Is it common for women who are really into their man to financially invest into them? (Givers)

[GeeMale]

Copy and paste above video. The guy claims that a you'll know if a woman is really into a guy because she will financially invest. While this is obvious, I wanna know if it's also true that if she doesn't necessarily(like let's say 50/50) could she still be really into the guy? I've seen many married guys with men's diamonds wedding bands and it looks cool and makes me realize their wife actually took the time to pick out the ring for them.

 

[Black Widow Void]

I wouldn't necessarily say that such actions are "common" but I also wouldn't say that it's uncommon.

Some women will do this and it's no different than the guy that believes he can buy his way into securing a relationship.

And... there are other women that will do this because they want to change a man. For instance; I'm a bit of a nonconformist. My last girlfriend was a trend follower. I now own a silly pair of Doc Martens because it's what she liked on a man.

Personally speaking... I don't know if it's the male gene or my upbringing, but women doing too much for me... makes me feel like a kept man. At the same time, I also do not like going out with takers. Personally, my best relationships have been with women of the "50/50" variety.

 

[RickTheToad]

I've always had ladies by me things; but I do not like it. The one I am with now buys me things all the time, it's appreciated, but annoying. She wants to buy me a new cross. I said, appreciate the offer, but I'm good. Clothing, food, etc. I do not like it. Makes me feel weird.

 

[Black Widow Void]

@Mauser96

I wasn't aware of this. Sorry to read about your girl that was in your life and also your aftermath circumstances. That's got to be tough for both of you.

 

[17 shots]

Yea there are women like that out there. You have to ask them for something, and see how they react. It's what women do to us all the time, but men are hesitant to do the same. I use their game against them. A lot of them are givers by nature. I think it locks them in more when they feel invested in the relationship as well

It doesn't have to be extravagant stuff either. Start small, ask her to buy you a pizza. If she says she's at the store ask her to get you some skittles

 

[17 shots]

I've always had ladies by me things; but I do not like it. The one I am with now buys me things all the time, it's appreciated, but annoying. She wants to buy me a new cross. I said, appreciate the offer, but I'm good. Clothing, food, etc. I do not like it. Makes me feel weird.

You're crazy, I'd have a men's fashion catalog, and just be pointing stuff out for her to get me lol

 

[Spaz]

Of course, it's not IF there are women like that out there, it's ALL women are like that WITH the right man.

If you ain't the right one, you get nothing..

 

[RickTheToad]

You're crazy, I'd have a men's fashion catalog, and just be pointing stuff out for her to get me lol

Don't have to. For Christmas, she bought me a slew of clothing from the brands I wear. Like 20 pieces or so. It's unreal. I do not like people buying me things. It feels weird. I've also bought her some things, but nothing expensive or crazy like this. I said I like a painting we saw the other day, so she bought it. I tried giving her the money back, she refused. I put it in her purse, she messages me.. Check your coat pocket. She gave the money back. It's very frustrating.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Of course, it's not IF there are women like that out there, it's ALL women are like that WITH the right man.

If you ain't the right one, you get nothing..

No they aren't all like that. Some women are givers. Some women are takers. This is a function of her attitude and disposition, thus exclusive of interest level.

In other words, some women are still no good at 90% interest level.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes they will. If they are into you they will do additional to show they treat you better than most and that they got your back. It might not be financial. But she will have your back and your time will be of value.

 

[The Duke]

Learn about the "5 Love Languages". "Gift Giving" is a love language spoken by some. Its how they show you they care deeply.

I used to date a girl that made a lot of money(pharmaceutical sales rep), she was always buying me expensive gifts. I took it as her being materialistic and trying to buy my affection. Later I realized this was not the case, she really wasn't materialistic anywhere in her life especially when it came to herself. It was her being thoughtful and her way of telling me she loved me.

My current girl pays for dates, flights, trips without me encouraging it. She is a very giving personality.

 

[Spaz]

No they aren't all like that. Some women are givers. Some women are takers. This is a function of her attitude and disposition, thus exclusive of interest level.

In other words, some women are still no good at 90% interest level.

Wrong.

ALL women are takers.

Yet ALL will invest in the right man.

Those that didn't invest in you its because you ain't the right one or subconsciously viewed as subpar, all the while manipulating you into thinking they have 90% interest in you...

 

[Medina]

Only when interest level is extremely high

I had a woman leave £20 notes everywhere, in my car, in my DVD's. I told her to stop but she got creative with it. Another one is when a woman FEEDS you. Same concept as the money but with food. They are worshipping you, in a sense

This has only ever happened to me twice. It's now a rare thing for a woman to completely let go of the feminist/selfish indoctrination and view you as a man that she must serve and make happy

 

[Who Dares Win]

Never date seriously any girl above 22 so cant say anything about money, but those really into me usually were buying food and cooking for me in my place.

Some bought me drinks and dinner but never had "gifts", guess I'll have to marry a very rich woman to get a new car.