8 Reasons Why Men Want To Get Married More Than Women

[Trump]

Article giving 8 reasons why Men WANT to get MARRIED more than women.

8 Reasons Why Men Want To Get Married More Than Women

“You’re just afraid to commit!” Every guy will hear this from some chick at some point in his life. And every guy knows she’s right...mostly. We are afraid to commit. Afraid to commit to the wrong crazyass chick.

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Is it true or feminist propaganda?

 

[Xenom0rph]

I'd say it's religious propaganda from those "TradCons" aka Traditional Conservatives.... While I acknowledge that most guys state those reasons, we know it's all just delusions of bluepill men:

1) women withhold sex as a manipulation tool

2) her income is her income, your income is also her income

3) most women these days dont know how to cook and dont want to cook

4) women dont want to contribute equally to a relationship, they want you to bear all the responsibility but you still have to acknowledge her as a strong independent woman.

5) your kids will be held as hostages to force you to pay a ransom (alimony & child support)....but you only get to see your kids twice a month....

6) only a parent is capable of unconditional love. It's not possible for a man and a woman to love each other unconditionally. Example: if you lost your job and cant support the family, she loses respect for you, no respect means she fall out of love with you....

....sorry, but chasing a happy marriage is akin to chasing unicorns - you're wasting your time bruh......

 

[zekko]

most women these days dont know how to cook and dont want to cook

This is one of the things I find most surprising, I mean both genders have to eat, right? Why wouldn't you want to know how to cook?
I'm thinking maybe the reason is that food is just not quite as important to females. Men are bigger and like to eat. I've known a lot of women who seem content living on Ramen noodles, Cup of Soup, cookies, or chocolate shakes. Can't imagine a guy doing that.

 

[Epic Days]

It’s a magical, mystical pile of shyt.

 

[Serenity]

6) only a parent is capable of unconditional love. It's not possible for a man and a woman to love each other unconditionally. Example: if you lost your job and cant support the family, she loses respect for you, no respect means she fall out of love with you....

This one annoys me. I know there's plenty of guys who lose their jobs and doesn't put in nearly the amount of effort they should to get a new job, because they're basically losers. Women quite often give several months of patience only to see their "man" become a couch potato. The "I lost my job, she left" thing is just half the story in most cases, a denial of personal responsibility. I fvcking get why they leave that, they should have left sooner.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I just found an old hard drive from 2006-2008. I'd established myself in my new home (meaning home away from home 1000 miles away) FINALLY, after 4 YEARS, in 2008. I made a video (my first ever webcam - and I was proud of being able to Afford it!), maybe 3-4 minutes. I had been reading self-help I guess not sure and I listed the things I wanted to do in 2008 or Needed to do, and one of them was marrying this girl who'd impacted me more than Any other woman in my life to date. Another was invest/save, another buy a house. I did Everything I set out to do but get married and have kids. In the video, I am Severely blue-pilled saying that I need to A) Get married and B) Have children and support children because I CAN now (used to could not). Too bad we were born in the time period when everything between men and women more often than not only lasts short term, so I went with it and banged a lot of women short term each time. I was dumb as fvck back then though and never read ANY books. I was very ragged from extreme hard work. I love that guy from 12, 13, 14 years ago, but no woman did apparently as I was living in low-income housing, no furniture, but I was soon outta there. Even dudes who were my "friends," when they saw my place cause they were married and in a house and younger than me, looked down on me and held it against me.

 

[Xenom0rph]

This one annoys me. I know there's plenty of guys who lose their jobs and doesn't put in nearly the amount of effort they should to get a new job, because they're basically losers. Women quite often give several months of patience only to see their "man" become a couch potato. The "I lost my job, she left" thing is just half the story in most cases, a denial of personal responsibility. I fvcking get why they leave that, they should have left sooner.

That's true. If a guy becomes a bum then the wife is absolutely right to drop his as$... I used this example to illustrate that love between a man and a woman is conditional.....

Both parties have to contribute for a relationship to work....

 

[Epic Days]

Loving unconditionally is a pipe dream. As a parent I would say your children are the closest you will get.

 

[Trump]

If a guy becomes a bum then the wife is absolutely right to drop his as$...

Under what conditions does the husband have the right to drop her a$$?

 

[thinker]

That article is a steaming pile of horse shiit. I can't believe any man with a brain actually believes all that crap. This reminds me of a article some time back on huffpo about how men actually love dating single mothers because of all the great perks. One of the perks was that the man already had a pre made family. Think about that, like if a guy would think to himself great now I don't have to have any of that gross sex and I get the pleasure of paying for some other guys happy ending. Whoever wrote this article may not be a feminist but the article is definitely something a feminist would write.

 

[Xenom0rph]

Under what conditions does the husband have the right to drop her a$$?

Whenever he feels like it...

