8 Reasons Why Men Want To Get Married More Than Women

[Epic Days]

Isnt this exactly what men do as well? Instead of lovers they are called “mistresses.”

In my experience most men don’t cheat. They are too busy trying to keep a woman happy. Or trying to mate guard once her desire wains and the sex is distantly one or twice a month. The man is being manipulated and he is trying to get back to what it was before.

The biology is different. We are not the same.

 

[Blacksheep]

This is one of the things I find most surprising, I mean both genders have to eat, right? Why wouldn't you want to know how to cook?
I'm thinking maybe the reason is that food is just not quite as important to females. Men are bigger and like to eat. I've known a lot of women who seem content living on Ramen noodles, Cup of Soup, cookies, or chocolate shakes. Can't imagine a guy doing that.

This is really weird. In my country most of girls I've date was the same.

As I live alone since 18yrs (28yrs now) I learned to cook, wash dishes and clean the house. Those are the best things I have learned in my life.

 

[Epic Days]

Care to share this research?

Start here:
“What do women want, adventures in the science of female desire” by David Bergner

References are in the book.

Then I can point you to some others. You can go back to the 1950’s Kinsey Report. Anyone who doubts a woman’s sexual habits will have a brutal life ahead of them. Women are not naturally monogamous and never have been. Men are living a lie. A man’s, in the clouds, idea of women is a lie. “Not all women are like that“, right?

We use to have an honest woman on here @SeekerOfTheWay, she was straight up. 99.9 % of all women cheat. Even her mother had at least one affair.
The girly men on here could not assimilate it. It was too much to confront. It’s biological. It keeps diversity in the genome. The fragile egos of men cant bare it.

She gave honest truths that were very alarming but not one of the women on here countered or attacked her. They were strangely silent. Yet when the men say these things, those women will jump right in on the indirect or direct attack. They say things like “men do too” to cover the tracks and stupid men fall for it. Or shame them for being jaded or whatever. The truth must be kept hidden in the feminine imperative. Women know.

 

[Poonani Maker]

That's true. If a guy becomes a bum then the wife is absolutely right to drop his as$... I used this example to illustrate that love between a man and a woman is conditional.....

Both parties have to contribute for a relationship to work....

I was a bum in my early to mid-late 20s (when I moved throwing caution to the wind cause I had nothing else to lose, a grade-A loser but I Hated the climate I was born n' raised in - hot and humid made you not want to DO anything but stay inside plus I had barely enough gas money but I saved and had a mutual fund which I used to move and live without a job for almost a whole year in my new life in a new far away place). From 27 onward through a job that required MOVEMENT (not a desk job as I had had because I though I was a "Finance" guy with a Finance degree), I became over a couple of years, not a bum, and had went from 212 lbs originally down to 160-something. I think that university and the disappointment thereof, of the multiple choice on almost EVERY test, the mindlessness of the University, the hopelessness, the no friction, or thinking-on-your-feet learned, the going-through-the-motions of class and not really learning anything just throwing money away made me "a bum."

 

[Snag87]

Start here:
“What do women want, adventures in the science of female desire” by David Bergner

References are in the book.

Then I can point you to some others. You can go back to the 1950’s Kinsey Report. Anyone who doubts a woman’s sexual habits will have a brutal life ahead of them. Women are not naturally monogamous and never have been. Men are living a lie. A man’s, in the clouds, idea of women is a lie. “Not all women are like that“, right?

We use to have an honest woman on here @SeekerOfTheWay, she was straight up. 99.9 % of all women cheat. Even her mother had at least one affair.
The girly men on here could not assimilate it. It was too much to confront. It’s biological. It keeps diversity in the genome. The fragile egos of men cant bare it.

She gave honest truths that were very alarming but not one of the women on here countered or attacked her. They were strangely silent. Yet when the men say these things, those women will jump right in on the indirect or direct attack. They say things like “men do too” to cover the tracks and stupid men fall for it. Or shame them for being jaded or whatever. The truth must be kept hidden in the feminine imperative. Women know.

I can recall reading a shocking stat: roughly 30% of men who suspected their women committed infidelity and their child wasn't biologically theirs were correct. Which makes you think, what about the men who never suspect anything?


This is kinda OT, but I also read years ago that women were genetically more inclined not to abandon their children. A major contributor being a woman can never be duped into supporting a child that isn't theirs, while a man can.

