mutiny.....
 
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my ex went from me to a chubby ugly beta, and got knocked up... she was an insecure mess
stalking his social he literally had no girl action and those he did were fatties... no way he runs off.

she popped his kid and went from a 34yo HB7.5 hottie to a 36yo HB6 chubby (she will never regain her HB)

before View attachment 3685 after View attachment 3686 View attachment 3687
She's a chubby but still has a cute face, before the kid she was an attractive woman, for "most" women once they have a kid good bye body, some women I know have snapped back.
 

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I worked with women for over a decade, it was a frustrating time, one of them is a strong feminist, believed she was better than a man. Female drama drove me nuts it was constant either them fighting with each other or ganging up on me. I'm not perfect I know damn well of that, I'm an introvert, I keep to myself, I guess you could say I'm shy, I keep to myself. I do see a lot of fairly attractive women with I would say not so good looking guys. I'm not hating on women, the prospects out there for a datable woman are getting slimmer.
 
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