sangheilios
Master Don Juan
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There are a couple women at my gym that I've been interested in. One in particular I've had a few brief and casual interactions with recently and she seems pretty open and likable.
In the past I have approached women quite a few times at the gym, but the last two definitely made me realize that I need to learn how to identify crazy women.
One in particular I had met quite a while ago, summer of 2018, and long story short she strung me along for attention. Shortly after I had stopped talking to her I met someone that knew her and he said that she did that to tons of guys and that she bounced from guy to guy. On an almost monthly basis she'd be "with" a new guy that I'd see her with at the gym. For a while there was no interaction but since the fall I notice her all the time checking me out, going out of her way to walk by me or workout near me and always looking out of the corner of her eye at me. I talk to quite a lot of people at the gym and one of them said that there was a girl who constantly stares and watches me, I described her appearance and of course it was her lol. I completely ignore her for the most part and the more I do it the more she acts like this. At first it was a little hard because she is very hot, but then it started becoming annoying and now just amusing.
What I'm trying to gain is this, what should I be looking for with new women in order to avoid wasting time and energy on those like the one above? I go to the gym regularly, fit and take care of myself so it makes sense for me to try to meet women in this environment.
In the past I have approached women quite a few times at the gym, but the last two definitely made me realize that I need to learn how to identify crazy women.
One in particular I had met quite a while ago, summer of 2018, and long story short she strung me along for attention. Shortly after I had stopped talking to her I met someone that knew her and he said that she did that to tons of guys and that she bounced from guy to guy. On an almost monthly basis she'd be "with" a new guy that I'd see her with at the gym. For a while there was no interaction but since the fall I notice her all the time checking me out, going out of her way to walk by me or workout near me and always looking out of the corner of her eye at me. I talk to quite a lot of people at the gym and one of them said that there was a girl who constantly stares and watches me, I described her appearance and of course it was her lol. I completely ignore her for the most part and the more I do it the more she acts like this. At first it was a little hard because she is very hot, but then it started becoming annoying and now just amusing.
What I'm trying to gain is this, what should I be looking for with new women in order to avoid wasting time and energy on those like the one above? I go to the gym regularly, fit and take care of myself so it makes sense for me to try to meet women in this environment.