Got flaked on..

GrowingPains

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But it's not the end of the world.

Of course I was looking forward to it. A sexy, curvy Italian chick who's fun and sucks d!ck like a champ. Said she wasn't feeling like hanging out tonight 1 hour before.

I haven't had a flake before, so I zoomed over to trusty dusty SoSuave. I was curious was bradd80 had to say about it. The gems I was reminded of:

A Don Juan doesn't get upset with flaky behavior or other annoyances because he expects it.

A Don Juan has options so he is not overly concerned with one woman's actions.

So I told her to come over and we'll just watch a movie. Or if she meant she's not feeling it in general then I'd catch her another time.

She responded we will do another time. I just said 'fsho' and texted one of my plates. She's on her way over now.

Anyways, have options fellas. Don't freak out when one woman does something you don't like and generalize all women. That's not healthy.
Brad's says something to the effect that we should be taking her annoying actions as compliments. Because she's been talking game, hot and cold, push and pull with her girlfriends for years and the fact that she is using these techniques on you means she finds you interesting. I definitely paraphrased that so you can go read it for yourself. And idk if that's entirely true but hey... It's healthier than getting all upset about it.
 

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so she sucked off already before this or any fvcking?
 

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First off this is not a flake, she let you know that she cannot make it which was cool of her. Most guys would have nexted her but I would just have asked her when she would like to reschedule for. Sometimes girls do get cold feet.
 

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Women these days are shameless. What she did is considered honorable in todays world.

Sucks yeah, but you should have stuff you would love to do as well, even if it is something like catching up on sleep or a videogame.
 

GrowingPains

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@DJnoob last week she gave me head and a noice lil titfvck. She was on her period.

@Clamslammer I almost did. Well idk what I would've done. I read Bradd80's post and he mentioned most guys next too fast. I will reschedule with her later. It is a flake. Whether she was cool about it or not.

@MillionBillionaire true. I probably would've just gone to bed or hit the boys up. I was studying until the date so I was ready for some fun.
 

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ok. the Sexual attraction is obviously there..this is when the post physical attraction game comes.
 

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ok. the Sexual attraction is obviously there..this is when the post physical attraction game comes.
What do you mean by that? Not being overly interested?
 

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I wouldn't worry about it, ya already banged her so that's good. Sometimes I just don't feel like entertaining either sometimes, just a mood ya get once in awhile. I wouldn't give it a second thought
 

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I'm not so much worried about it. I was just posting. Maybe to inspire others to not be so ... jaded/let down.
 
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