Does (future) wifey wanting to get a big, interracial dildo signify that a man has lost his frame?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me interested:

My Fiancée’s Fixation on Well-Endowed Guys Is Freaking Me Out

It’s fun to watch porn together. Except …

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I will try to keep this short. My fiancée and I like to keep things fun and exciting in bed. Over the last two years, we incorporated porn into our love life every once in a while. Even though we both have different tastes, we are pretty open with each other and take turns picking videos. My fiancée loves interracial porn, and while it isn’t my thing, I like that it gets her excited. I also like the dirty talk she does after watching videos. So far this has all been a great addition into our sexual relationship, but now she wants to buy a big black dildo … which has me feeling a bit inadequate. I’m average in size (six inches long and decent girth), but the dildo she wants is way bigger. I don’t want to be a buzzkill, and I want her to experience things, but this has me feeling self-conscious and has even affected how I feel about the porn we watch. I can’t compete with their size. I’m unsure how to proceed.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I would buy her that thing myself and invite her to use it anytime Im doing stuff and she demands my attention.

I would also suggest teen porn when its my turn and suggest to hire a high school girl as a baby sitter even if our kids wont be born before 2023.

 

[MrWood]

I would also suggest teen porn when its my turn and suggest to hire a high school girl as a baby sitter even if our kids wont be born before 2023.

exactly

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Cuck. Dude went down a rabbit hole he will never get out of.
Its my opinion to never a good idea to open up the porn box with your LTR with dudes in it. Maybe girl girl action and prefer real life.
They say this shyt helps LTRs i disagree. Taking her down an old country road and a glass of wine and fck her in the moonlight and leave some fun marks on her will have a much better affect.
Spontaneous means she knows youll fck just about anywhere.
Smart girls all too well know what that means too.

^^^^^ This right here.

Those types of relationships that open up those kind of doors never last. They’ll tell you about how ‘great’ they are in the moment, but they NEVER last. And unfortunately for everyone else, no one quite knows how it ends. Those people are ****ed in the head anyway. Those are doors that never should be opened. They never should have even been made in the first place, really, because once you open up that stuff, it just ends up turning into a degenerate ****hole. I’ve seen it. Keep it traditional. Wild, but behind closed doors. And don’t ever introduce someone or something else in there with you and your partner. One thing that many people don’t know about is how awkward threesomes actually are. Irl they’re way more awkward than in porn. Even in porn, it’s akward for the actors. If you look closely at all that gangbang ****, you’ll see how a lot of those actors (the MEN lol) shave their legs so that their legs hairs don’t touch each other. It’s weird even for them too. People just don’t notice this type of stuff though. You always gotta look at the intricacies and subtleties and nuances behind this type of stuff lol, i.e. see HOW it’s done.

But I digress.

Yeah, all that stuff is degeneracy. Sex should only be between TWO people. That’s it. You and your partner. No one else, and nothing else.

 

[Pandora]

Its because taboo is sexy. Some White girls fantasize about the taboo bbc and some black girls fantasize about bwc ( big white .....).
People gravitate towards the exotic phenotype. This is especially true if the phenotype is the opposite of yours. This keeps genetic diversity within a tribe. Why do you think incest is so gross? Why do you think that multiracial kids are so good looking? Why do you think white guys looove asian chicks? Its an exotic phenotype.

If white guys were into black girls many black girls would have switched sides a long time ago. White guys just generally dont find black girls attractive ( even though they are attractive). Many white girls are attracted to good looking black dudes but the taboo is keeping them away. And many black dudes are too ghetto so that doesn't help. It sucks that once she divorces him she will be riding the bbc. I would be really pissed if I was him. She is cucking him in front of his face. To be fair he probably isn't that great in bed if his wife is yearning for a much bigger toy.

Ima keep it 100%. When my gf's break up with me I dont want them hooking up with black dudes either ( and im black). I want them hooking up with the least sexually intimidating dude they can find. I think most guys have this natural insecurity but many won't admit it. You dont want your girl smashing some Wesley Pipes azz dude giving her the long stroke on a couch with nothing but boots on and a gold chain lol. You want some nerdy dude that is overweight with a pot belly and small pee pee smashing your girl after you.

 

[Glassguy]

I don't have a problem with women using toys in the bedroom. One of my plates shakes worse than Michael J Fox on his worst day as she is cumming over and over when she uses a bullet while I'm fvcking her. No problem.

But this chick is fixated on BBC. You have to talk to her about it but that talk brings in the thought of OP looking insecure if he doesnt do it correctly.

I would be thinking about how long she goes until she scratches that itch for real with a black dude...or any dude that is bigger than OP for that matter.

I'll bet that she had a BBC that treated her like a fvck slut in her past......and she still lusts for it. JMO.

 

[Pandora]

A lot of women like to be degraded during sex and I am sure he is not doing that. So this is part of why she is leaning towards the black dudes. White chicks think that black dudes f&ck like the porn dudes. They want a black dude to talk sh*t to them and degrade and dominate them.

I used to smash this one white chick. I was her first black dude. I asked her what her friends said when they found out? They didn't even really care about the penis size. They asked her " did he talk sh&t to you during sex?" I was like wtf is that the stereotype. But thats what she is into. Many white girls want that stuff. They need either a super alpha white dude who can rough them up in bed or they might try to find that in another race. Its bizarre. As a man you HAVE to give it to your girl rough and dominate her in a pleasurable way or else you will end up like this dude.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Women like it rough.

 

[soulforge]

In a LTR bringing in this type of fantasy or BBC threesome is dangerous business.

Once it's done, you can never go back to what it was..

However if she is simply a fuk buddie.. I don't care what fantasy that sloot has.

 

[Glassguy]

Theres a wide spectrum of female sexuality from crazy to withdrawn. But a common denominator is they want to feel that strength.

I have yet to be with a woman that didnt like rough sex to some degree. Of course some like being totally degraded and thats just not my thing......but they ALL like to be pounded.

 

[Glassguy]

you can never go back to what it was..

Once you go black (dildo)...........lol

 

[MrWood]

Ive figured out that women dont want to think during sex, they want to FEEL.
When you smash her hard and fast... she CANT THINK, thus all she can do is FEEL

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It signifies you have way way too much time on your hands to find these things.

 

[JohnChops]

I have yet to be with a woman that didnt like rough sex to some degree. Of course some like being totally degraded and thats just not my thing......but they ALL like to be pounded.

Sometimes slow and steady sometimes absolute rail fest. Feel the moment.

However, all ONS get a ground and pound no doubt.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Ive figured out that women dont want to think during sex, they want to FEEL.
When you smash her hard and fast... she CANT THINK, thus all she can do is FEEL

This is a major reason people get so into ****, especially as a submissive. They don’t have to think. They can just let go, be told exactly what to do, receive, and feel.

 

[Hal9000]

I've known some white girls into BBC and I don't know what the big deal is. I thought it was pretty sexy watching her get plowed by a roomful of hung dudes. She was somebody else's wife though.

 

[redskinsfan92]

He's a cuck to an imaginary man.