Checking out the flea market beforehand is a solid move, BG. You are setting yourself up to not be disappointed by the outcome of your trip this way. If the date doesn’t go well, who cares, you got to check out the flea market. If she doesn’t show, who cares, you got to check out the flea market. Positive attitude you got there bud.
You asked if it is alright to send a text 3 to 4 hours in advance. I offered ways to do that without sounding needy. Key part: without sounding needy. I hope your flake-rate stays low. But we need to get you to the next level. We need to drop some panties, brother.
I hope that when she said you can hang out next weekend that you didn’t act too eager but rather played it cool and acted indifferently. Laid back. The opposite would be saying something like ‘wow that sounds amazing! You’re really pretty and I don’t have anything going on next weekend so I would be honored to hang out again!’. Can you tell me what’s wrong with the hypothetical response quoted here?
We don't text much. She isn't a texter she even said and she works 45 hours a week and has an hour commute each way so she's busy during the week and has to go to bed really early.
I really don't like women that text your eyeballs off and nothing to talk about on a date. Over the summer I had an HB 9.5 teacher and HB 8 teacher from OLD do that for days leading up to the date. I mean texting so much to the point it was interfering with me.
Being it was summer I think the teachers are bored too and too much time on their hands. That 9.5 drove to me, 60 miles to meet me. She texted her eyes off for days and then on the date was a total snob and prodding to dig gold.
I notice OLD during the summer and early fall even is really thriving. Lots more better looking women, a lot of them teachers, especially over the summer when school is out and the reply rates go up. Heck, I had just a couple garbage pics on match and OKC last summer and my reply rates were better than the winter.
She isn't going to the fleamarket with me because she sleeps in on the weekends due to being up so early so at 11 she's meeting me at starbucks. It's a bigger city and I'm not familiar with the area so gives me time in case I get lost or traffic.
Even if we go on dates it would only be a weekend thing due to her working so far away during the work week.
If I want to use OLD good I really think I need to wait until summer. Just seems a lot better. Right now in my area it's DEAD.
