Real life scenario predict the outcome

[BackInTheGame78]

Ok went on a date with an HB 7 last Sunday. Things went really well, had a great vibe, she made out with me half way thru the date and again at the end. Conversation flowed easy and we had a ton in common and lots of laughing and touching on both sides.
Before we parted she told me how much she enjoyed it and that we really should do it again.
She texted me on Monday and said how much fun she had and that she would like to do it again. I ask what her schedule was and she gave me 4 days. Friday and Saturday she told me she had a good friend coming into town and wouldn't be available. I only had Tuesday or Sunday free, so I suggested we meet up Tuesday. Some would say its too soon but every time I have had the vibe I had with her with other women it always worked out well.

So I suggested Tuesday and she said she was usually meets friends for drinks that night but hadn't heard if it was happening or not. She said when she found out she would let me know. A few hours later she let me know that they were going to meet up and then asked if we can do Sunday still. I say yeah that's cool.

Fast forward to today and I text her about meeting up tomorrow afternoon and she says that her friend is planning to stay an extra day since they rarely see each other and she lives far away and if she wanted to do something she would have to reschedule for next week and hoped I understood.

I waited several hours to text back and said "Oh OK. Yeah that is cool, have fun with your friend and we can reschedule when you have a better idea of when you will be free."

Have not heard back from her yet as I just sent it about 30 minutes ago. I am posting this as a way to have people predict the outcomes of certain situations and then once the resolution occurs I can post what happened so we can see how accurate the prediction was.

You can pretty much always assume that I do not send desperate or lame texts, don't text all day long but do communicate a few times a day here and there(this always works better for me) and I never double text. I have no reason to believe she isn't telling the truth in either situation as she has been pretty transparent with me in our interactions.

So...predict the outcome. Will she actually reschedule and will I end up seeing her again? I am not overly invested in the situation but want to use these as real life reports/interactions to help others if similar situations occur.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Ball is in her court now. Just wait it out.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Ball is in her court now. Just wait it out.

Yes that is what I will be doing. I have other opportunities so I will be focusing on those while this plays out.

I have another woman I met up with last week who is basically begging me to bang her after i made out heavily with her in the parking lot, pulled her hair quite a bit, grabbed her ass and put her hand on my d!ck which she couldn't stop grabbing through my jeans. She texted me as soon as she got home and basically told me she was so horny and couldn't wait to see me again so I'm planning to smash that Wednesday. But I don't view her as LTR material like this one could be.

With this one, my gut tells me she is being honest with me and is interested in seeing me again. But as always we shall see, its why you play the game.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Either you catch on quick or you're a natural. Very smooth on your part.
No matter the outcome (no one has yet to predict female behavior 100%)... it sounds like you're more ahead of the game than most.
Keep us posted on what happened.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Either you catch on quick or you're a natural. Very smooth on your part.
No matter the outcome (no one has yet to predict female behavior 100%)... it sounds like you're more ahead of the game than most.
Keep us posted on what happened.

Thanks but I have simply learned that it isn't really worth my time to worry about it and that whatever is going to happen is going to happen. Many times its not even about you.

So I used to get very fixated once I had a date that went really well but I've learned the best way for me to maintain my chill in that regard is to have multiple women I am talking with and scheduling dates with. That way I don't fall into the trap of acting too desperate or available.

Now I am not perfect by any means and I am sure I could improve in many areas still, but I have a system I follow that works fairly well for me, but I am always willing to learn and improve and maybe through posting these scenarios I run into I can get valuable feedback.

 

[Clamslammer]

Good job. Wait her out, even if that means if it takes 1 week, 1 month, 1 year. Do not reach out to her, when and if she reaches back ask her when she is free to get together.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Good job. Wait her out, even if that means if it takes 1 week, 1 month, 1 year. Do not reach out to her, when and if she reaches back ask her when she is free to get together.

Thanks and I agree with you. But this thread is meant for people to predict the outcome based on the data presented. So, do you have a prediction?

 

[Clamslammer]

If you do not reach out and you had good chemistry she will reach back out eventually. As long as the friend that is visiting is not her ex or someone other dude that is banging her.

 

[biggoal]

Good job. Wait her out, even if that means if it takes 1 week, 1 month, 1 year. Do not reach out to her, when and if she reaches back ask her when she is free to get together.

She might lose interest then. I say just text her again. That one chick I got too aggressive with back in Oct because she's a slow texter and she went off on me. She said She wanted to go out again but called me a jerk and said no more.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you do not reach out and you had good chemistry she will reach back out eventually. As long as the friend that is visiting is not her ex or someone other dude that is banging her.

She said its a female...not directly but by saying things like they are going to her favorite places, etc.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She might lose interest then. I say just text her again. That one chick I got too aggressive with back in Oct because she's a slow texter and she went off on me. She said She wanted to go out again but called me a jerk and said no more.

Brother you need to understand something. If she is interested she will text me back and reschedule. If she isn't then she won't. The only chance of her losing interest is by me acting desperate or needy, which is what a lot of guys do in these situations.

I'm not in search of advice on what to do. I know what to do. I'm simply putting these scenarios up so we can see how real life interactions work and have some basis for what we tell others to do in various situations.

 

[Clamslammer]

Bingo, most guys do what @biggoal said thus always lose in the end. You are the catch if she wants to date you she will contact you.

