Women can have tight abs, but they aren't as large or developed as ours can be. The difference is why a lot of women are fascinated with them.
I keep thinking about those face statistics (men liking women's face best 46%, women liking men's face best 2%). That's just a shocking difference to me. A woman focusing on male body parts like the chest could indicate a sexual/physical attraction. Or it could indicate that they see us as tools, "What can this body do for me? I want to have it pave a new driveway for me" or that kind of thing.
I know women are supposed to have attractive and childlike faces that inspire affection and the urge to protect from us. But are women's faces that much more attractive than ours? Makes me wonder.
By the way, when I was growing up (in ancient times) people didn't talk about men's abs so much. I think I heard more about "broad shoulders" or "dreamy shoulders" than anything else.
Great. Running out of excuses.
If it's OLD though then as they all say the face is the most important feature, especially for your main profile pic has to be an excellent face shot.
Oh and today the sun light was just right so I used my fancy Note 10 Plus and took a new pic. Came out excellent and put that as my main profile pic on Match and today I noticed I got more views than usual. Bright, showed bright white, straight teeth and all and just had my hair cut and gelled up.
One HB8 chick who would never read or reply to my messages or photo comments suddenly viewed me. A hot 49 yr old who I messaged a week ago and she looked at me but didn't reply suddenly checked my profile out again even though I didn't contact her and that HB9 29 year old 50 miles away who would keep viewing my profile and even would admit to it to me viewed me again tonight.
We are men so I can't judge, but generally women seem to have better teeth and also facially seem more attractive. I think women see attraction a bit differently not only physically but other means like being a provider, etc.
I also think it varies by age. Women 30 and under seem to be more shallow and care about looks, but over 30 looks are not on the top of the list for a guy if they make money and can provide or have a personality.
At least us men have it better in that way. An average to below average woman really can't make her physical appearance better. A guy can get in shape, lose weight, make more money since women don't operate purely on looks like us guys do. A guy can compensate in other areas.