However due to unfair laws, in a divorce men endure financial consequences while women reap financial benefits....

I actually have nothing against divorce as a part of relationship dynamics, like Axel Rose said in November Rain: "....nothing lasts forever, and we both know hearts can change...."

The problem are the divorce laws... If divorce laws werent so stacked against men I wouldnt be so anti-marriage...

 

[Epic Days]

Whenever he feels like it...

However due to unfair laws, in a divorce men endure financial consequences while women reap financial benefits....

I actually have nothing against divorce as a part of relationship dynamics, like Axel Rose said in November Rain: "....nothing lasts forever, and we both know hearts can change...."

The problem are the divorce laws... If divorce laws werent so stacked against men I wouldnt be so anti-marriage...

Let’s really take a look at this thing we call divorce. She agrees to marry you. You have a child or maybe two or more.

She finally reaches a point where she has no desire for you and even she doesn’t like it. Some women become very distraught over loving their husband and not feeling sexual desire for him. This is a real problem and not a made up one. The amount of research that has gone into getting a woman to feel sexual desire for her husband again is astounding.

She can give perfunctory sex when possible but it is a shell of what she once felt. Millions of dollars have been wasted trying to get a “viagra” for women that will restore or recreate desire for her husband.

Yet you can read about tons of these situations, which happen to virtually every married couple. But in every single case if she takes on another man ALL of that lost desire returns and she gets a new lease on life. She is herself once again. Or at least she thinks she is. A sexual creature is what a woman is.

A highly specialized doctor quoted, “whiteout a doubt, the best cure for menopause is a new lover. The best cure for an unhappy woman is one that is restored with the return of her sexual need and desire.”

Women have always been like this and always will be like this. Just because divorce is easy to get, doesn’t mean that all the women in the past were happy with living with a dwindled desire. This is a real problem. A woman can “love” her husband to pieces and would never leave him and yet will go from side lover to side lover to just feel alive.

Here is what’s really interesting. Women who don’t stay in relationships or are not married don’t have desire problems. Only women in marriages and relationships do.

 

[Glassguy]

Loving unconditionally is a pipe dream. As a parent I would say your children are the closest you will get.

Very true.

Most people "love" situational, not unconditional. I do believe that "marriage" in itself is a very religious and serious event. However, I also know how most women treat their marriages behind their spouse's back. Not all, but most.

Therefore, I could never get married again. Not because of a lack of trust for myself, but lack of trust in others. That doesnt make me jaded in my ability to trust women, rather a composition of experiencing with my own eyes how MOST women will act under certain situations.

That is the difference of red pill vs blue pill.

As far as the OP's post- Today's men (on average) have become yesterday's women. There are many different reasons for this. Instead of smashing out the radical liberal groups that promoted free housing, free food, free everything, we now have a society as a whole who are looking for a handout.

On the flip side- If women REALLY want to be treated equally, I see a very hypocritical trend. Lets say a wife lost her job and the husband made good money. Said wife would certainly be in no hurry to find other employment in her job field. She would stay at home, husband work even MORE hours if available to compensate for the lost income. I have personally seen this happen numerous times.

My ex wife had to take a layoff as a way for her state dept to make up a deficit. She was at the bottom of the totem pole in her department. Instead of kicking a person in a dept below her, she took the layoff. It was only for 3 or 4 months and not that big of a deal.

However, if you flip the roles in most marriages or LTR's today, the woman would simply monkey branch to the next best offer that was hitting her up.

Everyone wants equality until they realize what responsibility comes along with it. Go to your local trailer park and ask those people if they would want to be millionaires tomorrow. All would say yes.

Even though most will bytch and complain when walking too far to their mailbox to get their welfare check.

Everyone wants to be successful but not many people will devote themselves to it. Thats the difference.

Lets not forget that women tend to think emotionally and men tend to think logically. Thus you have a woman who leaves her current partner (BF, Fiance, Husband) when things get uncomfortable because they see another branch to swing over too that appears to give them more while requiring less.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Eh, women still want to get married in a loving relationship. They’re just better at hiding it because they got more options than men. Men are just more desperate really. That doesn’t mean they ‘want’ it more though, they just THINK they do lol.

But yeah, there’s also a lot of women counting themselves that they don’t want to get married nowadays and so they just won’t. Or they’ll go lesbian or something. But deep down inside, most of them still wish for men despite what they might say on the outside. And while a lot of men who go MGTOW are the same way, there are definitely some men out there who genuinely have no interest in romance or even dealing with women at all. I’ve yet to see a woman who can mirrror that though. The only ones who can are women who have some heavy trauma or are simply just ‘used up’ lol

 

[RickTheToad]

Personally, I am terrified of the family law attorneys and the family courts. The power that the family court has in the USA is unrivaled to the civil and criminal courts. If any lady gave me an ultimatum on marriage, I'd show them the door. Just remember, the lady or dude you marry may not be the same one you divorce.

