Okay I went out and had drinks with my female co worker. We were having a conversation and I told her to come put yo pretty lips on mines. She laughed and said I cant take you serious. I then tried to kiss her and she stop me and said she dont kiss or **** men she's not in a relationship with. The very first time we went out she was upfront about living with a dude for Financial reasons and I told her we can have fun but im not getting involved with you. So back to the last time we went out I told her again I dont date women thats not coming home to me. She argues her and her dude are not ****ing. I just walk away cause I felt like it was a waste of time. She was shocked
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MrWood
Master Don Juan
kissing, for many women = you need to be my BF
it is a waste of time, she thinks you are a playa... and not in a good way.
lol wut? The last time a guy got a first kiss by asking... was never.
anti-slvt tactic. She is literally being a wh0re
what a disaster... on your part
Then whats the bad way being a playa and I didnt ask for a kiss I Implied
Serenity
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The bad way of being a player is when the woman in question doesn't like players. Some women are intrigued by a guy who acts like that, some are not.
You didn't imply, you just said it in a fancy way. She would have to be absolutely retarded to not interpret that as asking her to kiss you, it's not vague enough to say you just implied it. The mistake is telling her to do it, whether it's a question or a command. You should just take action and go for it yourself, her response is your answer, either she let it happen or she don't.
But the thing is she's living with a dude and talking bout she dont **** or kiss dudes she's not in a relationship with. So I just told her its time for me to go and walked away cause im not being in no relationship with a female thats living with a dude.
And the reason why I just didnt want to go for the kiss cause this is the first and I wanna make sure im not overstepping any boundaries. Now if we had kissed before then I would just go for it.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
its a lie.
you have a lot to learn
girls say this to not be perceived as, a prostitute.
Ok but at the same time im not trying to be perceived as desperate. I tried to change the situation before I made the choice to walk away. Ive learn a lot in life and the one thing a man can do is beg a woman after she declines your offer.
She sounds like the player in this situation. Maybe not the traditional "playa". But she is playing you. And if you believe she is living with a dude for financial reasons and not sleeping with him (at least occasionally) then I have a bridge I can sell you.
And even if she is telling the truth, this is an oddball situation and she is not worth the hassle.
And even if she is telling the truth, this is an oddball situation and she is not worth the hassle.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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I agree and thats why I walked away instead