 

[zekko]

I'll say she'll contact you. Someone here needs to be optimistic.

 

[lamath]

Thanks but I have simply learned that it isn't really worth my time to worry about it and that whatever is going to happen is going to happen. Many times its not even about you.

So I used to get very fixated once I had a date that went really well but I've learned the best way for me to maintain my chill in that regard is to have multiple women I am talking with and scheduling dates with. That way I don't fall into the trap of acting too desperate or available.

Now I am not perfect by any means and I am sure I could improve in many areas still, but I have a system I follow that works fairly well for me, but I am always willing to learn and improve and maybe through posting these scenarios I run into I can get valuable feedback.

There is more factor involve than what you gave us. And from my experience if you are smart at understanding ppl you can get a good read on where its gona go.
If you are that kind of person id trust my guts over the data.

Ive been told in the past a women was not interested and that i would not even get the date, i read her action and txt differently and was right. This is dangerous however because some ppl will brainwash themself to beleive their wishfull thinking. This got to come from a non bias rational, noneedy part of yourself.


Base on the Data she look medium interest at best. She push back Tuesday just to have drink with some of her friend. I would not ask her out again and not txt her again until she propose something.
If acting in a DJ way in the communication i think you will have your date, but will need to elevate the interest level

 

[BackInTheGame78]

There is more factor involve than what you gave us. And from my experience if you are smart at understanding ppl you can get a good read on where its gona go.
If you are that kind of person id trust my guts over the data.

Ive been told in the past a women was not interested and that i would not even get the date, i read her action and txt differently and was right. This is dangerous however because some ppl will brainwash themself to beleive their wishfull thinking. This got to come from a non bias rational, noneedy part of yourself.


Base on the Data she look medium interest at best. She push back Tuesday just to have drink with some of her friend. I would not ask her out again and not txt her again until she propose something.
If acting in a DJ way in the communication i think you will have your date, but will need to elevate the interest level

Honestly I view her meeting up with her friends that she meets up with almost every Tuesday as a positive not a negative. I don't want a person who disses their friends for a guy they met a few days ago. Those kind of women end up being the psychos that you need to run from.

I know that's not a popular opinion here where women are expected to drop their lives for us but I don't agree with it. They shouldn't and usually won't. At least not if they are stable.

Now as far as her interest maybe you are right. My gut tells me she is telling the truth and is interested. We will find out soon tho. If my gut is wrong I will admit it and give a breakdown of what happened.

 

[lamath]

Honestly I view her meeting up with her friends that she meets up with almost every Tuesday as a positive not a negative. I don't want a person who disses their friends for a guy they met a few days ago. Those kind of women end up being the psychos that you need to run from.

I know that's not a popular opinion here where women are expected to drop their lives for us but I don't agree with it. They shouldn't and usually won't. At least if they are stable.

I mostly agree especially when its only been a few date, but got to be careful that it does not go too far specialy if it turns into a ltr.

What is your gut telling you?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I mostly agree especially when its only been a few date, but got to be careful that it does not go too far specialy if it turns into a ltr.

What is your gut telling you?

That she is telling me the truth and she is interested and will reschedule. I'm interested in seeing how well I am reading the situation. Definitely could be another learning experience for me if I am wrong.

 

[lamath]

That she is telling me the truth and she is interested and will reschedule. I'm interested in seeing how well I am reading the situation. Definitely could be another learning experience for me if I am wrong.

You probably are right then , if it come from the right mindset your judgement should be good.



But with info given ppl will say its a waste of time. And that it wont happen.


Keep us updated.

 

[Trump]

She texted me on Monday and said how much fun she had and that she would like to do it again. I ask what her schedule was and she gave me 4 days. Friday and Saturday she told me she had a good friend coming into town and wouldn't be available. I only had Tuesday or Sunday free, so I suggested we meet up Tuesday.

Some would say its too soon but every time I have had the vibe I had with her with other women it always worked out well.

So I suggested Tuesday and she said she was usually meets friends for drinks that night but hadn't heard if it was happening or not. She said when she found out she would let me know.

Why didn’t she include Tuesday in the Friday and Saturday when she wouldn't be available? It tells me she was just testing you out to see how available you are.

Usually when girls text me that they had a “really good time.” I say “I did too.”

Fast forward to today and I text her about meeting up tomorrow afternoon and she says that her friend is planning to stay an extra day since they rarely see each other and she lives far away and if she wanted to do something she would have to reschedule for next week and hoped I understood.

I waited several hours to text back and said "Oh OK. Yeah that is cool, have fun with your friend and we can reschedule when you have a better idea of when you will be free."

This chick sure has a lot of friends.

I would have responded as below.

"Oh OK. Yeah that is cool, have fun with your friend and we can reschedule when you have a better idea of when you will be free."

Will she actually reschedule and will I end up seeing her again? I am not overly invested in the situation but want to use these as real life reports/interactions to help others if similar situations occur.

Sorry bro but who cares.

Text her next week and ask her to join you in something that you and her like (hopefully you found that out on the date when you weren’t making out); hockey game, circus, ice skating, skiing, whatever.

If she says yes, you go.

 

[Mazer]

Anything but a yes is a no, unless she counters w firm date/time”.
The old saying “I’ll let you know” is code for you will likely never hear from me again. She has low interest and she has better options. These women only get invited over for sex.