 

[biggoal]

I just found an old hard drive from 2006-2008. I'd established myself in my new home (meaning home away from home 1000 miles away) FINALLY, after 4 YEARS, in 2008. I made a video (my first ever webcam - and I was proud of being able to Afford it!), maybe 3-4 minutes. I had been reading self-help I guess not sure and I listed the things I wanted to do in 2008 or Needed to do, and one of them was marrying this girl who'd impacted me more than Any other woman in my life to date. Another was invest/save, another buy a house. I did Everything I set out to do but get married and have kids. In the video, I am Severely blue-pilled saying that I need to A) Get married and B) Have children and support children because I CAN now (used to could not). Too bad we were born in the time period when everything between men and women more often than not only lasts short term, so I went with it and banged a lot of women short term each time. I was dumb as fvck back then though and never read ANY books. I was very ragged from extreme hard work. I love that guy from 12, 13, 14 years ago, but no woman did apparently as I was living in low-income housing, no furniture, but I was soon outta there. Even dudes who were my "friends," when they saw my place cause they were married and in a house and younger than me, looked down on me and held it against me.

So you could barley afford a webcam?

 

[RickTheToad]

I just found an old hard drive from 2006-2008. I'd established myself in my new home (meaning home away from home 1000 miles away) FINALLY, after 4 YEARS, in 2008. I made a video (my first ever webcam - and I was proud of being able to Afford it!), maybe 3-4 minutes. I had been reading self-help I guess not sure and I listed the things I wanted to do in 2008 or Needed to do, and one of them was marrying this girl who'd impacted me more than Any other woman in my life to date. Another was invest/save, another buy a house. I did Everything I set out to do but get married and have kids. In the video, I am Severely blue-pilled saying that I need to A) Get married and B) Have children and support children because I CAN now (used to could not). Too bad we were born in the time period when everything between men and women more often than not only lasts short term, so I went with it and banged a lot of women short term each time. I was dumb as fvck back then though and never read ANY books. I was very ragged from extreme hard work. I love that guy from 12, 13, 14 years ago, but no woman did apparently as I was living in low-income housing, no furniture, but I was soon outta there. Even dudes who were my "friends," when they saw my place cause they were married and in a house and younger than me, looked down on me and held it against me.

I could honestly say, I never had the urge for marriage. It always sounded like voluntary slavery to me. I tried it, I hated it, I left and I was so distraught over the battle, I annulled it. It was a horrid experience, marriage and divorce/annulment. It was like another lady took place of the lady I was with.

 

[Trump]

A woman can “love” her husband to pieces and would never leave him and yet will go from side lover to side lover to just feel alive.

Isnt this exactly what men do as well? Instead of lovers they are called “mistresses.”

Here is what’s really interesting. Women who don’t stay in relationships or are not married don’t have desire problems. Only women in marriages and relationships do.

Thats because when men think they “got” the girl, they tend to put their feet up and relax. Women are the other hand, NEVER stop looking for the bigger better deal. And if you are not married or in a relationship, you can always looking for the bigger better deal. But if you are married, you are stuck with what you have.

 

[RickTheToad]

Isnt this exactly what men do as well? Instead of lovers they are called “mistresses.”



Thats because when men think they “got” the girl, they tend to put their feet up and relax. Women are the other hand, NEVER stop looking for the bigger better deal. And if you are not married or in a relationship, you can always looking for the bigger better deal. But if you are married, you are stuck with what you have.

Is Melania still looking?

 

[Snag87]

Let’s really take a look at this thing we call divorce. She agrees to marry you. You have a child or maybe two or more.

She finally reaches a point where she has no desire for you and even she doesn’t like it. Some women become very distraught over loving their husband and not feeling sexual desire for him. This is a real problem and not a made up one. The amount of research that has gone into getting a woman to feel sexual desire for her husband again is astounding.

She can give perfunctory sex when possible but it is a shell of what she once felt. Millions of dollars have been wasted trying to get a “viagra” for women that will restore or recreate desire for her husband.

Yet you can read about tons of these situations, which happen to virtually every married couple. But in every single case if she takes on another man ALL of that lost desire returns and she gets a new lease on life. She is herself once again. Or at least she thinks she is. A sexual creature is what a woman is.

A highly specialized doctor quoted, “whiteout a doubt, the best cure for menopause is a new lover. The best cure for an unhappy woman is one that is restored with the return of her sexual need and desire.”

Women have always been like this and always will be like this. Just because divorce is easy to get, doesn’t mean that all the women in the past were happy with living with a dwindled desire. This is a real problem. A woman can “love” her husband to pieces and would never leave him and yet will go from side lover to side lover to just feel alive.

Here is what’s really interesting. Women who don’t stay in relationships or are not married don’t have desire problems. Only women in marriages and relationships do.

Care to share this research?