1. Vulgarity
Being vulgar, crass is a habit of peasants. This isn’t noble. It’s not how a man carry’s himself. Refrain from excessive vulgarity. It makes you come off as a commoner. Speak positively. Speak life. Kind words of compassion. If you have no kind words, use no words.
2. Self Deprecation
Words are spells. This is why we call it spelling. You keep speaking negatively about yourself it becomes reality. “I missed that turn, I’m such a dumbaśs” no you aren’t. You are a man who missed a turn. We do not allow others to talk to us negatively we must eliminate talking to ourselves negatively.
3. Ownership
From this day forth everything that happens in life is your fault. Your rough child hood, the girl who broke your heart, the bully’s in school. Let it go. You now are self aware and have full control of the steering wheel. Any way that you feel like you are lacking in life is your responsibility to fix.
4. Excuses
There are no excuses. You either completed the task or you did not. See life as a video game. You have goals and there are only two outcomes. Mission failed or Mission complete. Doesn’t matter what obstacles got in your way. Find a way to defeat them. If you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again. Until you do.
5. Kindness
Real men are kind, they help old ladies across the street, they cut their neighbors grass when he is battling an illness, and they do this while expecting nothing in return. Be the change in the world. A kind word. Mentor. That kid in your neighborhood who is headed down the wrong path, take him under your wing. Teach him manhood. Be a super hero in your own community.
6. Give Back
Many of us on this forum are successful. I know their are several engineers, lawyers, doctors, nurses and law enforcement. I ask you give back to the community. Volunteer, start a school supply drive. Don’t just use your connections for your own benefit. Help out. We live in a time where male leadership is needed.
7. Modesty
You make $150,000 a year in a low COL area. Do you really need a 5 bedroom house and Porsche? If you are into cars by all means, but are you really just buying it to show your status? You can afford it easily but does it really bring value to your life? Live below your means. Be humble. Don’t ever let your success go to your head. The world will respect you for it.
8. The meek shall inherit the earth
The quote in the Bible says the meek will inherit the earth. However, historians say this is a poor translation. The correct translation is “He who has a sword and knows how to use it yet keeps it sheathed shall inherit the earth.“
Be a beast. Be strong, but be humble, be quiet and be calm.
9. Lead
When things go well give all the credit to the colleagues who helped. When things go poorly be the first one to step up and take the responsibility and say I.
I could have worked harder, I could have put more effort, the failure is mine.
This is a leader.
10. Treasure Loneliness
Whenever you feel lonely, plans fell through. She flaked. Do not despair. Celebrate, for now you have time to work on yourself. Knock out 10 chapters of that book. Get an additional workout in on a muscle group that’s lagging behind. Use loneliness as a tool. There is always worked to be done. Never be upset because you find yourself alone, rejoice.
Being vulgar, crass is a habit of peasants. This isn’t noble. It’s not how a man carry’s himself. Refrain from excessive vulgarity. It makes you come off as a commoner. Speak positively. Speak life. Kind words of compassion. If you have no kind words, use no words.
2. Self Deprecation
Words are spells. This is why we call it spelling. You keep speaking negatively about yourself it becomes reality. “I missed that turn, I’m such a dumbaśs” no you aren’t. You are a man who missed a turn. We do not allow others to talk to us negatively we must eliminate talking to ourselves negatively.
3. Ownership
From this day forth everything that happens in life is your fault. Your rough child hood, the girl who broke your heart, the bully’s in school. Let it go. You now are self aware and have full control of the steering wheel. Any way that you feel like you are lacking in life is your responsibility to fix.
4. Excuses
There are no excuses. You either completed the task or you did not. See life as a video game. You have goals and there are only two outcomes. Mission failed or Mission complete. Doesn’t matter what obstacles got in your way. Find a way to defeat them. If you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again. Until you do.
5. Kindness
Real men are kind, they help old ladies across the street, they cut their neighbors grass when he is battling an illness, and they do this while expecting nothing in return. Be the change in the world. A kind word. Mentor. That kid in your neighborhood who is headed down the wrong path, take him under your wing. Teach him manhood. Be a super hero in your own community.
6. Give Back
Many of us on this forum are successful. I know their are several engineers, lawyers, doctors, nurses and law enforcement. I ask you give back to the community. Volunteer, start a school supply drive. Don’t just use your connections for your own benefit. Help out. We live in a time where male leadership is needed.
7. Modesty
You make $150,000 a year in a low COL area. Do you really need a 5 bedroom house and Porsche? If you are into cars by all means, but are you really just buying it to show your status? You can afford it easily but does it really bring value to your life? Live below your means. Be humble. Don’t ever let your success go to your head. The world will respect you for it.
8. The meek shall inherit the earth
The quote in the Bible says the meek will inherit the earth. However, historians say this is a poor translation. The correct translation is “He who has a sword and knows how to use it yet keeps it sheathed shall inherit the earth.“
Be a beast. Be strong, but be humble, be quiet and be calm.
9. Lead
When things go well give all the credit to the colleagues who helped. When things go poorly be the first one to step up and take the responsibility and say I.
I could have worked harder, I could have put more effort, the failure is mine.
This is a leader.
10. Treasure Loneliness
Whenever you feel lonely, plans fell through. She flaked. Do not despair. Celebrate, for now you have time to work on yourself. Knock out 10 chapters of that book. Get an additional workout in on a muscle group that’s lagging behind. Use loneliness as a tool. There is always worked to be done. Never be upset because you find yourself alone, rejoice.
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