 

[Snag87]

Is Kate Upton still looking? At a certain point you've reached the top of the ceiling

 

[Epic Days]

Is Kate Upton still looking? At a certain point you've reached the top of the ceiling

Kate Upton will be looking for the possibility of a sexy, secret, svck n fuk until the day she dies.

I do not subscribe to the standard definition of “hypergamy”. It doesn’t have anything to do with it.

 

[Snag87]

Kate Upton will be looking for the possibility of a sexy, secret, svck n fuk until the day she dies.

I do not subscribe to the standard definition of “hypergamy”. It doesn’t have anything to do with it.

Why? Well maybe when she's older. I can see a 40 year old Upton losing attraction to her 50-year-old husband and wanting a quick bang

 

[Snag87]

How would you define hypergamy?

 

[Epic Days]

Why? Well maybe when she's older. I can see a 40 year old Upton losing attraction to her 50-year-old husband and wanting a quick bang

How long have they been married? I would say after a year her desire would have dwindled. That would be science. She would have to weigh the pros and cons but if she has a baby, then right after she will have acquired dominance by default and the drive for new sperm will begin.

This is why kings, sultans and shoguns only allowed eunuchs to watch over the concubines and killed all men that got near them.

 

[Epic Days]

How would you define hypergamy?

I don’t have one. It’s just a word to explain a woman getting a more stable provider. But we are talking the cuckables now. That’s a different subject.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Its all BS

 

[Trump]

Is Kate Upton still looking? At a certain point you've reached the top of the ceiling

Women NEVER stop looking for a bigger better deal. Its in their nature. Women don’t commit to commit, or because of love and emotions, they commit because the man is the best deal they can find.

Kate Upton is still out there looking good, working out, making connections. If her husband relaxed and she had no more use for him, she would have the backups in her pocket.

Men on the other hand stop looking after they “get“ the girl. Which is so stupid. Women are depreciating assets but the man thinks he won the lottery because some girl lets him have sex with her constantly.

Wake up men.

 

[zekko]

I agree except the 99.9%. Its up there but not sure its that high.
The last study i read of its survey was 1 in 6.

Yeah, 99.9% is exaggeration. If you would tell me most women cheat, I'd have no problem believing it. But if I were to guess, I'd say it's about half.

Also, I think there are different categories of cheating. There are women who are just cheats, they will always have other guys they are having sex with. And then there are women who stay faithful, but then there comes a point where the relationship breaks down. At that point, they might have sex with some new guy as a way of grabbing on to another branch to branch swing. I don't see this as quite so bad, because by that point the relationship is dead anyway, even if it hasn't ended technically.

I think a lot of the fear on SS that men have of hypergamy is really fear of losing their frame.

I've always thought there were a lot aspects to the community that were based in fear. Like someone gets their heart broken, and they're so afraid of that happening again they change their personality to be a manipulative user and abuser - kind of a kill them before they kill you approach. But I think the best defense is to always keep a part of you reserved, and realize that all women are replaceable. That doesn't mean you can't enjoy them while they're around. You just need to keep the attitude that you're going to be okay with or without them. Don't place all your value into a woman. You can do that without resorting to the extremes.

 

[RickTheToad]

Doubt it and that's a great point. I think a lot of the fear on SS that men have of hypergamy is really fear of losing their frame. Putting aside all the divorce law/attorney stuff for a moment because that's a separate issue... I see a lot of posts by guys saying "that's just how women are, they're never happy, they'll trade up if they can." To me this shows a dent in your frame - if you think this and commit to a woman, it will happen. And if you think this but avoid commitment, you'll never be proven wrong.

But to use the old Sosuave/Doc Love trope "Would so-and-so do X?," do you think Donald Trump worries about Melania branch swinging? Forget that he's POTUS or even famous. He's ambitious, confident, and has options. He'd have to fukk up pretty badly for her to branch swing or leave. And if she did, he'd move on with his life and find some other HB.

Women don't necessarily want to trade up...but if they see their man backsliding with no signs of recovery of course they will. Same as how a man might dump her or cheat if she gets fat and makes no effort to turn it around. Unfortunately the west has so much noise pollution from feminism and "equality" that men do not get the benefit of the doubt, and yeah, the laws are stacked against men. But I recommend not laying this all at the feet of women. If you do want to marry or settle down, maybe without the contract, take a look in the mirror and ask yourself 1) are you afraid, and if so why and 2) how would you handle it.

She prob. knows she or her family in the homeland might have an accident if she did something he really didn't like. Being a silver spoon billionaire is one thing, President of the United States... You don't f uck with a former US President.. EVER; except from another President; of course.